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calaf
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Joined: 2/27/2006
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/2/2007 4:57:43 PM | | I wouldn't worry about her lol, no sex in 3 months and you've only kissed a few times? Is that the first time you even mentioned sex? Have you even attempted to get in her pants? So either you aren't making any moves on her, she is a **** or she is religious and also a ****. So you should probably talk to her about it, thats usually a good way to bring up sex, rather than saying "It's my birthday and you should probably **** me". But that's just me, and I think everyone else in this thread too lol. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/2/2007 5:01:57 PM | We we're dating a few times a week. But it's all over now. I will look else where.
Thanks for the response. | |
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calaf
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Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 30 | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/2/2007 8:20:01 PM | Ask for sex???
Hmmmmmmm........
Why would ANYONE want or need to ASK for it? Where's the passion in that?
I am with Bella and Felanie on this.
God Bless and Happy Birthday
Scott | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/2/2007 9:22:30 PM | | 3 MONTHS AND ONLY A FEW KISSES?!?!?!?!!?!!?!?!? SHES NOT COLD SHES THE ****ING CREATOR OF THE ICE AGE!!!!!! i could not hang out with someone i liked for 3 months and only o a little kissing | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/2/2007 9:24:26 PM |
I asked woman I was dating (I said was datine) when my birthday comes around on January 16th if she would be mine for the night (make love to me).
Your dude card has been revoked until further notice. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/3/2007 12:24:59 AM | I'm sorry Don I can't stop LMAO  imagining your face when she gave you yhe verbal serve!!!
I don't think it was to much to ask personaly!
Just really very funny! | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/3/2007 12:25:50 AM | I'm sorry Don I can't stop LMAO imagining your face when she gave you the verbal serve!!!
I don't think it was to much to ask personaly!
Just really very funny! | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/3/2007 9:16:45 AM |
I can't imagine dating a man for 3 months, and having any kind of attraction or serious feelings for him and not having sex with him.
I am with Letigra!
The very idea of having to ask for birthday sex is insane to me. If I were involved with you for 3 months, I would be planning that whole evening and if you asked me about it, I would have to give you my evil eye while enlightening you to the fact you were blowing my birthday surprise.
Sounds to me like she was looking for an excuse to unload and run, so you gave her the opportunity. Bet there were lots of "signs" if you look back on it and the no sex thing (much less asking for birthday sex) was the least of them.
Poor fella!
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/3/2007 11:40:07 AM | | Guy get a clue!!! What an insult to this lady that you only thought of her as a bithday party booty call. I will admit right or wrong has nothing to do with it. I just have to ask what mady you think you had the rapport with this lady to ask such a thing? | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/3/2007 1:08:34 PM | From what I remember, birthday sex is great with someone who wants to celebrate your birthday with you. Clearly she wasnt interested in being intimate with you yet so I am not sure why you were surprised by her reaction. For myself I believe that when a man has to ask for a kiss or hug or physical contact that I usually am giving the vibe that I dont want that kind of interaction.  | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/3/2007 1:51:25 PM | Well, I do believe everyone deserves birthday sex! What better gift could one wish for?????
Hey caroldarling I have a b-day comming up real soon.
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Posted: 1/3/2007 2:37:31 PM | | Dating 3 months and she freaks because you want some on your birthday?? Come on we all know Bjs come with B-days for guys, ask her for one of those. Bet she will love that. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/3/2007 3:37:20 PM |
We we're dating a few times a week. But it's all over now. I will look else where.
Thanks for the response.
Don, you read the tarot cards wrong. You were obviously a friend-without-benefits (FWOB for short). You wanted more, she didn't and you didn't take the clear hints that she dropped that while she liked hanging out with you, she wasn't interested in shagging you.
Her reaction sounds a bit over-the-top, but I sense we might get a different version of the events from her, possibly one in which she likes to hang out with you, but became frustrated with your desires for more.
Here's the lesson to take away from this: if you want a sexual relationship and it isn't moving in that direction with every passing date, give up on that aspect. The woman isn't interested in shagging you, no matter how much she might enjoy your company.
Pre-emptive clarification: "moving closer" means a progression of increasingly sexual actions on both parts, not shagging on the first or second date. Kissing on the first date and kissing passionately on the second counts. A peck on the cheek and a week later a peck on the cheek closer to your lips doesn't count.
Cheers,
Mike (but did you try wearing Axe?) | |
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Joined: 1/2/2007
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/6/2007 11:47:17 AM | My birthday was yesterday.........Wish I would have seen this thread then!!!!!! Did NOT get the birthday sex!!!!!!!
Is it wrong?????........If someone had offered it to me yesterday..........HELL NO!!!!!! 
WHAT'S WRONG IS TO NOT RECEIVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.......:0( | |
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Posted: 1/6/2007 11:52:38 AM | Maybe you should have just asked her OUT on your birthday and then made your move?? Not sure....but I'm very sure you could have scored some birthday *something* had you put a bit more thought into it.....
...I'm jus' sayin.... | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/6/2007 12:09:31 PM | You must be out of your mind staying with a woman who will not have sex with you.
I'll tell you the reason she turned you down. It is because you are acting like a woman not a man. Be a man not a ****.
If she doesn't respond to you, or give you a sign she is interested in you, then drop her. If she does give you a sign she is interested and you don't go for it, she won't respect you.
It seems clear she doesn't respect you and only uses you for company or free meals. Drop her like a stone and never call her again. Then you might have a tiny chance she will begin to respect you and become interested in you. | |
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jo~
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Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 50 | |
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