| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 2:37:44 PM | Are there any women who don't cheat? hmmmm.....tough one! Thinking.........still thinking.........
Maybe you are picking the wrong girls? Wow, 5 engagements?
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 2:44:32 PM | Me!! I used to be a chronic cheater when I was younger...then the tables got turned and I got a dose of my own medicine! IT SUCKS!!!! I am a straight and narrow girl now. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 2:55:31 PM | Hey Spongeeric, Not all women cheat just like not all men cheat. i have never cheated and i know how you feel because i also have been cheated on. It is not your fault a cheater will always be a cheater. the main advice i can give you is don't give up you just haven't found the right woman yet. And try to learn from these experiences. I am sure that looking back you can see similarities and signs that they were cheating. So in your next relationship watch for the signs and when you see the first possible sign do what you have to to find out the truth. I think people should end the relationship if they are having any desire to be w/someone else. Hey look at it this way atleast you found out before you married or you could have been divorced 5 times. I believe there is someone for everyone- you will find her . Best of luck  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 3:07:41 PM | | I have never cheated on any man and I never will. There is NO excuse for cheating. If you're not happy then end it before starting something else. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 5:55:47 PM | i neva cheated on a man if i wasn't happy i'd leave there's no reason b4 u do ur dirty work to leave that person u'll break there heart but not as bad as cheating and karma won't get ya  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:15:42 PM | Never thought about it!!! Never did!!! Never will!!! I GIVE MYSELF TO ONE MAN ONLY!!! I've been cheated on and it's the worst pain in the world, would never put anyone threw that! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:22:07 PM | i would never cheat cause i like just one man and i am totally devoted to that one person...cheating just makes u feel hurt all the time....i dont like feeling hurt or hurting someone else.... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 4:50:23 AM | Can I post in here?? LOL...!!!
As a man I've never cheated on my girlfriend.... there is nothing more destructive than anyone who makes a promise to be with someone exclusively and breaks or bends it in a heart beat over a lust towards someone else! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 5:30:05 AM |
Be honest with yourself here. I used to think it was all the fault of the women I dated. But it was me, giving about 25% of what they were giving. I was not around a lot, aloof to their problems(after all, I have a REAL job), unattentive and pretty selfish in the sack
But when there's FIVE engagements, you may have to turn the mirror on yourself..
This man knows what he is talking about!!!
Everyone seems to be out looking for what they can get for themself out of relationships and when someone comes along with something better...they are GONE! That says we need to focus on what makes the person we are with happy! Each person is different..but I would say maybe you should explore what things are important to her to keep her.
One more thing might be that once you've had sex, it wasn't that satisfying. Just being honest...someone can be REALLY attracted and in love and everything else..but sex is really important! Did you ask those 5 ladies why they changed their minds? Was there a common thread?
I have never cheated. If I give my heart its yours till its over and then some. But I know alot of people, male and female...and I think what I wrote and the quote I quoted are TRUE! | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 6:17:23 AM | Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Please. You know the simple and obvious answer to that question so why start another battle of the sexes with the inflamatory question ? Sorry to hear about the bad luck. Maybe six is the lucky one eh? | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 6:25:31 AM | Sorry for your bad experiences, but we can all - male and female - relate to this on some level. If we haven't been cheated on, we know somone who has.
Maybe what you need to do is look at the women you have dated and ry to figure out the what they have in common. I have known women (More so than men I know) who repeat the same mistake. They go for the exact same type of guy over and over with the same results. And they expect it to be different each time. After they inevitably break up (Or divorce), they look back and can see that they had the same problems with this guy and that is was evident early on. That old 20/20 hindsight thing, always bites you in the ass.
If these 5 women aren't alike in some fundamental way, you need to look at yourself and see if there is something you are doing wrong. Even though it is a difficult thing to do and we all don't want to believe we are the cause of our problems.
Good luck man. Keep trying, don't let it get you down. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 9:20:17 AM | | Oh man you have to be kidding. The issue is you if you have met that many women who cheat...looking in the wrong places? I dont' know. I am dating some people right now and am honest about that...but I would never, ever under any circumstances cheat on someone I was with...there is just no way. Why would I bother? I couldn't sleep if I did. If he cheated on me, that is his problem. I could survive...so can you. Pick better my friend cause I know tons of my friends are good, strong decent women and they couldn't imagine doing that either. Plus, who has all that time??? LOL. J | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 9:32:21 AM | | I have never cheated on a guy, and i ever will. Although i have been accused of cheating and there were pictures of me cheating on my man, but i wasn't allowed to see the pictures or know who i cheated on him with. Now isn't that a nice way for a guy to break up with you. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 9:37:28 AM | | Ive had guys cheat on me, but I dont cheat. Only coward cheat. If you are attracted to someone else,, just let them know. Much better in the long run | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 10:29:40 AM | I have not nor will I ever cheat...Like I always say.."I wouldn't do to someone, what I wouldn't want someone doing to me"...I know that makes sense  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 11:00:45 AM |
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
No. We all cheat. Might as well deal with it.
Yeah, I'm being a smart a$$ but generalizations tend to call for sarcasm.
Of course there are women who don't cheat. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 11:04:49 AM | I think some ppl confuse cheating with having a f*cktoy is two different things. I know quite a few girls and guys that do  | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 11:06:12 AM | I have never cheated on a guy... I would get out of the relationship first... wow engaged five times with no walk down the aisle.... that seems high, maybe it is just the women you are dating.
Marriage is not about sex... it is about so many other things on top of sex. I believe you should have a strong relationship sexually but you need the mential connection to.
Maybe date them longer get to know them before committing, keeping in mind I have no idea how long you wre with any of them prior to engagement.
Women are all different, None of my friends have cheated or would cheat and trust me they would tell us... we take about everything together regarding men. | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 11:14:19 AM | I have never, nor will I ever cheat on any man I am with... I have seen first hand what cheating does to a relationship and to the self esteem of the person who was cheated on and can honestly say that I would never do it!
If someone does cheat... the relationship was probably never worth it to begin with.... | |
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| Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 7/28/2005 2:14:43 PM | * T N T * I have not nor will I ever cheat...Like I always say.."I wouldn't do to someone, what I wouldn't want someone doing to me"...I know that makes sense
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