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 judythecuety

Joined: 2/2/2006
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Posted: 1/6/2007 2:18:26 PM
screening method is if a woman has not had sex by X dates, then you no longer call her back. You preset X somewhere between 2-5 dates.

So if you have spent 5 hours on each date..You're looking for women who'll sleep with you
when they know you for about 10-15 hours?
yyeeccchhh Well ok, ..whatever floats your crusty boat.

Is it ok to ask for birthday sex?.. Sure, ..Probably would have gone over better with someone else where things were progressing.. She felt pressured,,is my guess to her reaction.
 StonedAlien

Joined: 9/2/2006
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Posted: 1/6/2007 2:24:59 PM
Don't know all the circumstances, but I would be a little concerned about only a kiss or two after three months! If she's saving herself, I suppose that's one thing, but I think I would be having second thoughts about how life would be like with her if you ever took it to the next level. I don't see anything wrong with little birthday scrog, even if you had to ask for it. Three months is certainly a long enough time to wait.
 Drugstore Cowboy

Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/6/2007 4:16:16 PM
i think if you got to ask a girl for sex on your birthday your a real loser you should never ask for sex it should just happen think you really fuc-ked up there
 BobbeCash

Joined: 6/3/2006
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Posted: 1/6/2007 8:50:07 PM
Belated Happy Birthday jo.
 sassyfox

Joined: 4/29/2006
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Posted: 1/6/2007 8:54:20 PM
I'm sorry, but that's not anything that I pencil on my calendar. Ummmm, look self, you've had a cancellation....you can squeeze someone else in. Not very tactful IMO.
 Linds32

Joined: 2/6/2005
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Posted: 1/6/2007 9:57:00 PM
Heck not it is not wrong!! My 21st birthday is in 2 weeks and I will absolutely be having sex... I can guarantee you that the thought of it being wrong or right will be passing throught my head.. If its your birthday, you should get everything and anything you want...
 ab initio

Joined: 11/21/2006
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Posted: 1/6/2007 10:03:05 PM
Have sex everyday, after all, it's gotta be someone's birthday somewhere.
 Don56789

Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 58
Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/11/2007 1:49:07 PM
ok, thanks to all and your comments...
Oh , did I mention Tuesday the Jan 16th is my Birthday.
LOL, have a good.
 ~Brook~

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 1/11/2007 1:53:11 PM
hehe birthday sex is a must :) A have too actually or maybe just in my books.
 HemlockStones

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 1/11/2007 2:41:20 PM
Dude, she's not into you. Sorry.
 *+* [c] *+*

Joined: 9/4/2006
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Posted: 1/11/2007 3:45:00 PM
In my opinion everyone should get a little treat on there birthday ;)
But you should never ask for it!! Thats just screams desperation...After 3 months together and nothing i agree with Hemlockstones,She obviously aint in to you!

Move on...5 days left to find someone lmao
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Joined: 9/4/2006
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Posted: 1/11/2007 3:45:20 PM
In my opinion everyone should get a little treat on there birthday ;)
But you should never ask for it!! Thats just screams desperation...After 3 months together and nothing i agree with Hemlockstones,She obviously aint in to you!

Move on...5 days left to find someone lmao
 LDOL

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/15/2007 5:17:09 AM
Don56789,
Well yes that is a little weird for never being sexuxally intimate with her before,but I do not believe she had to rip your head off in the process. That is just plain dumb if you ask me. She could have politley told you no and explained her expectations and both of you could discuss the situation like the mature adults we are all supposed to be.
I have been in the situation myself a few times and there is no need to be abusive or bullistic about it. Sorry she was not mature enough to discuss the situation properly.
Better will come along no doubt.
Hugs
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 calaf

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 64
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Posted: 1/16/2007 2:59:24 PM
Hey birthday boy- did you get any today?
 jo~

Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 65
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Posted: 1/16/2007 3:01:53 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DON!!!!!!!!!!.....message58!!!!!!!!KISSES BABE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 ezfrank

Joined: 1/13/2007
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Posted: 1/16/2007 7:49:28 PM
How can a BJ on your B-day be wrong. Thats what I call a f-ck-ng present. Forget about a dvd or some other B.S. Ladies....on your mans b-day put on a black min skirt with black pumps and black stockings. Look him straight in the eye and tell him to bend you the f-ck over the table and take you doggy. That definently would put a smile on his face. It did me. he he
 LimitedGoldEdition

Joined: 1/13/2007
Msg: 67
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Posted: 1/16/2007 7:52:49 PM
I just had my birthday on january 10th...Wish I was serviced that night *chuckles*...

And if she ripped your head off, girlie has gotta get a sense of humor - but that's just my theory.
 crissypooh777

Joined: 10/21/2006
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Posted: 1/16/2007 8:03:26 PM
My birthday is coming up soon......what should I expect....hehe........................
pooh
 ubkobalt

Joined: 5/7/2006
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Posted: 1/16/2007 8:24:07 PM
If it's anything like mine, expect mixed signals all night and not have it go anywhere close to anything physical.

Lets hope 2008 is a good one. Got to break the streak sometime.
 ChiliPalmer27

Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 70
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Posted: 1/16/2007 9:08:18 PM
I went without it on my birthday, sorry to say! On the other hand, I'd much rather have it happen spontaneously than planned. It's a helluva lot more fun when it just happens.
 packagedealx3

Joined: 2/4/2006
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Posted: 1/16/2007 10:43:02 PM
If the thread was a ploy to get sympathy birthday sex I would like to know if it worked.

I think many people would have felt that the request for birthday sex was a humorous way to address the lack of intimacy to that point in your relationship. Three months and the frequency of seeing her suggests that she should not have gone ballistic about it even if she thought that you were crude and/or rude.

Women don't sit around for three months and show no interest in physical contact even if they want to wait to actually become intimate. Your birthday request may have just been an easy excuse for her to get out of a relationship when she was not that into you. Find someone that you know will make sure you have birthday sex without asking.
 massageman67

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 72
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Posted: 1/16/2007 10:48:28 PM
what do you ask for at Christmas??
 gonefishinnnnn

Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 1/16/2007 10:53:50 PM
i cant say birthday sex is wrong ,i personally like to please the woman im with on her birthday in every way possible and i generally go outta my way to seduce her in the most romantic way i can ,and id definitely enjoy the same in return
 drg1301

Joined: 12/20/2006
Msg: 74
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Posted: 1/16/2007 11:01:54 PM
I can't say that birthday sex is wrong but three months and you are just kissing? Good luck!
my birthday is this month .........hmmmm........ Nope don't see it happening...again
 ~SpiffyKat~

Joined: 8/16/2005
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Posted: 1/16/2007 11:59:19 PM
Birthday Sex = is it wrong?


Hmmm..I suppose the new slogan for people promoting birthday sex could be..."Birthdays..it isnt about just blowing the candles anymore"
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