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Posted: 1/1/2007 7:48:12 PM |
whats REALLY being said is...youll never find anyone better than me you pathetic looser.
My interpretation = I am an arrogant bas*ard  | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 7:48:58 PM |
Depends on the context of the conversation.Maybe he meant he will be so wonderful,loving,respectful you won't find better so no need to look.Not everything has to be a put down.Shrugs my shoulders,try asking HIM if he meant it as a put down.
What she said. It depends on the context.
IS he the best bf you've ever had? Maybe he is!! Do you have a track record of dating losers, and now you've uncovered a gem who finally treats you the way you deserve?
Like I said, it depends on the context. And yes, I've said it. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 7:53:04 PM | I'm with (Fallen). Everyone is being so reactionary and judgemental here? We know nothing of the tone, or context, or content , let alone anything else at all about this guy. It could simply be a statement of great confidence. All we have here is a short statment of the op's very bad reaction to what was said. thats it. she could be right. Or she could have made the worst mistake of her life and her date was the correct one. We cannot know with more information.
I am constantly incredulous at the tendency towards both generalizations and reactionary pummeling on here. Oh, I addmitt... I can pummel too. But I strive to only do it when sufficient and credible information is provided. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:04:22 PM | yes..its true i can give a good verbal performance...what our conversation revolved around in a nut shell was...i was trying to tell him that i feel neglected..as in why dont you return my hugs..why do i sometimes come 5th on his list...why doesnt he let me know with words or affection than i am important to him...then i got so wound up i got on a roll of HIM drivin me to rip his head off....WHERE AS SAYING he "is the best ill have "only invokes frustration
and down played my feelings i was trying to convey.....yup...a reassuring i care about us
is what may have been needed BUT I GET IM THE BEST..when i just stated he wasnt...hmmmm............SEE..SEEEEEEEEE im fumin arggggggggggg | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:11:08 PM | "i got so wound up i got on a roll of HIM drivin me to rip his head off." You feeling neglected and giving a good verbal performance translates into you going off like fireworks. Maybe it's you with the problem with impulse control and self control. If you're feeling neglected, you should have already moved on. When someone's behavior is unacceptable, it's you losing control to give him a verbal tongue lashing. I'm sure those men who read this will be lining up to take you out. Nice work.
And FYI noone else drives you to do anything, you're always responsible for your own actions. | |
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| LORD!!!someone answer this
Posted: 1/1/2007 8:11:38 PM | MSG 29
That's nagging.
I assume he meant to say. This is all you are gonna get from me. Take it or leave it. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:20:49 PM | | Typical woman,you read WAY to much in what people tell you.If you're going to worry about things worry about something that's actually important.If you don't like what he said,do your usual routine of being overly critical and negative that always makes you feel superior to everyone right? problem is,keep doing that and over time you end up alone.He could of meant he's a good catch and is so confident he can make you happy he practically brags about it.Of course no woman would have ever seen it that way.Oh word of advice,never take what some one says to you and go "what they are really saying is...." if they were really saying that, they'd say it. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:21:28 PM | 
Oh that comment was just too laughable.
Knowing how sarcastic I can be, I most likely would of come back with a line something along this line. "I don't need or want a boy, I prefer men", so run along little boy.
I wouldn't feel mad or degraded if I was you, the bozo was desperate enough to say that, then he is the one that is the pathetic looser. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:28:37 PM | I try not to read anything into what someone tells me. I should of read further before I answered this. If someone tells me something, I will ask why it was said.
Conversations between couples are necessary to work out problems without resorting to being critical or negative. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:29:20 PM | should have just answered back that you love your new pair of boots more than him,
that would piss him off especailly when you state how much they had cost,,lol
i ve never had anyone say that to me b4 but feel i would like you feel angry about it and that would just bring the sting out of my tail, i would reply sharply and equally as nasty im afraid | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:30:40 PM | should have just answered back that you love your new pair of boots more than him,
that would piss him off especailly when you state how much they had cost,,lol
i ve never had anyone say that to me b4 but feel i would like you feel angry about it and that would just bring the sting out of my tail, i would reply sharply and equally as nasty im afraid | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:31:35 PM | | We really don't know the context of the conversation. A girl I was dating back in college told me, "you'll never find another girl like me". . . meaning perhaps "no girl will love you as much as I do",, I don't see anything wrong with that. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:51:04 PM | i wooden go that far the guy is a turd for sure  but you sound like you have hate issues 
did he convince of what he was saying  then threw you back afterwards  | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 8:52:33 PM | i decided that i will just rip your head off!
i was trying to comunicate..not NAG
IF HE SAID I DONT HUG YOU BECAUSE IM A GERM-O-PHOBE..then i would understand
the lack of affection...not im the best guy ill ever get. but i see that conversation and nagging may be the same for you...so instead of asking why why why ..your female of the moment should just burn your roast dinner...not tell you where your keys are WHEN she knows very well WHERE THEY ARE its because if she DID and asked you why you dont put them in the same place
you would say shes naggggggggggggin..i would go on but rather not give you any more NAGAMO | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 9:52:08 PM | I think I can top this...
A girl once told me I would never be with anyone as good as she was in bed. Thing is, she said this DURING sex...not before or after, but actually during!
I found out later, far too late, that she really was crazy, for a number of reasons... | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 10:01:04 PM | It could only start off with a guy that thinks highly of himself and has a very big nose .
BUt then again ...those are the guys that get most of the attention for some reason or another ..suggestions ....givem a cold shower might change is way of thinkin...lol | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 10:01:27 PM | It could only start off with a guy that thinks highly of himself and has a very big nose .
BUt then again ...those are the guys that get most of the attention for some reason or another ..suggestions ....givem a cold shower might change is way of thinkin...lol | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 10:11:42 PM | ALL my exes including my ex husband said that to me when they got angry. They all seemed to think that they were so GOOD to me and that I should be SO appreciative.
I never gave it a second thought....people say stupid things sometimes when they are angry....and sometimes even when they aren't. LOL. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 11:36:25 PM | please just give insight to a possible meaning behind saying
'I AM THE BEST BOYFRIEND YOULL EVER HAVE"..NOT
KICK HIM TO THE CURB ADVICE....THANKSSSSSSS | |
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Joined: 9/27/2006
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Posted: 1/1/2007 11:52:37 PM | | OP....Maybe I'm understanding it wrong, but if a man said that to me...I would think that he meant I could not do any better than him. I would be offended and quite >>> | |
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Posted: 1/1/2007 11:59:56 PM | good advice on that ....Actions speak louder than words, when the words are louder, Run for the hills!!!!!
Heard that before!! | |
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Posted: 1/2/2007 12:05:43 AM | man I dunno, after reading all your replies OP maybe the guy was right to say that.
we have no idea in what context he said it , and since you don't want advice, there isn't too much more to say.
personally I think a comment like that is usually said in anger and shouldn't be made a huge deal of but thats just me. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2007 3:53:24 AM | Considering I've never seen either of these people, it's impossible to truly answer the question.
I've know girls who I could, in all honesty, say I was the best they ever had. Considering what they ended up with afterward, entirely accurate. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2007 5:14:21 AM | Maybe what he was trying to say was You will never meet anyone who cares about you the way he does...When you put a different spin on it ... perhaps it doesnt sound so bad. ... almost touching.. | |
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