| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 7:05:48 AM | It's not just women. Mn are horrible cheaters too. It's the induviduals choice. And anyway, u can be that good in bed sice u have no Idea what your talking about. The hymnen is the thin layer of skin that covers the vagina and is most otter broken during first intercourse , hence the pain and bleeding that can occur. I think your reffering to the illusive g spot.
And your shouldn't talk yourself up.
As well as cheating, women often fake it to make you feel good. :)
you obviously aren't a good judge of character. If youve picked 5 cheaters. You chose them. I feel sorry for you but surely you can tell who they are. Stop choosing the bad eggs!! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 8:46:30 PM | Sorry ladies, but women lie just like men do. There are many, many examples in here not to mention the countless women I have messed around with in my checkered past involved with or married to others.
FACT: cheating is WEAK behavior. It diminishes you as a person in that what you did or do is so repulsive that you cannot even talk about it. What kind of a life is that? If you're looking around for action in a committed relationship, TELL the other person. Do it and THEN look around. Don't hide your existence. It's weak. Plus it's weak to not have the balls to talk about what's going on with you, regardless of how it'll hurt their feelings (my general excuse). Be proud of your life and who you are, otherwise, why do it? I am talking to both sexes as well.
I, myself, have cheated in the past, so I am not speaking from a pulpit. I am not perfect. Thing is, the reason I don't cheat now isn't because "I wanna be a good man," or "I don't want to disrespect her." It's all about me. I don't cheat because I don't want to be a weak person and I couldn't help but see myself as one were I to do that again and b.) It makes me much better at committing in that I will not commit to someone for whom I do not care enough as I have in the past. Basically, I won't "settle" and I certainly will not remain where I am so continuously unhappy that I feel trapped. Certainly didn't make me happy before, I can tell you that.
I have bright hopes for the future and I give props to those who have the fortitude to own up to their own truths. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:04:21 PM | Also the people who are saying that men cheat more are incorrect. The answer is we do it about the same amount. Or, I should say, in the same percentages. Women, however, tend to be single offenders where as men tend to be repeaters.
Good news, though, from MSNBC:
"Even among couples that have been together for more than 30 years, four-fifths of women and two-thirds of men report being faithful during the entire relationship. " | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:05:51 PM | There are women who cheat like hmmm my ex wife!lol But I did get lucky that my next one didnt she treated me great! Men cheat alot! Just to feel good about what they did! Women do it for attention! And you have to be carefull not to put it on the next person your with! And for the guy who wrote this thread...Not to be rude but you should stay away from women for awhile and mybe work on yourself! There is nothing wrong with doing that,So when you get to number 6 CLOSE THE DEAL! =) | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:10:13 PM | Incuubus2113-
Nice that at least you have the balls to admit that you cheated, unlike at least half the women on this thread who have jumped on the defensive. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:14:37 PM |
Incuubus2113-
Nice that at least you have the balls to admit that you cheated, unlike at least half the women on this thread who have jumped on the defensive.
Not our problem, is it?  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 10:05:40 PM | The title should read is there any one out there that would not cheat.
But if you have had this happen 5 times , look at each relationship that it has happened to,and see if a common problem , be open about how you treated the women , how you acted around them and others, did you do any thing they may have found off putting,
Make changes in your self that may have lead to them go, Put your self in the girls shoes and look at your self and see if you were some one else what would you like dislike about you
Ok if you been honest with your self and can`t see any problems your end , think of the women you dated , were they very similar in personality or were all so called really great looking chicks. Ask what attracted you to them , because alot of guys go for an easy lay ,but an easy lay may wonder alot .
Because people seem to have at tendancy to go or attract similar types of people.
It may have been faults on both sides so change the types you ask out , make honest changes to you and see what happens
If you still can`t see why they cheated try asking them what went wrong and take on any critisium they may give you,
Any and all relationships takes work and both parties must trust the other, they must repect each other ,and dont take for granted. Dont make them your property.
Share and be honest with each other | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 11:34:13 PM |
Nice that at least you have the balls to admit that you cheated, unlike at least half the women on this thread who have jumped on the defensive.
So, if it happens that it is true that we haven't cheated...we are automatically assumed to be lying just because you know some women who have...isn't that similar to saying all men are lying when they say they aren't looking for just sex...because we have known men who did and are?
I'm sure that some women ( and men) who have wouldn't be advertising it..but, I also think they would just be less likely to post on this thread, rather than lie about it..the real implication seems to be that all women and liars and cheats...and you can't take anyone at their word because of your pre conception that all women behave like the ones you have known..I'd say some may be lying, but, most, probably aren't..just like in real life I know more good people than bad...I tend to think it is also true of most posters...
Of all the women I know very personally/intimately...I only know of one who cheated...well, two if you count swinging as cheating...lol...but , he knew then...so, my assumption would be that more don't than do..regardless of what the statistics may say..they don't poll everyone in the country..it is a sampling... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/21/2009 6:08:59 AM |
I'm sure that some women ( and men) who have wouldn't be advertising it..but, I also think they would just be less likely to post on this thread, rather than lie about it..
Only a few cheaters, I suspect, brag about it. Lol
Of all the women I know very personally/intimately...I only know of one who cheated...well, two if you count swinging as cheating
At best, you (or anybody) can only offer is a "sampling", and even then, what makes you think none of your friends ever lie? lol
In their minds all women cheat
Yeah, but so do I (well, I'm single, so it's just violating others without their knowledge, lol), so I don't point fingers. Lol. I kinda blame Jimmy Carter for this seemingly excessive sensitivity (even though he had some biblical authority for punishing himself for, "I have lusted in mah heart"). | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/21/2009 7:24:06 AM | | Yes there are women who dont cheat what a stupid question!!! I can honestly say I have never cheated on a person in my entire life. I think it is unfair to cheat. I have dated another guy while separated from my husband while he was still living in my home. But that is not cheating we were separated!! If you are going to cheat you shouldnt be in a relationship... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/28/2009 12:17:26 AM | | ive never cheated on anyone.. although in some past relationships i probably should have.. they were cheating on me but i just couldnt bring myself to do it .. alot of women dont cheat but its finding the right ones.. and im sure you have plenty to offer so one day you will meet the right one ... dont stop trusting all women i made that mistake with men and i regret it because ive built a wall around myself and im having a really hard time taking it down.. you shouldnt put yourself through that just wait and she will come to you | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/28/2009 1:43:00 AM | | Your doing the right thing for dumping them but.Not all women are the same ,just like all men arent the same.Just be careful NOT to set yourself up again.Watch for the signs per say.And most of all,DO NOT fall so quickly and yes.We all have fell way to quick,way to soon.Get over it and move on man.Your the one that has morals.BTW-I'd go get checked by the doc just in case. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/28/2009 5:07:37 AM | | I never have and I never would. I spent 8 yrs with a man who was impotent. It never crossed my mind. It wasn't why I left in the end either. I wouldn't tolerate cheating either. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/28/2009 11:11:13 AM | | yes I have been loyal and faithful for 31 almost 32 yrs. and he has cheated on and off for at least the past 15..and that is probably only what I know of... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/29/2009 4:58:26 AM | | Half of all fathers are not the biological father of their own children. Women cheat and they lie about much more serious life changing things than men do. Can a man convince a woman a child is hers when it's not? No. Women routinely cheat on men, oh and remember guys according to women "same-sex affairs aren't cheating". Women have constructed a public persona that enables them to automatically be thought of as innocent, kind and caring, etc. The true scale of women's cheating and sexual behaviours is yet to be known, it's why they work so hard at demonising men at every turn, it keeps the heat off their back. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/29/2009 9:52:21 AM | | I can understand being a little gun shy at this point. I personally could never cheat, but I have been cheated on. The problem is once u have been cheated on or hurt everyone else has to pay for the mistakes of the others. If u are accused of the crime enough u finally break one way or another. Some people commit the crime just because they are tired of being accused falsely. Some people walk away from it figuring they can never truely get out from it and earn ur trust. It is difficult to find the ones that are willing to prove u can trust them. Holding it against all of us wrong, yet how can u help it? I have found my way though placing the blame on all of u for the mistakes of in my case 1 man. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 1:58:20 AM | | I have never once cheated on someone...because I know what it feels like..I would'nt wish that pain on my worst enemy.. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 2:06:45 AM | | I think the common theme for the OP in his situation was HIM. Not all women cheat, but perhaps he attracts women who are sexually driven who need more than one man (no, I don't think its right... just voicing an opinion). Much like women who jump from one abusive partner to another. Perhaps they feel they don't deserve any better, or perhaps they only attract that type due to their personalities and submissive nature. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:25:44 AM | | I have never cheated nor would I.....BUT.....I would like to bring up something to the women that do cheat......There is such a thing called cuckolding and there are many men into this.....So instead of cheating on people behind there back and someone getting hurt why don't you try this instead?......There is no reason to cheat and hurt someone. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 9:22:55 AM | I agree with Furious... my husband and I are in that situation. He has a low sex drive, not much interest and its not a true cuckold situation but if more people were honest (men AND women) there would be a decrease in cheating.
My husband doesn't view me with others as cheating since he knows. Its not for everyone but hell, its available out there if you look with purpose. | |
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