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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/4/2007 5:27:15 AM | I think NOT having sex on your birthday is wrong. I turn 40 on friday and this is the first time that I am single on my birthday Is pitty sex wrong? | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/4/2007 7:18:09 AM |  hey l think everyone should have sex on there birthday, better than most of the lame presents you sometimes get    | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/4/2007 7:46:05 AM | | Having sex on my birthday was a problem when I was sixteen. I was under the dining room table with my girlfriend and we were really going at it. The problems started when I yelled to my mom and dad, "Ok, you can cut the cake now!" | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/4/2007 11:39:07 AM | My b-day is in 24 days. And I don't expect to be getting any this year.
That being said, there is nothing wrong with birthday sex but I wouldn't have asked a person that I was no longer seeing (who I hadn't even slept with, ever) for it. Especially a woman (if I were a man). A woman may get offended like she did whereas most men that I have known would be flattered I asked him and not another guy. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/4/2007 3:46:00 PM | | Your post makes no sense. To suggest that somehow birthday sex is problematic because you were turned down is ridiculous - you wewre turned down because the woman had zero interest in having sex with you. Then, by virtue of asking as you did, of course she won't have anything to do with you. She is likey repulsed by you now. Also, you came across like a pathetic loser in asking for sex in that manner. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/7/2007 10:23:56 AM | Everyone should have sex on their birthday.
I agree with the post above me 100%... the woman wasn't interested but what does that have to do with birhtday sex in general? | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/7/2007 10:29:20 AM | | I do not want to have sex on my birthdays. The rest 364 are fine! One day to rest, pleezzzzzz! I am not as young as I used to be! I deserve one day's rest per year! | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/7/2007 11:16:22 AM | If she got that mad at you for asking her if you could get laid, it's probably a good thing that you did'nt ask her to take you to Chuck E. Cheese for you birthday.
She probably would have kicked your ass for asking her that. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 4/7/2007 12:51:02 PM | | No as long as it works both ways you give it to her as she wants it on her birthday even if your not keen on how she wants it fairs fair. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/28/2007 7:10:59 PM | Never had to ask, but then again only had 2 instances of no g/f or (?) on b-day
seems she did not to be sexual anyway
plenty o fish in the sea.... | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/28/2007 7:49:27 PM | I think I see the problem:
We have been together for about 3 months and I thought things were going well. The only problem is she is kind of cold because we have had no sex at all.
The chances of you getting sex were slim to none and if you did it was going to be rationed out like a precious mineral.
If you like sex and want it on a regular basis my advice to you when you are in that situation is RUN, do not walk, do not stop don't even look back.
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/28/2007 8:12:41 PM | Ha ha, the responses in this thread are HILARIOUS.
Yeah, OP, very little kissing and no sex for three months. Holy crap. Your request wasn't outta line, in my opinion, but I think it was your last desperate attempt. You likely wouldn't have asked if there was a healthy relationship.
Though I did know a guy who dated a girl for A YEAR without any. When he told me I had to pick my jaw up with a forklift. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/30/2007 1:00:42 PM | | sex shouldn't be made in a routine/schedule and u 'making a note of it on ur calendar' type of way, it should be spontanious! the more spontanious the better i say! | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/30/2007 3:57:02 PM | | 3 months and no sex? I infer that you were seeing each other steadily throughout that time. Sounds like she was using you for what she could get. She probably has a history of abusing males. Lot's of free dinners, concerts, etc. I would imagine. Time to pay up and whoosh...she's gone. A lot of women are like that...ya' got to be careful. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/30/2007 6:12:20 PM | | She thought you were using the birthday thing to finally get on her pants. Poor choice. You have been together for 3 months and no sex. You should have seen the writing on the wall. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/30/2007 7:34:16 PM | | It can be soooooooooo right! I think it may have been your approach to asking that insulted her..... you should have said maybe " You know all I want for my birthday more than anything is to make love to you."....your approach probably made her feel cheap. Mind you if you have been together for a few months, this subject should not be taboo to have discussions about etc. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/30/2007 10:37:20 PM | beaniebaby (man?) said,
3 months and no sex? I infer that you were seeing each other steadily throughout that time. Sounds like she was using you for what she could get. She probably has a history of abusing males. Lot's of free dinners, concerts, etc. I would imagine. Time to pay up and whoosh...she's gone. A lot of women are like that...ya' got to be careful.
Pay up???? Arghhhh
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/31/2007 7:51:04 AM | I like it, and if she wanted it, would quite happily agree. However, it is not a reason to convince someone to have sex, so the first time is probably better left to another occasion with less pressure and more romance.
Just my opinion. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/31/2007 8:15:17 AM | | Wow, there seems to be nothing wrong with what you said. Maybe she was having a bad day and snapped and then was to embarassed to speak to you again? or maybe she was just frigid..lol! | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/31/2007 9:13:28 AM | I have done that once for someone special. I starting telling about 2 weeks before his birthday. By the time that day came around. Well. Let's say the gift was for him,But it has been almost 20 years and he still has set the bar for me. The best sex of my life.
Damn to bad he turned out to be married. | |
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| Birthday Sex = is it wrong?
Posted: 8/31/2007 9:49:53 AM | OP,
Maybe she got twisted cause you spoiled the surprise.....
Birthdays Sex.....the gift that both can enjoy.
I even have a 'special suit'.....so I don't have to
agonize over what I'm going to wear !
KK | |
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