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 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 626
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^^

and a lot of guys don't count banging azz as 'cheating' right, anal-0bsessive?

maybe your nickname should be assbag
 sugar62law
Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 627
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Posted: 1/7/2009 12:28:10 PM
I don't cheat. I am not sneaky enough....Never learned how....
 irishpixie_
Joined: 5/6/2008
Msg: 628
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Posted: 1/7/2009 12:36:19 PM
okay, hunny, first off,

stop rushing into things, clearly you are if you have been engaged 5 times. secondly, you are going after the wrong girls.

everybody has a pattern they follow when it comes to relationships, and in order to find that successful relationship, you have to break your pattern. i did, and i found the love of my life, although.. it's not going to well.

anyways, stop rushing into things. best advice i can give you.
 LonestarStar
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 629
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Posted: 1/7/2009 1:30:18 PM
maybe thats becuase the ones who asnwered here really dont cheat. There is woman all over the world that cheat but it does not mean the ones who answered here do. He does not know them to come to his conclusion.

Kitten, I'm aware of that. That's why I'm the one who said it yesterday.
You're obviously frazzled by your flame war, and it probably would have been better to let crazy ladies lie...
But here's my unsolicited advice for the day.
READ before you comment, and if you have an issue, use some logic when you reply. Not everyone is out to get you
It is, however, fun to watch people flailing around a spinning in circles. You've provided me with quality entertainment!
 artgie
Joined: 11/8/2008
Msg: 630
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 1/7/2009 1:49:48 PM
Holy Smoly!!!

Jeez I'd really like to know which hat these people pull these supposed stats from. Maybe someone has a hyperlink, with empirical knowledge? Not just a hypothesis but an actual theory!
 LonestarStar
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 631
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Posted: 1/7/2009 2:14:23 PM
^^^ Actually, I heard it on Oprah! How much more credible can you get?
In al seriousness, I've yet to find. A credible source on the internet to corroborate with - all I can offer you are sexuality textbooks and journal articles.
 sassy2butterfly2
Joined: 7/4/2007
Msg: 632
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Posted: 1/7/2009 2:28:37 PM
Yes I am and there really are some . But I have the same problem with men and if I find one that dont he is mean and abusive and controling and hates children or cant father. Well I have 4 and would not mind more but not with just any guy. I dont need a sperm donor.I have that covered .BUt I also find the other issue of manhood an issue he's either micro world or thinks he is such a stud and he is not or crazy weirdo that is so messed up you have to wonder what Steven King novel he came out of!I am not a one what was that lady either so if he is about just him no thank you.I wont just hop into the sack with just anything I really am not about sex but love making and that takes time and chemistry.Read those profiles.
 Snow Leopard 72
Joined: 12/6/2008
Msg: 633
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 1/7/2009 3:34:37 PM
Never have and never will, just the way I am and have always been.
 night4me
Joined: 12/1/2008
Msg: 634
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Posted: 1/7/2009 3:36:58 PM
apparenly there was something missing,not nesesary sexual.
 night4me
Joined: 12/1/2008
Msg: 635
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Posted: 1/7/2009 3:43:24 PM
But you believe in being in an abusive marriage?That deosnt make sense.I refuse to believe that people cheat on purpose,It happens when we are in a vonurable state of mind.
 kittenhere
Joined: 10/22/2008
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Posted: 1/8/2009 4:12:24 AM
...........You're obviously frazzled by your flame war

No actually im not. If he would stop saying dumb off the wall stuff I wouldnt have to reply to his crazyness.

...........use some logic when you reply

Thats the same thing I wish some of the other posters would use. All of my replies are full of logic. Is being logical in ur eyes like the post you write when your being rude to other posters??? Is that what your idea of logic is??
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...........You've provided me with quality entertainment

Im glad you have been entertained. Now its time for you to discuss the topic at hand which is not me and my replies.
 GEANNIE LaRHEE
Joined: 9/27/2008
Msg: 637
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Posted: 1/8/2009 10:56:30 AM
Ok so I admit, I've been a bad girlfriend in the past. Yes, I've cheated before. However, found someone and fell in love and decided I wasn't gonna F*ck this up this time. I remained 100% faithful. Turns out, he cheated on me, Karma's a b*tch I guess.
 windypace2600
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 638
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Posted: 1/8/2009 9:12:58 PM
I can honestly say that I have never cheated on anybody...

If I start having those thoughts... I start heading for the door...

bottom line, I wouldn't want it done to me so I am not going to do it to someone else.
 highlander_5
Joined: 8/22/2008
Msg: 639
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Posted: 1/8/2009 11:19:53 PM
1)Not to be insulting but your whole social network and/or the type of girl you like are questionable 2) who gets engaged 5 times? thats nuts did you think that maybe you suffocate them? dont ask a woman to marry you after three dates..she will cheat on you
 just_4_thehalibut
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 640
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Posted: 1/9/2009 6:18:06 AM
I've only been with 3 men in total...all long term...and each one of them cheated on me. I had opportunities to cheat on them, but would never think of it!! The emotions...hurt, pain, anger, etc.., I would never wish that on someone, nor would I be responsible for making another person feel that way! Some say it's not about the sex. Maybe not...I wouldn't know. I do know that it's a selfish act, and an extremely hurtful one, and yes, it makes trusting potential partners an issue. It took me a long time to get involved with the 3rd relationship as I was a bit gun-shy, but it blossomed and it felt great. Then, in June/08, he cheated.
I've learned that it had nothing to do with me as a person...I'm a good person who totally commits to a loving relationship. However, I do believe that it has a lot to do with my choice of men. So, that's what I need to change, and SpongeEric, I think you need to as well. It's unfair to categorize all women as cheaters or "evil". Thoughts like that WILL prevent you from finding "the one"! There are plenty of good women out there, you just need to slow down, take a closer look and you will find us!
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 641
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Posted: 1/9/2009 7:43:49 AM
The short answer to this question is no. With todays viewpoints, ADD society and lack of committment to pretty much anything it will happen about 90% of the time. The key is to find someone who is mentally stable, mature and willing to work at a relationship instead of just bailing like some pathetic child tired of an old toy. Unfortunately, this is about .5% of the North American population.
 Tallone4fun
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 642
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Posted: 1/9/2009 7:58:40 AM
Survey says 60% of men cheat and 40% of women. I think maybe the swingers have it right.
 Tuckers Dad
Joined: 11/20/2008
Msg: 643
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Posted: 1/9/2009 8:38:03 AM
Your first statement, [I'm, 3000000000% sure I can satisfy any woman] might be part of your problem I am guessing.

Satisfying women has nothing to do with simple sexual prowess. There are a million others things that satisfy women as much as sex unless your relationships are based on sex. Do you call/email/text just to say you are thinking of them? Do you make sure you leave the toilet seat down? Refill the TP and paper towel racks when they are empty? Do you ask how her day was, and truly mean it? Help with cooking, cleaning and laundry? If they have kids, do you let her take a day to herself and take the kids? Not only is this a good way to show care, love and respect, for its a sure fire way to get great sex later! LOL

Yes, there are some scum men and women who will always cheat. But in a true committed relationship where each is an equal, you will find less of this.

So, the answer is that there are lots of men and women out there capable and willing of being faithful. But if you only 50% to the relationship, your are doomed.
 slybandit
Joined: 7/10/2006
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Posted: 1/9/2009 9:13:36 AM
Pardon my presumption, but might I suggest the logic of expecting all of those cheating hussies to stand up and give you the insight you are looking for, is perhaps a bit suspect.

If it is really that big of an issue, date ugly girls: it is a crime of opportunity, after all.
 ClearlyAmazingM
Joined: 4/22/2007
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Posted: 1/9/2009 3:54:59 PM
So Right! Sumo Sumo

Number of women cheaters has increased......their point is, if men do it, why can't women. They have become better cheaters then men (Cover up their lies).

A trick.... to know if a woman cheats on you.... ask her directly, while looking straight into her eyes... her eyes will answer your questions.
 diamondgirl2727
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 646
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Posted: 1/9/2009 4:06:02 PM
Never have, never will, dont believe in it. Just wish I could find a guy who didnt cheat.
 LonestarStar
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 647
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 1/9/2009 9:00:06 PM

Most married women that cheat that are now considered "seperated" think that "seperated" means you can write off that you did it when married.


Where in the world do you get that from? That's more than a generalization - that's a complete fabrication. I have never met a woman who "wrote off" cheating when she was married once she filed for divorce.
That's not a loophole...that's a delusion.
My ”loophole” is that once I filed for divorce, I don't owe him anything. We may not officially be divorced, but it's a matter of working through the legal process, not an indicator of a commitment. But some people disagree.
 yepimstilllonely
Joined: 12/28/2008
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Posted: 1/10/2009 8:30:12 AM
I would never cheat on my partner, I would break it off first if I felt the desire to be with someone else. In the years I was married, I never cheated, never even crossed my mind until about the last couple years of our marriage., but I couldn't do it, not in me. I know my posts seem like I'm probably pretty damn honry...and that's true, but only to one at a time.
 Icanbsassy
Joined: 8/7/2007
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Posted: 1/10/2009 3:04:54 PM
I think that maybe you are attracted to the kind of woman who does cheat. Maybe you have issues you need to work on. Maybe dating a different type of woman and where do you meet these woman that cheat? Maybe these questions can give you some insight as to your choices on woman.......................YOU THINK?
 XoticDeeva
Joined: 4/10/2007
Msg: 650
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Posted: 1/10/2009 3:13:26 PM

I think the subject speaks for itself. I've been involved wth 5 women, and was engaged to these 5 women, and before the marriage, I found out they all cheated on me, which then, I ended it. Are there any women out there who DON'T cheat?


OP,
It sounds like you're running into women w/the same behavioral "trait's", and though you sound quite frustrated....you should be pleased to know that not every woman is the same, have you ever tried to find someone who's different than what you usually go after? maybe that would help.
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