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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/17/2007 8:59:32 AM | Hmmm..I suppose the new slogan for people promoting birthday sex could be..."Birthdays..it isnt about just blowing the candles anymore"
Good one... kind of like the unofficial slogan for diamonds.
"Diamonds... she'll pretty much have to." | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/17/2007 9:11:05 AM | I guess  Birthday sex is OK..........
If it doesn't involve any lit Birthday candles.   | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/17/2007 9:38:24 AM | wow, to actually think the question you asked her was a good idea...
like what the hell were you thinking?? | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/17/2007 9:55:22 AM | 1. If you haven't had sex with a woman yet, you shouldn't then think it is a good idea to request it, even for your birthday.
2. Sex, in theory, should never be asked for. It should just be a natural course of a relationship.
3. I thought having only 2 points was too short so this is point number 3. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/17/2007 10:53:56 AM | | Never ask for sex jasmine??? Then it would NEVER happen. Theory very rarely works in the real world. What planet are you from? | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/17/2007 3:32:17 PM | UPDATE: A big thanks for all the responses.
But I did have a great time with a couple nice dates...I had an early morning get together and an evening get together with two nice ladies. Oh, Yeah!!!
So to say that I had a great 41st birthday is an understatement. Thanks Ladies!!!
oh, p.s. this time I did not have to ask and all went smooth.
Peace Out!!!
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/17/2007 5:44:34 PM | K dude,
You don't outright ask a women if she'll have sex with you. Unless you've got $150 and she's a hooker.
Courtship and then comfort builing up to sex, comes sorta like this:
Holding hands
Arms around each other
Hand on her leg
Play with her hair
Pinch her cheeks (This is something I do, not recommended for everyone)
Kissing
Petting
Oral
Sex
Asking a women to have sex with you outright comes off as needy, just roll with building comfort. So if you didn't slobber all over her like a bloodhound while kissing her, then you should traversed the comfort ladder instead of skipping steps.
P.S. Jasminekai I still have my snorkle | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/18/2007 5:31:22 PM | IT'S MY BIRTHDAY - WHERE'S MY PRINCE CHARMING????? I know I'll ger mine on Saturday. Friends are taking me out for karaoke and drinking and a party night (did I mention drinking????)
Anyway, I know he'll step up and be romantic with a touch of wild side. CMON U HOTTY, STEP UP TO THE PLATE. LOL after all "Birthdays..it isnt about just blowing the candles anymore"
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/18/2007 6:30:47 PM | sounds wrong to me  maybe you should have just asked if she would buy you dinner or just took you for a drink  | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 1/18/2007 8:16:37 PM | sounds like you got laid, congrats!
After 3 mos and no sex - yeah I'd be breaking up. A man has needs. | |
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Posted: 2/27/2007 12:11:45 PM | HEY,I THINK BIRTHDAY SEX IS A GREAT REASON TO ASK FOR IT! I HAD A MALE FRIEND(WE WERE DATING FOR A MONTH OR TWO) WHO ASKED FOR A THREESOME FOR HIS BIRTHDAY.
HE HAD A FEMALE FRIEND COME DOWN FROM UP NORTH AND WE ALL CELEBRATED TOGETHER....IT WAS A GREAT BIRTHDAY EVENING....NOW I WONDER WHAT HE IS GOING TO GIVE ME FOR MINE IT IS ONLY A WEEK AWAY! WOOPIE FOR BIRTHDAYS!!!! TO BAD THEY ONLY COME ONCE A YEAR....... | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 2/27/2007 3:30:06 PM | LOL!! My bday is in April....u mean there could be an end to the drought?? HAHAHA  | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 2/27/2007 8:32:08 PM | hey buddy
doing your rubber inflatible doll with a different wig on doesnt count as getting laid twice.
come up with a different story next time. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 2/27/2007 10:39:09 PM | Dude your mistake was "asking" for it... would you have asked for any other specific gift for a birthday? no? And sex for the first time is waaaaaaaaay bigger than a birthday, emotionally and as a relationship landmark . You eliminated any chance she would make the gift of her own volition but even more you told her just how you valued her and the potential in your relationship. You objectified her. Many women wouldn't have had a problem, but she did. Arguably its her problem, but ya gotta respect her for her self respect.
PS my (not her) first time ever was my Birthday, so its not like I havent been there, but she chose to give the ultimate gift. I'll always treasure that I was so special to her. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2007 7:39:09 PM | | Birthday sex, interesting.. but I don't have a man to share that with, lol.. and my birthday is coming up on the 28th too. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2007 7:50:08 PM | | Every day is my birthday since I gave up having any more after 39. I just love getting up and sizing up all those possible presents to unwrap. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2007 8:15:53 PM | | LOL lonestar, you sound like a kid at heart. Don't we all just love getting presents? | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 3/23/2007 8:23:55 PM | | My ex actually offered me this last year on my birthday and I turned that offer down. I don't know if it's wrong, It's all about timing I think. | |
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Posted: 3/23/2007 8:36:23 PM | | Wow livingitup, I don't know any man that would turn down sex, but then again, I'm surrounded by dirty minded guys all the time and can't seem to find "normal" ones that don't want sex 24/7. Those that want sex 24/7 actually "turn me off". | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 3/23/2007 8:48:00 PM | You should have got her drunk first, and don't ask, just do.
That is some piss poor advice. If you have to get someone drunk so you can get laid then you have a real problem. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/4/2007 3:52:50 AM | getting laid on your birthday is a must. no question. how many do you have? of any day - this one is very special. a must. Try and avoid having birthday sex with the ex. Ask someone you are currently dating instead.
good - bye sex is different. if you are breakin up - pass on the good bye sex. | |
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