| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/18/2008 12:39:58 PM | Let's see, my husband told me, after less than five years of marriage, that he didn't mind if I went outside the marriage for the sexual stuff he wouldn't give me, as long as he didn't know! Still, I was faithful to him for 20 years, until I gave up on the marriage.
I didn't even notice other men until near the end of the relationship. I guess some of us are cursed with monogamy!
Likewise, I could never be interested in a married man - I just don't think about them as available. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/18/2008 2:08:25 PM | I don't cheat. I've been polyamorous for years, but even then, I wouldn't consider getting involved with someone while dating someone else, without my current partner's consent. Part of the reason I have been polyamorous is because I wanted to be able to explore a bit, but to do so in an honest and ethical way.
I feel like I'm moving in a more monogamous direction at the moment. This is a Big Deal to me precisely because I take my commitments so seriously; if I agree to monogamy, then I will be monogamous unless my partner and I were to, with full consent all the way around, agree to change our relationship structure. I take these things very seriously and expect my partners to do so as well. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/30/2008 2:24:22 PM | proven fact more women cheat === they are just better liars and do not get caught !
women wanted equality , just like money = power guess what ;;; now they are smoking more than us ,,,
guess what they get more lung cancer than us ! also ! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/30/2008 3:11:44 PM | After 5 you should wonder that you are doing something wrong.
You werent doing it for them,they get it somewhere else .
They probably forgat to tell that they fall out of love.
They try to tell you but you were busy with your wedding plan.
Dont worry you can satisfy the one who are in love with you.
What you think of women arent very important if it`s base on your experience.
May be the only way you can ancre them is by being marry to them.
The law of attraction is real man.
Get over this. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/30/2008 3:53:34 PM | | Cheating doesn't have a gender attached to it. Both sexes do it and everyone has a reason. Perhaps the person is bored and their partner won't try new things. Perhaps the person feels neglected. Perhaps the person yearns for variety and the thrill of the hunt. Perhaps they are in a loveless relationship but don't want to leave cause there are children involved. I don't think it's fair to classify all women as cheaters nor to say that all men are either. It's purely situational and only the person doing it knows why they do. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/30/2008 4:01:40 PM | Sorry dude, women cheat, face the facts. I've been with wives, women with boyfriends, women who were engaged, older, young, middle aged. They cheat dude and any girl that tells you otherwise is a liar.
Yes, yes you are stupid for equating sexual pleasure to personal satisfation for a woman. They are much more complex than that dude. Women are always looking for a better deal especially in 2008 with the internet and cell phone technology.
But don't feel bad about getting cheated on, it happens to the best of us. And cheating isn't that serious. If you really want a woman, you don't care about what she does. I don't care if a woman shoots me in the chest. If I want her, I'll just be in intensive care and I bet you she'll there right next to me. That is how complex we all are.
Don't let your quest for the truth blind you. It isn't about trusting women. Trust your own instincts. You only said 5 women cheated on you. If you said 30 or 40, then you would have been on to something. So cheer up chum, you aren't doing that bad. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/30/2008 4:02:53 PM | | Personally I've never cheated but I know women who have. In all of these cases they were not being satified. I'm not talking physically satisfied mind you but emotionally. It's a pretty well known fact that men and women cheat for different reasons. Men step out usually because they are not feeling sexually satisfied with their partners. Women cheat because they are not feeling emotionally satisfied with their partners. So it really doesn't matter how good you make her feel between the sheets if you make her feel like crap outside of them. Oh and by the way just from reading your post I can tell you have alot of baggage surrounding this issue. You have obvious trust issues and probably go into each relationship thinking the girl is going to cheat so guess what? You attract girls who are going to cheat. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:08:01 PM | "Hit the hyman"?  You like virgins? Someone must have beat me to that punch already.
Hmmmm. I've been with faithful women the majority of my relationships - at least 90 something percent. I don't think I've ever been cheated on sexually but a couple times there was emotional unfaithfulness.
Are you perhaps attracted to the wrong type of girl? Are you looking for a diamond in the rough? Perhaps you shouldn't try so hard to satisfy them and just be yourself - get a personality. Be a stand up, stand alone man. Women don't generally cheat for sex. It's something else. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/15/2008 3:44:09 PM | I have never ,ever cheated on anyone, I TRULY BELIEVE IN "KARMA"..... If i need to cheat , then its time to go our seperate ways, i sure wouldnt want it to happen to me...
I have dated plenty of guys who have been cheated on, and for me, when the attention starts getting scarce, i let the guy know what im feeling.If he does'nt seem to care then buh bye.....
Guys just remember, theres always some other guy out there who is flirting and paying us alot of attention...... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:13:58 PM | | i do not cheat= never will. i believe in ending a relationship before i would be with another man. I believe in old fashion morals-even though i contracted herpies when i was cheated on. I still have my self respect and nothing can take that from me but myself. Personally i dont believe there is any thing that justifies cheating. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/15/2008 7:30:02 PM | | I was with the same man for 16 years, which were 4 of the most wonderful years of my life......lol........and never cheated. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/15/2008 10:17:05 PM | Well it is a crying shame that you have had such horrible experiences with women but please keep in mind that for every bad one you have had, there IS a good one out there too. You have just had the bad luck of not finding them yet. Also too, please keep in mind that for every one who has cheated on you there is a man who has cheated on their woman too. This is not about bad women or bad men, this is about people who are not right for each other.
Having said that I am a little curious as to how you could have fallen in love with 5 women to the point of getting engaged...that is a lot of engagements! I am just curious as to whether or not you "might" be making the same mistakes or poor choices over and over again? Which could be why you keep having the same problem? Maybe you are rushing into love with women who maybe you don't know well enough and are throwing caution away in favor of not being alone? I do not know you so I can only throw out shots in the dark.....either way, I hope you have better luck in the future and DON'T GIVE UP!!!  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/15/2008 10:47:45 PM | When i'm in a committed and exclusive relationship i have never, nor could i, ever cheat on my partner!! If there came a point where things were not working on all levels I would leave the relationship before pursuing another. If sex is lacking somehow then we'd have to sit down and have a chat.
Its my opinion that if you have great communication with each other both in and out of the bedroom you will find there is no reason to cheat. You also must be sure that the relationship isn't all based on SEX. Although sex is a HUGE part of any healthy relationship, it should not be the foundation or the relationship is sure to crumble eventually.
as always, just my opinion | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/15/2008 11:47:08 PM | That's like asking if all dogs bite.........Some do and some don't .
I bet the percent of cheating is much larger with the men..... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/16/2008 10:58:05 AM | But don't feel bad about getting cheated on, it happens to the best of us. And cheating isn't that serious. If you really want a woman, you don't care about what she does. I don't care if a woman shoots me in the chest. If I want her, I'll just be in intensive care and I bet you she'll there right next to me. That is how complex we all are.
OMG....tha's GOTTA be one of the DUMBEST statements I think I've ever read from someone in these forums...talk about not having a CLUE about wha's important and wha's not...JEEEEEZE!!!! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/16/2008 1:45:20 PM | | A Yahoo answers statistic said that 60% of men cheat and 40% of women cheat. A few more women cheaters and we will be equal | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/16/2008 8:54:58 PM | | i would love to but i have never cheated and never will its way to hurtfull to the female and male if the girl is cheating.. almost every girl i have dated has cheated on me and it never gets easier and would never want a woman to feel that way. So thoes who cheat why do you? the only thing that changes is the person and if you dont get a guilty feeling after you cheat whats wrong? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/16/2008 9:26:13 PM | I think if I'd been involved to the point of considering marriage with five different men, and every one of them cheated on me.......
.............I'd probably start thinking there was some aspect of my emotional makeup that was causing me to make bad choices when finding men to be involved with.
Same as a woman who has been abused is often abused by not just one man, but by man after man after man.....something about her (I'm not saying it's HER fault, don't misunderstand PLEASE!!!!!) is causing her to reach out to a TYPE of man who is prone to abuse.
Examine the type of women you get involved with, OP...what are the things they have in common? You may see a pattern.
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Posted: 5/17/2008 4:45:51 AM | | hello how are you doing love my name is stefan kostecki what is your name love i have brown hair blue eyes medium build 5ft5ince high. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 5:55:29 AM | There are men AND women who don't cheat.
These are the people who understand exactly what the words character, integrity and committment mean. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 6:06:36 AM | | Sometimes your life is Great at Home, but when it comes to Sexual Desires, Your husband just doen't do it for you so you look in other places to take care of those sexual feeling...I don't ever want a Relationship...Just a way to take care of my Desires.. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 6:29:05 AM | | u know wat mary4all i totally agree the only thing is am in the caribbean and u r far away too bcause i was thinking about organizing a work out plan for us say a six weeks program u know i believe its all in peoples mind if u think women cheat then they will and thats that. | |
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