| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/15/2008 1:31:30 PM |
I hate those rules, they make a diservice to us all, specially women!
Whaddaya mean? They hold off guys for three dates. Geez... what more do you want?  | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/15/2008 2:03:06 PM | | I want sex between two consenting adults whenever we want, with no regards to rules...if a relationship develops, great, if not, great! is that asking too much? | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/15/2008 4:08:14 PM |
grneyedqt4u: "In the last couple of years I've heard people talk about the third date rule or the fifth date rule. You'll sleep wth someone after the third or the fifth date. I've heard it stated both ways. What do people think about this? Should there be a certain time frame when you decide you'll have sex with someone you're seeing? What do you think?"
Absolutely. It's crucial that you have sex on the third date and again on the fifth date. If you don't then you're sending the wrong message to your date. :: significant look ::
...and that's why I... ::makes hand gesture:: ...move around... ::more hand gestures:: ...the order of dates I have with women.
So here's the dating order I prefer: 3, 5, 6, 7, 8, 4, 2, 1. So by getting those "naughty" dates out of the way all that sexual tension has settled down and you can eventually stop looking at her cleavage and pay attention when she's telling you what her name is on that last date.
I hope that helps. | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/15/2008 4:18:35 PM |
I want sex between two consenting adults whenever we want, with no regards to rules...if a relationship develops, great, if not, great! is that asking too much?
I think most guys are on board with that.  | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/17/2008 10:35:40 AM | I have heard about the rules. I have also been told don’t call after two to three days after the first date. It has been my experiences that there are no rules when it comes to dating. I have dated women who want to get it on after the second date and I have dated woman who wanted to wait until the tenth date. It all depends on the type of woman you are dating.
I have also been told not to wait two to three days to call. I had one woman who got upset because I didn’t call her back right away. I decided to wait. Luckily, I called her and told her that I had a busy weekend and she bought it and we did go out again. Unfortunately, she wasn’t looking for a relationship.
Thanks to text massaging you can send a quick massage the next day saying you had a fun time. When it comes to dating, I believe there are no rules. That’s my two cents on the subject. | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/17/2008 12:10:19 PM |
I have dated woman who wanted to wait until the tenth date.
Damn! And here I've been working under a "dump them if no sex after the 9th date" rule... 
Thanks to text massaging you can send a quick massage the next day
Wow. You can do that now?  Is that feature on those new i-Phones? Hope they don't drop the call during the happy ending. | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/17/2008 1:17:40 PM | Well when I am given rules I tend to want to break them and then blame J/K
It's when it feels right.....but then again I have been waiting for the right one for 4.5 years now. | |
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| 3rd date/5th date STATE
Posted: 8/19/2008 6:42:05 AM | I think it depends on what type of person you are trying to court ... Dates were originally a few meetings over food or events that were supposed to lead up to marriage...
BUT with the McDonalds (fast food) style of courtship here in America - California we want to know too fast "what will it be like"... & once we know NOW on to the NEXT! (this type of relationship disturbs me).
For the guy if it's too Easy to get into the girls into the sack you are NOT the one they would settle down with... I think Billy Crystal said it best - Women need a reason to have sex & men just need a place...
(he didn't say it best for me though - I'm old fashioned)...
I do wish some folks would allow the courtship of dating to lead up to marriage NOT treat it like just cheap sex as if it was just a condition like blowing your nose...
Some of the girls I've met who went out on dates & ended up in the sack that night... Only to find out that the guy they went out with said all the right things for the girls reason to give in to all the right signals... Felt cheated & or tricked - (the girls feel regret the next day & for the next week or so until the next one night stand). This is not a good policy- I would say that for me a date is supposed to lead up to eventual marriage & that if the person you are dating is NOT the one you would consider marring why have sex with them...?
( for some out there the answer is CONQUEST!)
For some of you guys that are posting above me - I'm actually laughing at your comments they are pretty good - wish I had read them before I posted this one...(revised one)...
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 6:45:49 PM |
Posted By: pete73052 on 8/15/2008 4  35 PM Subject: 3rd date/5th date rule Message: I want sex between two consenting adults whenever we want, with no regards to rules...if a relationship develops, great, if not, great! is that asking too much?
I think most guys are on board with that.
If any woman chooses to decide on sex because of counting the number of dates, then I don't want it. The ONLY basis on which I want sex with her is desire, not accounting or bookkeeping. | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 9:36:25 PM | <==== puts away her abacus, dejectedly ...... 
Why must there always be rules about things ..... ? | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 9:49:01 PM | <==== Needs to take a close look at his ^^^ ass-ets ....... 
Where'd that wooden ruler go .....
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 10:13:46 PM | | The 3rd/5th date rule is for people who want sex. If they don't get sex within that specified time, then they know the person is looking for something more than sex and they do not continue to waste their time getting involved. They move on to the next one to bang, then the next, etc. | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 10:26:24 PM |
Where'd that wooden ruler go .....
Sweetie, a tape measure might be required. And don't forget the holding costs.  | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 10:29:15 PM | | Calculating his depreciation, compounding his interest daily ....... OK, it's official, you're getting (gasp) Audited | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 10:38:25 PM | Oh no!!! My assets are vulnerable - and I'm struggling with my bonds.
(don't go there... I'm warning you... LOL) | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/19/2008 11:03:44 PM | Why don't you two little investors use the night depository for your seed capital, and remember there is a penalty for early withdrawal if you use the first in-first out method since there will be no credits for any debits (unless you employ the double-entry technique)... And something about your receivables aging 30-60-90, or more like thirty 69'y.
(Okay, who said accountants are button-down boring? So, Pete, put on that green eye shade and start fingering those touch keys.) | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/20/2008 9:22:22 AM | compromise and make it the 4th 
surely we all know by now there is no rhyme or reason or applicable rules to "dating"
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/20/2008 9:35:44 AM |
compromise and make it the 4th
OK... but does it work like a slot machine? If you dated somebody else three times, and I come along - do I hit the jackpot? | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/20/2008 1:02:21 PM | doubtful..... but touche' Petey! (thanks for the giggle)
Tho rumor has it many slots are programmed to pay out jackpots randomly... | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 8/20/2008 1:19:08 PM |
Tho rumor has it many slots are programmed to pay out jackpots randomly...
I've heard dropping a wad in a slot is a jackpot in-and-of-itself. I wouldn't know of course.  | |
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| 3rd date/5th date STATE
Posted: 10/11/2008 10:16:50 AM | | I agree with what 'wexus' wrote here about the whole dating thing. I think that its gone to a level of mantality where if they dip in and its not 'just right' they move on to the next willing particitpant.I don't want to date someone just for sex, I want a meaningful relationship that will hold strong and steady hopefully for the rest of my life! | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 10/11/2008 7:49:30 PM | rules are for uptight people. I wouldn't sleep with anyone until I was completely sure she didn't have rabies.
Not a rule...just not wise. ya never can be too careful. Rabies are a ****... | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 10/12/2008 1:51:07 PM | "RULES" ARE STUPID
because not all people u date are the same | |
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| 3rd date/5th date rule
Posted: 10/13/2008 3:45:34 PM | | I don't have dating rules. I follow my instincts and my heart. | |
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