| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/16/2009 3:47:13 PM | Men and women 'cheat' for a variety of reasons. From boredom to not getting their needs met by their partner. Most are simply immature and aren't honest enough to tell their partner they need more.
But also know that the red flags or warning signs are there. Many may simply prefer to ignore them or hope they go away.
~Beth~ | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/18/2009 3:56:01 AM | | Most women don't cheat. It's not in their make up to cheat so cheating is really unnatural for them to cheat. Just examine yourself thoroughly take a time out and get back in there man. There's plenty of women who don't cheat. Adjust your attitude because you get what you believe. If you think all women cheat you're going to get a cheating woman. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/18/2009 3:32:12 PM | | I was married over 18 years, seperated for over a year and never cheated. Cant say I didn't think about it during seperation though. But I am a big chicken to. Being with someone else after so long...... scary! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/18/2009 10:16:22 PM | I was surprised when I heard on tv the other day that 1 in 10 men cheat and 1 in 5 women cheat. I thought wtf? I guess women are saying "Hey if they can do it, why can't we?"
Women are better at it, they can lie better and do not tell a bunch of friends. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/18/2009 10:19:18 PM | | i would never cheat on a man just because it has been done to me and i didn't like the feeling. would not want to put a person through that ever. i feel the same, trust is gone and it is hard to gain that back in anyone after you have been cheated on. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/20/2009 8:26:29 PM | Yes, yes, there are women who don't cheat. 5 women don't equal the entire female population, as I'm sure you are well aware.
My guess is you need to look at the women you are choosing. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/20/2009 9:35:46 PM | I would leave a man rather than cheat on him.
I wouldn't like it done to me, so don't do it.
The guilt would eat at me too much. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/22/2009 2:50:28 PM | | then don't put up with it stress the fact when you first date! I've thrown out 2 cheating BFs one 6 months before my wedding day! I've never cheated and never will. I hold myself higher than that. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/22/2009 3:16:46 PM | I see this a lot with the people I counsel. I start to ask questions about patterns in choices the person who has been cheated on makes. After 5 it is time to evaluate and asses all the similar patterns. You choose a type of woman. Something about them was the same in all 5 something that attracted you... the only way to be 100% sure it doesn't happen again is to never date... but you can increase your odds by taking out a pen and paper and actually think about all the things that were the same with each of the 5 women. Not just the bad things that made it obvious they were cheating... but the things that attracted you too them as well. Make sure to write down ALL the similarities, behaviors, actions, but not looks because there are women and men of any look cheat not just the pretty ones. Common ones I hear my clients talk about are the speed in which things moved along, the amount of flattery given, the frequency of calls/texts..., those are a few things that seem to have no bearing on the situation but for those individuals when they put all the patterns together they found out what it was that was attracting them to the cheating type. Unfortunatly MOST of the people I have spoken to have been women who have been cheated on, only two males, and there is a difference in patterns for each person...
If you ever decide to try again I suggest you try finding out what the cheating women's commonalities were first and choosing a woman without those traits.
And whatever you do... don't chase her away with thinking she is cheating because the other women did. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/25/2009 12:48:53 PM | | I never have and never will. If I am unhappy in something, I will try to fix it or simply get out. Cheating is for the weak. And personally, I emotionally could not do it any way. Just the thought of it makes me ill. Cheaters come in both genders make and female. And I think people cheat for a number of reasons. More than what is on the surface. UNfortunatly I seem to attract liars....so I am now re evaluating what it is that I am choosing in these men, and making some changes. We are all attracted to a certain "type." Just that time to maybe do something different. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/25/2009 1:33:14 PM | I doubt if there are many,
Their hormones go up n down so much and they allways have an excuse for it too.
i.e. not paying them enuff attention, etc.etc.etc. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 4/25/2009 1:35:23 PM | Uh, never cheated on a single relationship I've ever had... just simply not in my nature to demean myself in that manner, so yes, we do exist.
Suz aka Sami | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/5/2009 1:34:00 PM |
I don't get it when people cheat, if they aren't happy, go find what will make them happy. if it's sexual, emotional, or physical. if you aren't being satisfied then maybe the problems are deeper?
never have, never would.
yea but they are no fun. cheating is a simple thing. people want other people and if they can have them they will have them regardless of current unwritten obligation.
don't sweat it. just grow a litte colder, and be a little more of a player/less of a nice (faithful?) guy and don't take things too seriously :)
either that or make sure she doesn't cheat/catch her in a flagrant act :). it can actually be fun | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/5/2009 10:44:53 PM | | I don't cheat but seem to find men who do, well only a couple did. And it wasn't because the sex sucked either, not sure what makes anyone cheat, man or woman, since we both do it. I would say that they weren't happy in the relationship or had no morals or that the relationship wasn't fulfilling some need they had on an intimate level. That's my best guess, but who really knows? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/5/2009 11:08:59 PM | | i have never cheated on any of my boyfriends.....serious or not. however i know a few who have cheated on me. i think its definatly not a male or female thing, its a thing that people who are selfish and immature do to make there self confidence go up while crushing the persons they are supposed to love. i think cheaters are weak pathetic people and your better then them. go with your instinct, it will always be right. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/5/2009 11:14:31 PM |
Are there any women out there who DON'T cheat?
Any woman who has been cheated on could ask the same about men.
Maybe you should try asking yourself why you keep dating & getting engaged to the same types of women over and over instead... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/6/2009 12:51:10 AM | | Never have...never will! Was married for, you can say 24 yrs, and even through the worst times, it never crossed my mind...now him, different story (when things we at their worst)....if you've been cheated on, you know how it feels. I always stay true to myself...I wouldn't want to be cheated on; therefore, I wouldn't do it to someone else! I agree with the post above...maybe you should ask yourself why you keep dating the same types of women? There has to be similarities between all 5 you were engaged to...hmmmmm..... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/6/2009 8:24:17 AM | | yes there are women out there that dont cheat i am one of them but i think its not u i think some women who cheat for attention. to prove to themselves they r still attractive. I could be wrong but the chicks i knew did it for that reason so dont hold it against youself. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/6/2009 10:46:13 AM | | In my experience its the other way around, Ive never cheated on anyone, It seems like guys are the cheaters. If either one cheats I think that means the relationship they are in isnt important to them. I dont put up with it. He cheats Im gone. If I dont do it, he should respect me enough not to do it either | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 5/6/2009 10:52:14 AM | Yes, there are a ton of us out there. You're simply attracted to the wrong ones.
Better luck next time. And I mean that sincerely! | |
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