| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:22:49 AM | I'm a woman that doesn't cheat. Sounds like you keep running in to the SAME type of woman. Cheating is a choice, it never JUST happens, that is a load of bs. Make sure you lay it all out in the beginning. You want a monogamous relationship and any break from that will mean the end of the relationship. Its hard to trust again after something like that(been there couple of times myself). It takes time but you can't go into the next relationship blaming your new partner for the last one's ignorance.
Its not all about sex for us. There may be something lacking and the women get that elsewhere and stick with for the sex. I'm not trying to be mean or place blame, just being honest. Great sex is enough to keep us coming back but not enough to make us stay. There has to be more and I believe this to be true for both men and women.  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/27/2009 10:47:46 AM |
However, something to note -- not all people believe in that philosophy and you can't make them do so. Some justify it in their minds "if I'm not getting what I need from him/her, and I can't communicate it, without saying it, then, I'll find it elsewhere". By doing so, they're taking that chance on losing the person, but sometimes they're willing to take that chance.
Yes, some of us are.
Its not all about sex for us. There may be something lacking and the women get that elsewhere and stick with for the sex. I'm not trying to be mean or place blame, just being honest. Great sex is enough to keep us coming back but not enough to make us stay. There has to be more and I believe this to be true for both men and women.
The reverse can be true as well. There can be sex lacking, but one can be willing to stay for all the "more."
I have a friend who says marriage ruins sex. After marriage you are too wrapped up in the day to day living, working, etc. to stay physically attracted to you spouse.
I laughed at the time, but I see his point.
 
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:41:21 PM | Be picky!! Engaged 5 times?? Yikes, have the qualities you MUST have and dont' compromise on them. I just started dating @ a year ago. I have certain qualities which I must see or I won't even consider going out with a man. I've eliminated many before I'll even go out with them.
I have never, and would never cheat on somebody I was in a relationship with. I'd never even consider it.
Sounds like you need to pick better women. there's plenty of us faithful types out there, you just seem to pick the unfaithful types. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:58:00 PM | Won't cheat, won't put up with it. Period. So the answer is YES of course. Sorry this happened to you. But maybe you are picking a certain kind of woman. Don't know why but you would be like a lot of us who repeat patterns. Try to see what the pattern is and break the pattern in yourself instead of blaming all women....which you know is not right.
Why do they do it? Why don't you know why they do it? It should be obvious. They want want they want and they don't chose to consider right or wrong first. What happened in your life that you are stuck on this issue. Maybe once you answer that question you will break the pattern. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:02:00 AM | I never have cheated, and I never will. It's something I feel very strongly about.
Yes, there are women out here who don't cheat. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:47:30 AM | I have never cheated on my man, and NEVER would. I was cheated on, and would never want someone else to feel like I did. If it's over, it's over. Men cheat, women cheat. It's not gender specific ! It's all a matter of values, and maturity, and remember: No Expectations = No Frustrations. Hope for and do your best, and don't let the stupid s**t-for-brains get to you.  Difficult, I know. But as you can tell by all the replies on this thread, alot of us have been through it. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:37:22 PM | | Of course there are women that don't cheat. I'm one of them. Never cheated on anyone. Not that people believe me because in todays society its hard to believe. But i haven't. If I'm with someone i have respect for them. Cheating is disrespectful | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:47:06 PM | | Never cheated...never had any desire to cheat..If its not working, end the current relationship first before moving on. Maybe you need to take a look at the kind of women you are choosing to be with. I don't necessarily think cheating always has to do with not being satisfied sexually in their current relationship. Some women and men just do not commit...for lots of reasons. But please don't put us all "in that category" | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/1/2009 6:57:22 PM | | My grand father used to say: "any mule is capable of kicking, any dog is capable of biting" and i think that giving the right place the" right guy", any woman can be seduced, just a thought!, Ive heard the words" I would never" too many times to know better lol. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:42:46 PM | | If a man is able to commit to me I would never cheat on him. sounds like you had some bad luck. sorry to hear about it. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:52:48 PM | whenever you find a woman you really like you have to do some background checking beforee you get engaged. the best resources are old high school friends, they are the most honest people, they will tell you exactly how they were in high school.
once a hoe, always a hoe. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:57:57 PM | Given that there are tons of women who cheat, isn't amazing that every woman on this thread claims to always be faithful?  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:28:10 PM | OK Cheaters form a line over here near the naysayers, and Non-cheaters form line away from the Cheaters. Wait a minute! Why are there Non-cheaters trying to cut in line?! Funny, there are no linejumpers in the Cheaters line... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:31:33 PM | I have never cheated. I never shall for the simple reasons that I am arrogant and self-centered. I view cheaters as cowards, morally deficient and lacking in self discipline. I am not therefore I do not cheat. 
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 12:44:54 AM | Here is what I think and is very true.
I think women cheat when only they are feeling neglected and not loved as much anymore. Say you give so much love within first couple months within relationship but as a working man as time goes by you can't always have time to show tha tlove non-stop its part of life. Women as what women do best over analyze things too much and start thinking they are not beautiful enough anymore or some other boll and thinking that is why their man doesn't show love for her anymore. So she then tells her problem say to another guy which obviously any single guy will then start feeling sorry for her tears and complaints and start how beautiful she says or practically anything to get her in bed which most of the time works when a girl is that vulnerable. So bam it happens.
For men: they cheat because they are men. They can be happily in love the girl can be the best but still nature takes over and the guy cheats.
So all in all I think most women and men cheat but the causes are completely different.
What a sad human race we are :( LOL
And you know I'm right just hate to admit especially those in a relationship LOL | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:12:04 AM | I am sorry to hear this, I am not a saint myself... (in my 20's,young,stupid) however I would never cheat because I have to much self respect and feel that I am better then that. A cheater is someone without morals and values for whatever their insecurities are they don't see how hurtful and inconsiderate it is to cheat. I have never attracted cheaters so I have no fear of being cheated on. I suggest you find out why you are attracting these kinds of women and when you work on setting your limits you will meet the right woman, one that deserves an honest loving committed man. Good luck | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:58:32 AM | Sorry to say pal. I think this is a pile of B.S
And I will add, it is quite possible some women cheat, but on the whole,the man is the cheater.. 5 women cheating in a row,all engaged. Sounds like a Jerry Springer show....... | |
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