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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/18/2009 6:35:59 AM | | I am a monagomous woman. I want a monogamous man. Cheating is out of the question. If I felt that way I would end the relationship. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/18/2009 9:31:26 AM | | I have never cheated on anyone I was with.....even when I was in an extremely abusive relationship. This goes for both physical and emotional cheating. My question is are there any guys out there that have the same philosophy? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/18/2009 10:03:45 AM |
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Yes there are women who don't cheat. IMHO, from reading your post, you continue to go after the same "type" of woman...specifically an adulteress woman. My suggestion is to work on understanding your behavior and make better decisions if you plan to have a LTR.
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/18/2009 10:19:49 AM | | Look, if you are having issues trusting women...you've got some issues that you need to work out before you try putting effort into dating. It's really unfair for you to get into a relationship with another woman bringing your baggage from your past relationships. What has happened to you sucks....unfortunately, there are women and men out there that have absolutely no morals, values or respect for themselves much less anyone else. Yes, there are women that don't cheat-I would say, figure out what it is that draws you to the women that do....and work on that and get over the trust issues-if there's no trust...you really have nothing. Are you accusing the women before they ever do it out of some insecurity-because the last one did....we are all human and a person is only going to take the punishment for the crime for so long before they make themselves guilty....jmo. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/18/2009 12:44:21 PM | | I have never cheated. I am a very assertive person though. If its not working out, end it... no need to keep someone hanging around! :) | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/18/2009 8:39:04 PM | We are responsible for the universe we create for ourselves...you might want to look at yourself and ask why do attract women who cheat on you...how soon do you ask them to marry you? 5 engagements ? sheesh...and NO all women DO NOT cheat! Nor do all Men for that matter!
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/19/2009 10:51:35 PM | All women cheat and all men cheat.It is a fact of life.Most happy couples chose to overlook it as long as it is not right in thier face.If they dont acknowledge it....it doesnt exist.
We as a race are not swans or loons.We dont mate for life in an exclusive manner.
A woman will open her legs for you if you say the right things.....married or not and what guy has ever turned down sex from the baby sitter when the wife is out of town and the young lady wants a "tip".
She may have eaten everything in the fridge and given your 6 pack of Rickards Red to the bf but she will **** you to make up for all of that.
Senseless really....we are creatures of habit and desire.One and all.
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 12:05:59 AM | | Swinging is also cheating too. If I was married, there would be no way I would let my husband have sex with another woman. When you get married, that is why you take a vow of forsaking all others, not vow to swing with others. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 12:39:21 AM | | If I were in love with a man no I would not cheat but if I felt the fellow was thru with me and moved on. I would consider moving on myself which is not cheating. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 10:52:32 AM |
forgot to add... not all women are the same hon.. you cant put us all in the same lineup and distrust all of us...
Why can't we lump all women into the same line up and distrust them all? Women do that to men all the time. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 11:13:47 AM | We cannot lump women into the same line up, paint them with the same brush because everything in life is a double standard when it comes to men and women.
Men have no valid reasons for cheating
Women do have valid reasons: sex is bad, lack of attention
Women are just way better at hiding it from men. Women will only tell a select few close friends. Most times ones who have done the same.
Men will tell almost all of thier friends, and then someone will end up telling someone else, and it then comes full circle.
As they say us men are dogs, women are cats.
Dogs are sloppy, loud
Cats are felines that are sleek, curious, sly | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 1:30:59 PM | | I would never cheat and have never cheated...NO way...when trust is gone your relationships knackered. If you REALLLLLLLLY get the pull towards someone ( after all your in a relationship not dead haha ) then discuss it with your partner. Usually from what i know the thought of NOT being able to have someone makes you want them...when you air this lust it kinda loses its power over you..or hey if your lucky enough to both be trusting you could have a legal cheat! lol...but remember it has to go both ways! one cant play away without letting the other. :) | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 4:06:16 PM | I was in a relationship for 15 years and became progressively unhappier as time moved on. He would not commit even though I lived with him and wore his engagement ring on my left hand. He became angrier and more bitter as the economy worsened and he watched his investments flow down the drain. I had plenty of reasons to cheat ~ lack of love, lack of physical affection, lack of emotional backup and I was terribly, terribly unhappy. During this entire time I never, ever cheated on him because for better or worse I was living with him, I loved him and I had committed my heart to him.
So in answer to your question ~ yes there are women out there who don't cheat. We are just overshadowed and painted with the same brush as those who do. For women like me, loyalty means everything. Unfortunately, for most women, loyalty never comes into play. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 4:11:21 PM |
Men have no valid reasons for cheating
Women do have valid reasons: sex is bad, lack of attention
and why wouldn't those be valid reasons for a man to cheat???
That's some crazy logic you got going!
There is no valid reason to cheat.
There are valid reasons to end a relationship. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 5:10:22 PM | What else did these women have in common? Were they alcoholics, sex maniacs, drug addicts, hookers, etc. When did they mess around on you? How do you know, a good friend that is secretly jealous of you?
I have read too many threads lately that once you stop dating and are exclusive you are supposed to act like you are married. It is no wonder so many are afraid of commitments.
I also wonder about all the negative comments about the opposite sex such as men only want sex, women only want men with money, men only go out with Barbies, women only want men that look like Brad Pitt, etc. I hope it is because those are the only interesting threads and people really aren't this negative or sex starved etc. irl.
Life is too short not to enjoy it and if you can find that special person to share it with that is honest, so much the better. Not every man or woman is that sex starved or a liar. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 5:11:11 PM | | I think you did not know your five women very well. What do you call "cheating" and how much time was there between each woman? It doesn't have anything to do with you, spontaneous intimate encounters are just a matter of happenstance, usually initiated by the man. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 5:46:24 PM | When a couple agrees to date each other exclusively and be sexually monogamous, any deviation from this is cheating.
If a person is looking to see if the grass is greener on the other side that is a clue that there are problems in the relationship. Either address the problems with your significant other, or get OUT of the relationship.
Cheating will not accomplish anything. It won't solve the problems in the relationship or make you feel good about yourself.
I have never cheated. I woud leave long before it got to that. My first choice though would be try and fix the problem in the realtionship that was causing me to have a roving eye in the first place. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/20/2009 7:55:48 PM | Many women can completely commit to a good man. It's either the way you treat them or your choice in women.
Ponder/reflect on this issue and then you can learn to pick the right one for you.
Once that's done..... you will be very happy. | |
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