| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/20/2009 8:03:39 PM | | When I'm in a relationship, I am true to my man. Even when I am not looking for something serious, I only need one FWB. I'm terrible at lying and I'm sure I would have trouble keeping my stories straight if I had to juggle more than one man -- so the answer to your question is YES, there are women out there who DO NOT cheat. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/20/2009 8:59:22 PM | | I would not cheat, ever. If I am unhappy I will end it, but no man deserves that treatment, just as I hope no man will ever treat me that way. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/20/2009 11:45:19 PM | | I have actually NEVER cheated on any of my dates or bfs. That's just a hot Jerry Springer moment kinda mess and I'm not wanting to have that kind of circus life with a man I'd like to call my own one day. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/21/2009 1:35:42 AM | | Guess I've been lucky. I've never cheated on any one or been cheated on. Sounds like first of all YOU have issues with insecurity (engaged 5 times) and pick the wrong type of woman. You need to fifure out who you are and what you want and need first!! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/21/2009 2:27:37 AM | Since this is a multi page thread, I'm going to presume someone has already pointed out that you are the one common denominator in all of these relationships. There is no way your picker is functional, if you in fact can satisfy your lady, and you keep choosing women who cheat on you... Why would you keep repeating the cycle? Is it really to avoid getting married despite pretending to want to? M | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/21/2009 7:37:08 AM | | Maybe the KIND of women you're attracted to (sexually wild) are the KIND that cheat. Go with a more, boring conservative type and see what happens. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/21/2009 2:13:13 PM |
Maybe the KIND of women you're attracted to (sexually wild) are the KIND that cheat. Go with a more, boring conservative type and see what happens.
Oh yes because your grandmother would never cheat on you. Plenty of women out there are faithful, you just have to find the right one.
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/24/2009 12:54:55 PM | I dated a woman who told me she cheated on her husband before they got divorced. In her mind she seemed to think that it was okay because their marriage of 25 some years was over. She remarried and redivorced. But she was striking up dates before she was divorced the second time.
After we broke up, I wanted to reunite. She said that I had to "earn her trust" to which I replied, "You're the cheater, it should be you who needs to earn my trust". Once a cheater, always a cheater. Why would any man with any backbone, put up with a cheating woman? | |
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| Cheaters don't reserve any respect at all! Posted: 6/24/2009 3:04:28 PM | | It occurred to me after I made my last post on this forum subject that I should have posted that Cheaters are undeserving of the human dignity of kindness that we express to others. Cheaters place little if no value on trust others bestow upon them. Do a cheater a favor and tell them you wouldn't tade their values for a bucket of warm spit! | |
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| Cheaters don't reserve any respect at all! Posted: 6/24/2009 6:02:45 PM | *Wonders if anyone else has noticed that the original post was dated April 2005.* I wonder if this guy is even on POF anymore
As for me, I have never cheated on a significant other, and I always told them upfront that if I get to the point where I'm THAT unhappy and wanting to find someone else - I will tell them. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/24/2009 8:46:28 PM | | Are there any women who don't cheat? Yes. You just aren't attracted to them, you are attracted to "bad girls". FYI, cheating is not always about sex.......... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/24/2009 9:21:46 PM | Stupid question, of course there are. Just like there are lots of men that don't cheat.
If you're having such bad luck then its probably not luck at all. Do you have any close female friends? If so, ask them what they think you like in a woman. Perhaps the type you are chasing after is also the type that cheats and its time to apply the talents of the upper head for a change. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/24/2009 9:22:28 PM | I mean, How many other men out there can hit the hyman and drive a woman insane sexually?
Honey you can only hit the hymen once, and that's in a virgin. You need to learn a little more about sexual matters if you think you're hitting the hymen every time you have sex. Look, I don't cheat on my man, and it's not just because he satisfies me sexually. It's also because he treats me with respect, dignity and love. He opens doors for me, surprises me with little gifts, has never let me pay for a meal ( even though I try to pay) loves to go shopping with me, will watch a stupid chick flick with me even though he hates it, and then hold me while we watch a scary movie. He loves the fact that I am a shoe nut, and then in turn lets me spoil him back. He loves my cooking, the clothes I pick out for him, the expensive sheets and comforter I bought him ( he has learned to like good sheets!) and all the good wines I have introduced him to. He spoils me and I spoil him back. With a relationship like this, there is no reason in the world I would even think of cheating. I would be the world's biggest idiot to do so. Maybe you should look at your past relationships and see what the common denominator in all of them was and see what you can do to change it....I think you will find it is you. Beth | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/24/2009 9:52:13 PM | Soul: If so then I question the claimed results. I've done that with one girlfriend and she found it quite painful (she was small and it was a deep penetration position - no long dong silver here). One girlfriend does not constitute a scientific survey of course... Perhaps thats another thread topic?
I'm thinking G-Spot not cervix or hymen. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/25/2009 8:45:30 AM | | Yeah, there are way too many posts for me to read them all right now so I will just state my answer. I would never EVER cheat on my man under any circumstance. I am 100% faithful and I just don't understand why anyone would want to cheat on the first place? I am a very monogamous person and will stick with my man as long as he will stick with me. If my man ever cheats on me? I will forget him just with a snap of my hands even if I was in love with him... You can't be IN LOVE and cheat on someone.. that is just rediculous. Just my answer and opinion | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:01:19 AM | | Nope. I've never cheated. I look at like this: if I'm in a monogamous exclusive relationship with someone cheating is not an option. I'm not respecting the relationship if I do otherwise. OP, please don't paint all women with the same brush. You can and will find a woman who values monogamy the same as you do. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:32:16 AM | Somehow, I get the feeling that if the thread's title was... "Are there ANY women who do CHEAT?, there wouldn't be so many testimonials.
It's a dating site for chrissake. Who's going to advertise infidelities here?  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/25/2009 9:45:12 AM | i know i am going to catch hell for this one. and let me say first off this is jsut my opinon and not anything scientific. now here goes we all cheat in one form or another. ladies you say you dont cheat, but if you are with someone and you see the guy with the nice tight pants on and look at his butt and think oh man thats a nice butt, you have cheated. If you all watch porn ( as i do) and think man that woman can move or that guy knows how to do this you have cheated. guys if you have ever even thought about a womans breast size and or crotch you have cheated. if you have ever thought oh man that gal knows how to treat a man or this guy knows how to treat a lady you have cheated. the minute you look you have cheated, unless you are in a swinger and or open realtionship then its not cheating. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 6/25/2009 10:09:31 AM | Aahahahahha ....Its been quite amusing reading this thread and I felt I needed to throw in my own 2 cents so, for what its worth, here it goes...always remember karma is the great equalizer!! we may think we will escape it or it doesnt matter...but in the end it gets us all....I for one have never cheated period...period...and I would never disrespect myself in such a manner...there are lines in life/relationships that I just dont cross. Maybe thats what it comes down to...self respect.
have a groovy day and play nice in the sandbox kids....venus | |
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