| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 8:05:52 AM | Is anyone besides me just thoroughly amazed this thread is around THREE later? It just goes to show how much of an important topic this is, always current. Says something about our society now doesn't it. An awfull lot of people have been "cheated" on at one time or another..... it seems to be almost the norm. I personally, DO NOT, HAVE NOT, NOR WOULD I CONSIDER IT. I have too much respect for myself and my partner (don't have one right now though).
And don't fool yourself, once a cheater...... always a cheater !!
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 9:34:04 AM | | I am not a cheater! I believe to be in a great relationship u have to trust each other so u need to be honest with each other. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 10:51:58 AM | | First I would say you focuse to much time on the sexually part of your relationship. Believe it or not women want to feel needed for more then just a roll in the hay. How good you are or arent isnt the reason for your experiances. I would think you have just choose the wrong women. I'm sure you have more to offer, keep lookin it will happen and remember to always keep your own morals intact. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:36:04 AM | I have never been with a woman who has cheated on me.
Then again, I do whatever it takes to satisfy them, too!
Am I bragging?
Perhaps.
Am I being honest?
YES!
NO woman I have ever been with has NEEDED to cheat on me! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 11:55:57 AM | Ive been cheated on 3 times. 1 girl was banging my best mate! so i ditched em both, Ive never cheated on a woman. And there have been a few times the girl is cheatin on her bf with me.
In my first hand experience women cheat more than men | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/17/2008 4:00:16 PM | I have never been with a woman who has cheated on me.
Then again, I do whatever it takes to satisfy them, too!
Am I bragging?
Perhaps.
Am I being honest?
YES!
NO woman I have ever been with has NEEDED to cheat on me!
Ummm Maybe you just never caught them?????? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:03:02 AM | As to the poster who asked: Ummm Maybe you just never caught them??????
I have to respond in the negative.
Again, no woman has ever cheated on me.
No woman has ever NEEDED to cheat on me.
If you do what it takes to satisfy the woman then you do not have to worry!
I am sorry if this comes as a surprise or seems impossible to some guys but it is the truth.
WOmen who do not cheat are out there BUT you have to keep them happy! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:09:48 AM | ^^^^^^
Actually I have to agree with you.. I've never been cheated on, nor have I ever cheated... and none of my relationships ended because of sexual issues.. there are many OTHER things, but a good sex life is something I've always had with my partners. Most people of integrity would not cheat.. and even less those who have an understanding and exciting partner. (The trick is first choosing someone with integrity and honour)
A truly satisfied women will put up with quite a bit of crap.. silly, but true.
to a point
Oh.. if your BEST friend would fvck your girlfriend (or worse, wife) I would reconsider your definition of 'friend".. and definitely "best friend". | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/3/2008 11:17:02 AM |
There is NO WAY IN HELL I would ever cheat on my 'man'.... if things were that bad i'd leave.. and If he cheated on me.. his ass would be out the door real quick like :)
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:12:43 PM | I was married for just under 6 years. The last 3 years of that relationship did not include sex. Not once did I cheat on my ex, unless of course you consider masturbation cheating!
I continually told my ex that we were having a battery crisis, and that there were not enough batteries in the world to sustain our marriage, but still nothing. Hence why we are divorced!
So in answer to your question, YES there are women that DON'T CHEAT | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/3/2008 3:08:48 PM | I don't. Never have. Never will. I have to be able to live with myself and the decisions I make. I treat others they way I want to be treated.
I couldn't live with the guilt. I would feel horrible looking at another man, or enjoying an other man's company (in a noninnocent way), knowing I could hurt someone else's feelings. Even if they have treated me poorly.
If I want to be with someone else, I would let the other guy know or simply break off the relationship in favour of the other....whether it works out for me or not.
I would rather be hurt from losing a relationship than live with guilt of being decitful. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/3/2008 7:09:16 PM | | It goes both ways. Usually women who cheat do it once and they learn their lesson. Men I know who have cheated, continued to do so because hey, they got away with it! The more the merrier right? Depends on maturity level too I think. Are you looking for a partner for a lifetime or are you looking for that "feel good" feeling that may last a few months, maybe a couple years etc. I don't think you should let the behaviour of a few women cloud your judgement on the rest of us who are honest and open about wanting a monogamous relationship. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:30:41 PM |
Usually women who cheat do it once and they learn their lesson. Men I know who have cheated, continued to do so because hey, they got away with it!
I've known plenty of women that will cheat on a new b/f to get back at their last b/f for cheating on them, supposedly to do it first so they have ammunition for the eventual breakdown, there was 1 friend of a friend that cheated on her boyfriend because the boyfriend cheated on her once off, she "forgave him" and now she's cheated on him like upwards of 100 times allegedly, we're talking on a weekly basis with just random bar star men.
The point I'm trying to make is that both genders are guilty of being complete douche bags, the OP was obviously way over generalising, but I mean there's plenty of women who have gone the opposite way making women out to be more enlightened than their male counter parts which really isn't the case. Both genders are guilty, it comes down to the specific person. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/8/2008 8:12:52 PM |
As to the poster who asked: Ummm Maybe you just never caught them??????
I have to respond in the negative.
Again, no woman has ever cheated on me.
No woman has ever NEEDED to cheat on me.
If you do what it takes to satisfy the woman then you do not have to worry!
ROFL Now thats funny. 
Hyperbolic hubris and/or arrogance is more often than not hilarious.
Cheating often isn't about the person getting cheated on it is the person doing the cheating. Hate to put it to you bub but you could be as great or even greater than you imagine your self to be and there would be some women who would cheat on you. goes the other way too.
Just because you don't know it happened or even because your ego tells you it didn't happen doesn't mean squat.
Anyhow, women cheat and men cheat. Some because they can't get what they need others because they want something they can't get. No sense in having a tizzy over it.
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 6:22:57 AM | | Cheating happens with both sexes although in recent history women have climbed the ladder. Bottom line is that sex should not be a priority in a relationship. If all the important variables are there that form a truly loving relationship then sex falls into place, hence, cheating would never be considered. Form your relationship based on the more important variables then you will find great sex to happen on it's own and you two will be happy. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:18:46 AM | | You found a non cheater! I did cheat when I was in my early 20's and saw the devistation it caused and have remained faithful ever since. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:39:47 AM |
Form your relationship based on the more important variables then you will find great sex to happen on it's own and you two will be happy.
Finally! A man who understands. Will wonders never cease! I've been the victim of the other woman. And after 23 years of marriage it was devastating. Especially after he spent a lot of years swearing to me that if he ever felt the urge to cheat, he'd leave me first. Big dreams and empty promises. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:43:53 AM |
Big dreams and empty promises.
Great quote. Reminds me a little of "small town/big drama." I know exactly where you are coming from on the promise side of that! (Sadly!!)
~OT~ Cheat? Hell, I'd have to actually meet a man, date him, forge a long term relationship, and then find another one? Sorry ~ I don't have that kind of energy. I'd be hopelessly faithful out of sheer delight to finally have found someone that I mesh with. Cheating is for the weak of heart/mind/soul. It's within the cheater, not the cheatee!! JMO  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 8:50:02 AM | I agree with the general consensus of opinion, and have had my commitment tested thoroughly by an ex who cheated loads. I made sure he knew it was well and truly over even though that literally took him years to accept before I looked else where.
However, I have come to the opinion that some people just aren't made for exclusive life long relationships.
I would like to think that if somehow I ended up thinking that was me, that I'd own up to it before acting on it. Give the guy a chance to leave, leave him if I thought it was making him too unhappy. Find a compromise on what was ok and always remembering what's good for the goose is good for the gander!
Its not so much the going elsewhere that I find so unacceptable, its the doing it behind your partner's back.
Can't imagine being in that position myself, but I'm sure that lying and going behind backs is so not the way to handle it! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 9:52:22 AM | Couple of questions :
How many men out there cna hit the hyman and drive a woman insane?
Your sleeping with virgins, because the only way a woman has a hyman is if she is a virgin.
Have you ever asked the woman if you satify her, if there is anything she would like, or like to try, or do you just assume you're the bomb?
Comment;
If you assume all women are cheats then that is what you are attracting to yourself - cheats. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 10:06:31 AM | | Hah! This is a question that should been answered in about 5 seconds. There are women who don't cheat and there are men who don't cheat. Wanna hear a funny story about why I'm here on POF? Because I found out my wife had an account. The rest is history........ | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 10:15:38 AM | | I think once a cheater always a cheater. My ex husband cheated on me.. Even the last 2 yrs of our relationship I was unhappy but still did not cheat . You either have it in you or you dont . I thankfully and respectfully do not have it in me. Work on your issues or be honest with yourselfs and get out. Why hurt someone more than you have too. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/15/2008 10:42:42 AM | um yes!!
if i even start to be attarcted to other men, we either need to figure out the prob in our relationship or end it, but you dont cheat thats just selfish and dishonest and very unattractive, not to mention gross | |
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