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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 4:27:51 PM | sorry, the devil made me do it...and his name is Wayne. LOL
Who's Wayne anyway? Did I miss something here?
Actually, I did consider a taxi and sunglasses, but since I'm not a wealthy doctor's wife just YET, taxis are out of my budget on my social security. lol
If he hasn't made any attempt to contact you, it's quite obvious he's not interested.
But why hasn't he blocked my a** then? (Can I curse on here?)
What part of your brain has gone "inactive"??
Good question. Hmmm? Well, I think we can safely 'rule out' the part of my brain that controls my inhibitions. Plus, whatever part controls my sexual fantasies - you really should ask HIM this question though - he's the neurologist;)
.....and always ensure you wear a dark trench coat, and that it's raining out - to
set the mood. Oh, and don't forget to ask the cab driver to slip in
a cd; perhaps some symphony from Berlioz?
I think that idea is SO freaking cool! But somehow I prefer classic rock. I think he likes symphony though. It said he did in his JDate profile;)
Wouldn't you want a man who was totally pursuing you!
Well yeahhh - but I'm faster for some reason.
Next is that you want this to happen so badly that you are seeing ghosts.
Actually, they were carpet and hair dye 'auras' - no ghosts yet.
Just jumping in and reading it seems to me that the most attractie thing about him is that he makes a lot of money and you would have a life on easy street if you hooked him.
No - actually right about now I wish this whole post was about my plumber - and that he was dirt broke like me.
You are also probable just "next" and once the new wore off you, you'd be gone.
Oh yeah? So how's he different from any other guy I've dated then?
You are 18 years old NOW.....
And YOU are giving love advice? One year ago you were going to homecoming and prom......
You'll be divorced by the time you are 21. Write that down and remember where you saw it.
Quite honestly, Steph is one of the few people on here who really knows what love is - that's why she 'gets' me and pretty much nobody else here does. Actually, I think I might go to 18 year old's for my love advice in the future here.
EastSideEddie - How DARE you tell Steph that she doesn't know what she's talking about - and then tell her that her relationship is doomed because she's young? I honestly think 'kids' know more than most 'adults' do about love - money isn't the center of their worlds in the same way it centers the world of most adults. If I were 18 and posting this thread and this guy was a medical student, I'll bet this thread would read somewhat differently. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:02:45 PM |
EastSideEddie - How DARE you tell Steph that she doesn't know what she's talking about
Because she doesn't. I think at 55 with children well older than her I know what I am saying.
Feel free to think I'm just a blowhard though. Whatever helps you feel better about yourself.
Write it down. 3 years tops, she will be divorced. Statistics say so. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 6:30:47 PM | our mates Rob and Vick married at 17 and 19 years of age and are now into their 50's and have a well ajusted son.
The reason for their succesful marraige? They grew up together, became individuals but learned lifes leasson's together which drew them towards one another.
So how can you say that young couples won't last, I think it's the older couples who won't last as they are to set in their ways!
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 6:37:23 PM | Again, no offense, but will you please move on to someone who is actually showing some interest in you. I really feel bad for you, but if this kind of talk continues, you will need a really good psychiatrist very soon. This guy you are fantasizing about probably doesn't spend one second of his day thinking about you. What a waste of your energy? Think of what you could do if you focused all your energies on getting to know someone who is interested in what you say and think. Hey Eddie, I agree with you, having a fiance' at 18yrs. old is way too young. How did they know they were in love before they actually met? Did they have cybersex or something? | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 6:51:25 PM |
our mates Rob and Vick married at 17 and 19 years of age and are now into their 50's
How nice for them.
The calendar says that when they met it was the 70s. Maybe Australia is exactly the same 30-35 years later. Times have changed in the states. There are pressures and tensions now that did not exist then. People are losing jobs, thus the income that feeds and houses the family, every day while thie Republican driven greedy economy continues in the downward spiral it has been in for a decade. 2 of 3 marriages in the USA fail now. The number one reason given is money.
Factor in kids who still don't know what it's like to live outside of mommy's house thinking they will run off and play house and everything will be great with her waitress job and his job as the fast food place.....
Children live in a fantasy world. Adults live in reality. And the reality is that the good jobs have left the USA for India and Mexico, and minimum wage, menial work is actually the target of intense competition.
I have 2 BA degrees. I am fortunate to have ANY job. What about kids who barely make it out of high school?
Tell me all you want about the one couple who makes it. That's the difference between the forest and the trees. I look at the forest. You want to say I am wrong after seeing one tree.
And I have serious doubts you even understand that analogy, so I will take leave of this discussion. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 7:12:29 PM |
I really feel bad for you, but if this kind of talk continues, you will need a really good psychiatrist very soon.
Really? Do you think so? And what do you think I need a shrink for? Do you think HE'LL date me instead?
This guy you are fantasizing about probably doesn't spend one second of his day thinking about you. What a waste of your energy?
You are just SO wrong here. I'm reading the book 'Energy Medicine' and lots of books on alternative medicine. Did you know that 'thought' is energy? Theoretically, even if I'm wrong about this doc and he doesn't give a rat's a** about me, if I 'think' it enough - 'anything' is possible - literally.
Tell me all you want about the one couple who makes it. That's the difference between the forest and the trees. I look at the forest. You want to say I am wrong after seeing one tree.
But the forest 'started' with one or two trees - don't you see that? If Steph is the first and somebody else is the second and somebody else is the third, well then, eventually the stats will show a 'forest' again. But you can't doom the one tree though. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 7:16:21 PM | | Hon, the fact that he's not blocked your number is HARDLY proof that he's interested....really. I don't know how to block people's numbers either, just never bothered to add the feature to my phone service and learn how. He's probably a very busy person, too. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:28:39 PM | classyhotguy, nice nick but you got the classy WRONG! No way can someone classy say such utter sh!t like you have said! And in regards to
Hey Eddie, I agree with you, having a fiance' at 18yrs. old is way too young. How did they know they were in love before they actually met? Did they have cybersex or something?
We didn't have sex over the net (we aren't as desprate as you are) and second of all YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO INSAULT US WHEN YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW US! | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:41:16 PM | EastSideEddie,
how nice for you, your gonna be in your 90's and still be single for being an JERK! It's people like you who make American's look so bloomen stupid!
Times have changed in the states.
Yeah they have changed and grown up so why the hell haven't you?
There are pressures and tensions now that did not exist then.
THAT IS CRAP! Pressures my A$$. My opa was in the war and can actually tell you how much it HAS NOT changed! I.E The newer generation think oh i made up this word when infact it was round centerys ago! I didn't finnish high school i went out and worked and was Australia and I can tell you It seems to me I know more about the REAL world then you do!
People are losing jobs, thus the income that feeds and houses the family, every day while thie Republican driven greedy economy continues in the downward spiral it has been in for a decade.
So get another job it's not that hard. You work hard you get places you give up you get deeper and deeper into a ditch that you dug yourself. I have lost my job only once and moved on to bigger brighter things. Theres a thing called Centerlink over here i think it's know as welfare over there that helps feed the house and family, also there are places you can go to get free bread and stuff! Don't crap on to me about you life! | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:54:45 PM | Okay... so the Doctor looked at you - let's call that observation. It's what they do.
He is not reciprocating your clear advances and I don't think it's because he's playing hard to get or that his other relationships are new and require all his time.
His kindness was interpreted as flirtation returned with obsessive behavior.
It's time to leave the man alone.
I agree with you, that if I were the target of your attention, I'd do what you said you'd have done. He's trying to let you keep some dignity - do your part. 
Individuals who go into the healing profession see the kind of attachment you are writing about all the time. Usually it's gratitude and that's a good feeling.
Your attachment to this man and the feelings you are projecting onto him are not that.
I saw my physician this past year and he was perceptive enough and kind enough to give me a big hug. That was all it was ... KINDNESS. He also made eye contact while talking to me. He's a healer, I'm a patient. It's his job to take care of me. Do not make professionals suffer for choosing to help us when we need it. If you are in need of some further professional help, get it!
(I am going to be reading those other sites with the information about your disease - it's pretty scary sounding.)
It's a thin line between niceness and flirtation... but if he were, in fact, flirting or really interested in you, he'd have followed through by this time.
I'm not saying that you didn't connect with another human being on a personal level, but he's clearly not interested in you the way you are in him.
Happy New Year and all that. It's time to move on. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 9:56:42 PM | | Blaze... what are you doing?...ok maybe you didn't blow this out of porportion.. but it is time to give it up... 2 years...get real... I see a Neurologist for my leg and he watches me the whole time and smiles at me... that is the Dr. he cares about his patients. That is how they are.. I work with them on a daily basis. I just think It is time for you to back off, if you have not already, cuz He is probably just being the pleasant Dr. and just letting you leave messages on his number.. so if it gets out of control, he can take the messages to the Police...BE CAREFUL!!! | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 10:31:34 PM | If he wanted something to happen, something would have happened. I have had some doctors flirt with me before, as I worked in the medical field, but nothing EVER came of it. Everyone flirts from time to time...does not mean that they actually want anything to come of it. I have even had my back surgeon tell me numerous time how beautiful my skin is after coming out of surgery, and then on office visits after that. NOTHING ever came of it. I did not fall head over heels for him because of a compliment or some flirtatious remark. However, it is very, very common for women to fall in love with their doctors... it has something to do with their position and the role they play in one's life. It is not uncommon at all. But like I said...something would have happened further if he was truly serious...he would have worked something out in order to date you.
I would not waste your precious time obsessing over him any longer... it will only make your heart ache more. If you are into doctors...try to meet them out of their element. It will save a lot of problems that possibly could arise rather than if you were his patient. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/1/2007 11:30:26 PM | but if this kind of talk continues, you will need a really good psychiatrist very soon. This guy you are fantasizing about probably doesn't spend one second of his day thinking about you. What a waste of your energy? Think of what you could do if you focused all your energies on getting to know someone who is interested in what you say and think.
this was a great thought!! | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/2/2007 2:37:15 AM |
You go, Steph! You're going to be in the wedding!;)
Blaze, excuse my bluntness but; you need to get laid more.
Ewok - you know, even though you don't have a picture posted here and you're a little far away, I'm somehow finding you irresistibly attractive through all this senseless banter. In fact, you have the potential here to be wooed just as vehemently as my doctor. Before I ask your wife if you can go out with me though - are you as well endowed as your 'aura' is telling me you are?;) More importantly, of course - are you wealthy?
(I am going to be reading those other sites with the information about your disease - it's pretty scary sounding.)
You mean it's scarier than your post here?
Okay... so the Doctor looked at you - let's call that observation. It's what they do.
So what's it called if a guy in a bar looks at me for an extended period of time, even when I look away? Something different?
I saw my physician this past year and he was perceptive enough and kind enough to give me a big hug.
So why didn't you ask him out? I would have. Can you give me his number at least?
I see a Neurologist for my leg and he watches me the whole time and smiles at me.
You're kidding? The poor guy is eyeing your leg up with a smile and you didn't ask him out either? I'm starting to really get a real 'feel' for what it's like to be a guy here - no wonder you guys are all so horny.
If he wanted something to happen, something would have happened. I have had some doctors flirt with me before, as I worked in the medical field, but nothing EVER came of it.
THREE women on here had doctors come on to them and never consummated the relationship? What are you nuts here? Page back in this thread - now I just learned this - doctors are WEALTHY. GO FOR IT. You may NEVER have a chance to snag 'em again!;)
However, it is very, very common for women to fall in love with their doctors.
Hmmm? Now that's interesting. So why don't we hear so much about men falling in love with their female doctors? I have to think about that one a little before I answer my own question. Anybody? No - I got it. The common denominator here is male doctors, not female patients - but since it's a man's world, the female patient is told she is 'sick' for interpreting blatant flirtation as something more and told she needs therapy to correct her 'perceptions'. Now that's just wrong. The whole world - male AND female - has been conditioned to believe women are intellectual and emotional wimps who can't think or perceive correctly. Works for the guys, I guess - huh? Meanwhile, these women are all sitting in a male shrink's office somewhere, awaiting the pills that will correct 'their' dysfunction. Yep. Like I said, works for guys. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/2/2007 4:04:34 AM | First off, Blaze, thank you for reminding me how great my life is. Sometimes we can get into a rut, but reading a post like this reminds me just how sane I really am 
On topic. I don't think you understand how men think at all. If this Doc was interested in you at all, you would defintely know it. You keep going on about the legalities of him dating you. Well honey, legal or not, if he wanted you, he'd persue. Men have been known to leave their wives, kids, careers, country, sanity, and start wars, all in the name of love. He doesn't even return you calls.
Why doesn't he change his number?? lol, because he gets a kick out of having a few beers with his buddies and replaying the crazy girls messages to them. I can see it now.
"hey guys, come on over, I have a new batch of nutmail to share with you".
It's been 2 years. He's not interested. Get some nice therapy, and move on.
JMO
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/2/2007 5:16:00 AM | Does it occur to anyone else this chick might just be a stand up comedienne fine tuning a new act? No one can be this silly--for lack of a better word---and still be in society without some sort of oversight or retraint!!
Let's time the delay in her replies here---see just how much a stalker she really is!! LOL Poor thing---she needs our help! | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/2/2007 8:40:36 AM | Blaze, up to now, your phone calls to the doc have been fairly harmless. I'll bet he's tracked and saved all your messages for future reference though. If your behavior changes and you show up at his door, his opinion may change and you could end up in jail.
Calling him all the time doesn't present any kind of a Romantic Challenge to him anyways. Why give someone that much power over you? Treat it like it's the end of a saddened love affair and move past it. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/2/2007 2:42:11 PM | I'm sorry, but the more I read of your posts, the more I really do think you need to get some help. We are all just trying to show you some "tough love" here, but none of us seem to be getting through to you. When are you going to come to your senses? Are you mixing the wrong medications or something? Is that why you can think clearly? Believe me, I know what it is like to be hopelessly hung up on someone who there is no possible future with. The longer this goes, the more hopelessly unhappy you will be. I also know what it is like to start a post and get ripped to shreads by people. Don't take it personally. We all wish the best for you.  | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/2/2007 7:31:08 PM |
First off, Blaze, thank you for reminding me how great my life is.
You're welcome;)
Look, rcktman - I do KNOW he loves me - I asked my pendulum, and it 'said' that he does - romantically, too. The reason he has not called yet, I think, is because it hasn't quite reached the 2 year point. He's not going to risk his license to have me 'illegally' when he already knows he can have me 'legally', once this bullsh*t grace period or whatever it is is up.
And I don't really CARE if he's replaying the messages to his friends over a couple of beers, just as long as he's thinking about me while he's doing it - though it did say in his profile that he IS partial to red wine, so you may wish to 'amend' your predictions in that regard. It ought to be pretty obvious to you all by now that I am not too concerned usually about what other people think of me in general. I personally think that's a trait to be admired. If I gave a rat's a** every time somebody laughed at me, I would be sitting in a shrink's office by now. Get it?
Does it occur to anyone else this chick might just be a stand up comedienne fine tuning a new act?
You're kidding, right?
Let's time the delay in her replies here---see just how much a stalker she really is!!
Hmmm? Interesting. And who's being accused of being the 'stalker' here???
Look, people - I have NO DOUBT this doctor has saved my every message to him - and my cards, essays, etc... I do the same thing when I love someone. But there is no way this doctor would ever throw me in jail - HE'D have no case, simply because he never actually told me NOT to call.
Blaze, I would like you to google "Obsessive Love Disorder: A Profile".
See, right here - I don't even BELIEVE disorders like this even exist. Basically, some guy with a fancy degree sits down and basically comes up with a fancy name for a 'new' disorder. I mean, technically I could come up with a group of symptoms here on this forum and make it into some sort of sick, sick disease that you all have.
Are you mixing the wrong medications or something?
Actually - No. I came off all of my psychotropic medications because they were making me crazy. I'm just on antibiotics - and my thought process has never been so clear, thank you. | |
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| Doctor, doctor - give me the news. Got a bad case of loving you. Help?
Posted: 1/2/2007 7:44:05 PM | Blaze, sweetie...Sometimes, when one begins a thread, one needs to assess the time to bow out graciously. I am feeling protective of you.
Please allow this thread to die a natural death. Each time you respond to the heckling, your dignity is dented a little more.
I wish you well.
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