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Joined: 10/26/2006
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 1/12/2007 5:10:46 PM | I think everyone is different and should make up their own rules...Do what feels right for you. Be adventurous I say...  | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 1/12/2007 7:14:48 PM | ******* Fur Me From my EXPERIENCE It just doesnt work out long term when you sleep too soon like 3rd or 5th. Sometimes even the lady DUMPS the GUY.
I prefer to wait tell I know the lady better befor I make that MOVE.
I have met ladys that I wanted to sleep with righ away but I try to control the URGE.
I guess IM a Wirerd GUY. Later Ken  | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 8:15:14 PM | Well for me I don't need to worry about the 3rd or 5th date rule...I can please myself on my own  | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 8:36:25 AM | | Arbitrary rules are always broken because we all change them to fit the situation. There are many hard rules that are good and necessary to have in place. I am not suggesting having sex right away, but if two people are interested in and like each other enough to go out 5 times, what's the problem with having sex? | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 9:32:44 AM | grneyedgt4u.....you are way too funny and you post great forums....I am starting to get into them because of you.....
But I think that if the feeling and mood is right then go for it....just make sure that everything is covered... | |
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Posted: 1/22/2007 10:54:37 AM | | Thanks Skshiells... actually I've already made up my mind about it and I have decided it doesn't really matter how many dates you've been on, it matters when the time is right for both people... and trust me everything will be covered | |
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Posted: 1/23/2007 10:09:13 PM | ** Having SEX while covered doesnt sound good to me.
Oh but wait its winter, I guess its OK. just bee sure to cover the important Parts!!!
If you get my DRIft. Every Body just have some FUNNN life is way too shorrt to be seriouS.
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Posted: 1/24/2007 12:09:27 AM | She was talking about the little raincoats that we should all insist be worn while having sex.  | |
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Posted: 1/24/2007 3:31:42 AM | | I think the people involved make their own rules. I don't know who came up with numbering dates but I think it's all meaningless. You can progress at any rate you are comfortable with. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2007 7:29:04 PM | I think only the two people involved can figure this one out. Sometimes you KNOW in 5 mins and other times you never can get yourself to go there. First date or 50th date ?
If you think he thinks badly of you after the first date.... well, he was there too! If you want to,JUSTDOIT! Now, didn't that feel good? | |
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Posted: 1/25/2007 8:38:36 PM | | Never let a man pressure you or use you for sex no matter how long you've known him...if he likes you for who you are he will wait... | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 1/25/2007 8:56:21 PM |
Never let a man pressure you or use you for sex no matter how long you've known him...
You can't stop him from pressuring you. All you can do is not give in.
if he likes you for who you are he will wait...
Exactly. I hate to say it but waiting can be a good test. Now where did I leave those patience pills... | |
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Posted: 1/27/2007 2:01:01 PM |
Now where did I leave those patience pills
When you find them Eeek can you share them with me?
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Posted: 1/27/2007 5:29:52 PM | | Of course I'll share them with you as soon as I get some. But it may be a while before I am able to secure a supply. In the meanwhile you'll just have to be patient. Now where did I leave those "be patient while waiting for patience" pills... | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 12:49:38 AM | | I'm new at this but wanted to post because I'm enjoying the seriousness and playfulness of this forum. Can you imagine this taking place 40 years ago when I was first into the dating game? I can't and I'm glad things have changed so you can have discussions like this. As for my opinion, as a 58 year old woman I say if you feel comfortable enough to become intimate on the first date or the third or the fifth...GO FOR IT...safely! | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 12:54:17 AM | She was talking about the little raincoats that we should all insist be worn while having sex.
Thats exactly what I ment by Important parts!! just wanted to cover that. | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 4:39:43 PM |
Can I get a 1st date?!
I'm sorry but first dates are showing out-of-stock and there's a huge back order. Perhaps I could interest you in a small flirt or maybe a passing nod? We also have a couple of rooms left at the hermitage if that would be more to your liking. | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 5:22:01 PM | If a guy has already paid for a couple of dates, why not treat him to the next one? That will defuse the whole thing before it even comes up. Also, his reaction to your offer will give you good information about the rules he plays by.
Can't agree more!! | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 5:23:57 PM |
Can I get a 1st date?!
I am tired of first dates. I have been on too many. I want to go on my last first date. I am ready for a serious relationship.
I just ended a "dating" relationship with a guy who for no reason just stopped calling. We had gone out on our 5th date, but he wanted to wait for Valentines day and we would stay the nite in a hotel. Then just stopped calling. Never had a chance to test the 5th date rule this time.........
Maybe he was embarrassed of his short comings.
When people just flake like that, they give u license to guess why. I am currently working on the whole "afraid to be naked in front of someone new" idea so he bolted.
Hey EEEEEK,GreenEyes and Mom, what is your take?? U guys always make me laugh. | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 5:28:29 PM | | I totally relate to what tricialvzfriends said! I want a last 1st date too! Good luck to you! You seem like you have a lot to offer! Keep the faith! lol | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 5:31:37 PM | | It's also possible that you were not the only one he was dating and decided on the other her to make valentines day date number 5 with. | |
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Posted: 2/4/2007 6:57:42 PM | | it's easy to be attracted to someone physically. but it's not the endgame that you want right? don't you want the other kind of intimacy ... like being comfortable in that person's company, seeing if he's someone you respect and you can talk to and feeling right that you are both getting to know each other's personality without that false sense of intimacy that is sex. it's a shortcut and there shouldn't be shortcuts to real attraction. so my take on this is that you have to know the person (which is what this is about if you want something long-term later) and be very comfortable with him before you do it. and that... takes time, not on the third or fifth date. | |
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Posted: 2/5/2007 10:48:27 AM |
"afraid to be naked in front of someone new"
This is huge for me.. I conquered it though... the room was dark, now the butthead wants the light on so he can see me... I think he likes horror pics | |
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