myxtup
| Joined: 3/29/2003 Msg: 76 | |
| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 4/24/2005 12:06:01 PM | Well, I guess I can admit, I have when I was a lot younger. So how does it feel? The guilt does eat you up and so long as you don't admit it. It's always there and it does bug you. So you don't do it again. Then years down the road, the person you are with does it to you and then you REALLY know what you did to that person so many years ago. I guess life is a bit about learning.
Back to the original post. I know there is, you just have to look hard. I know a lot of women who do. I know a lot who don't. The significant difference is age and attitude. There are a lot of women who just want to hurt because sometime in their lives, someone hurt them and they have nothing better to do except execute their revenge. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 4/24/2005 1:55:33 PM | | <------- NOT A CHEATER....been cheated on one to many times....if i wonna be with someone else ill tell my man and we'll end it together before anything happens...if im in a relationship im in it for the hopes of a future and there is no way i'd do anything puposely to end it.. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 4/24/2005 2:24:50 PM | @brawny...
i agree, cheaters suck period, male or female.
i know what it feels like to be cheated on, i could never, and would never, put someone else through that kind of hell... bad karma anyway!! which is also why married/already involved men need not apply either.
in my social psych course, some research came forth regarding this issue, male vs. female, 50 yrs ago, 30, 10, current. women are catching up, men are staying about the same.. 76% of men, 54% of women. and we all know statistics are deceiving. it could be higher/lower depending on the criteria used, number of people surveyed, location of survey, etc. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/26/2005 10:14:48 PM | | i totally agree with the theory above , unless their are circumstances of being scared with ur man . i mean their are psychos out their. but otherwise yes if your not happy why not do what u need to do to make yourself happy and cheating never makes anyone happy!!! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/26/2005 10:16:46 PM | | i would have to say yes. we all have problems in a relationship but if u r just plain unhappy leave dont cheat. but then there are always those bad relationships where some people are so unhappy and they cant get out of it . but cheating is still never an answer to happiness, which is what life is about being happy!!!!!!! | |
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gabbyT
| Joined: 5/18/2005 Msg: 81 | |
| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/26/2005 10:29:32 PM | | I dont think all women cheat just like I dont think all men cheat. I personally left a relationship ( ex and I) because it wasnt working. If you are going out with someone, then stay faithful to that person. If you find that it isnt working then move on. That is just my opinion. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/26/2005 10:35:26 PM | There are lots of women out there that don't cheat !!
Cheating is for cowards !! ... If you want to be with someone else, always end the first relationship before starting a new one !! Woman or Man !! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/26/2005 10:44:35 PM | | after 12 yrs and 3 children my now xwife announced a 3 yr long affair with a younger man the pain i felt was undiscribale and i still feel its effects I could never put someone i love trhrough such pain | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/26/2005 11:00:23 PM | | I afraid many "protesteth too much, me thinks." I counselled most of my life and from what I learned: it was the same for both partners: mentallly, everytime they made love together. Regards Francois | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 8:27:11 AM | You know we have to thump on you for that one. Id been married 24 years.I am now 38 1 year after divorce I finally gave up and went on.Id been with same man that long.WHY because he satisfied me. I had no reason to.  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 8:34:23 AM | | I'm sure there are women out there that dont cheat. But whne I find one that i am interested in I'd like to frame her! | |
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jdw1
| Joined: 6/14/2005 Msg: 90 | |
| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 9:43:01 AM | all my girlfriends r serial daters they all fuk behind their mans baks!!!! me on the otha hand am an open book, i serial bed hop!!! yet when in a relationship i am 100% faithful, but hey guess who gets branded the ho!!!! lol | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 10:36:32 AM | | it's that type of answer that scares me jdw1 it's never the girl that you think would cheat that does it.it's the ones you trust who has "friend's" thats cheating.I have a saying when women call men dogs I say yes im a dog but i wasnt one till i met that bi#$h | |
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jdw1
| Joined: 6/14/2005 Msg: 92 | |
| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 10:37:49 AM | | dont really kno wot ur gettin at when u say bout 'friends' is that a dig at me???? or ru supportin wot im sayin???? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 10:39:28 AM | I havent cheated as of yet. Ive been cheated on...more than once....but with permisson?? okay...maybe it wasnt cheating then? hell i dunno.
but cheaters never prosper..or something vallant like that. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 10:43:01 AM | always support, i was refering to male "friends" was a comment to the serial daters send me an email i'll send you a bottle of red wine | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 10:54:28 AM | | I have never cheated and never will! What is the point of being in a relationship if you don't want that person enough to be faithful to them? Xx | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 1:48:32 PM | Sorry to hear you have had so much trouble. I have NEVER cheated on a partner. Yes there are women out there like me!  | |
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