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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/5/2005 5:37:05 PM | bugs ? I was being nice! LOL...... You know me I am just to honest! dONT TAKE THE FUN AWAY FOR HAHANOW! | |
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SlivX
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/5/2005 5:50:21 PM | | i'm speaking from personal experience here when i say men in their 30s aren't much better, then again i may have dated younger guys. | |
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SlivX
| Joined: 4/4/2005 Msg: 31 | |
| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/5/2005 5:51:25 PM | | ^^^ George Costanza: DO YOU WANNA HAVE SEX RIGHT NOW!!!???!! I'LL DO IT!!! RIGHT HERE!!! | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/5/2005 5:55:18 PM | really age is just a # no matter what the age...some guys in their 20's r like 30,,,,and guys in they 30's act like they r 20'' really i have always been a cuddler always will | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/5/2005 9:14:46 PM | good luck in your endeavours dear.... and i mean that seriously... chances are slim to none, so either suck it up and commit to not having sex until you are older and ready for a relationship with a guy that is older, or continue to go out with guys your age and accept that they are horn dogs [guys, i mean that in the nicest way honestly ] .. hmm, ya know what, they all are horn dogs, but one day you will appreciate the fact that they are so ya... what everyone else said... i'm going to bed.. it's best i do that now ;) | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/5/2005 10:13:50 PM | my 2 cents, i think most men are alike, they can't wait. like a kid in the candy store,once they have what they want, then they can cuddle i've dated from 2 months older than me to nine yrs older, and they've all been the same. Cuddling, = to lie close and snuggle,nestle. to hold something closely in ones arms. nothing about sex. why can't a guy just hold you when you are feeling down, wrap his arms around you and sometimes say, "lets have a pj night". i think from reading these forums, women want sex almost as much as men, but cuddling is oh so good :)  | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/5/2005 10:44:31 PM | | Honestly, I think if I found someone loyal, I don't think I'd give a sh*t about sex anymore.... | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 12:12:10 AM | are u intrested in other women?? j/k
guys dont cuddle at your age. it's sex all the way, especially if u aint in a relationship with him | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 12:29:07 AM | Hey Brat. not all guys are the same. Thats like saying all women play Head games. Well I have turned down sex from women. Well my relationship for a couple of months was all about sex. But when we tried to communicate there was nothing there. In a relationship there are at least three necessarry things: 1) Love 2) Communication and 3rd is sex! Of course there sre more things needed to make it work. When I told her I wanted more than sex she was stunned. So it all depends on what your looking for. Oh by the way way you like someone alot this friends thing is crap. Your mate needs to be more than a friend. | |
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coy
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 12:35:06 AM | it just makes me wonder how many cuddling guys are simply passed by or ignored.
surely cuddling isn't your only criterion. | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 1:28:37 AM | | sex comes with cuddling. cuddle before, cuddling after if your cuddling with your bf for 3 hrs and NOT having sex at some point, theres a problem. | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 6:30:21 AM | did anyone read this comment i left
but anyways about the comment on my forum its not that im anti sex its just i want a comitment tagged along with the sex...and some night i do just wanna cuddle | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 6:45:48 AM | Hmmmm ... how to explain the thought pattern of the 20-something male???
sex,sex,sex,sex,sports,sex,sex,sex,sex,eat,sex,sex,sex,sports,sex,sex,sex,eat,sex,sex,sex,sports,sex,sex,sex,sleep,sex,sex,sex,sex,sex,sex,sex,sex,wake up ... repeat!!!  | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? OLDER GUYS???? Posted: 4/6/2005 6:55:22 AM | I got a kick out of spongeeric reply - he said "Older men are all for it (petting & cuddling) and we really don't expect anything in return." For one, dude, 36 isn't an older guy. LMAO since I am 57. However, I'm only 57 on paper - I get along with younger people much better than "older people". I am not old - and don't want to be with anyone who is old. They act like they are hanging on till death. I'm living life.
It is most admirable that spongeeric can cuddle and expect nothing even after 3 hours. It is nice to only cuddle so you can communicate to the lady that you are interested in her and being with her and not just her body. The problem is if I read the original post is this girl had the guy in bed and only wants to cuddle. The bed is the place that sex takes place. The guy's hormones kick into overdrive when he sees that bed. Even at my age, if I were in bed cuddling, I would tend to want to do more than cuddle. I'm a guy.
I really respect you spongeeric for being able to do that. | |
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cooter
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 7:54:45 AM | | Every body thinks about sex, but I was always for hanging out and just being with someone first! If it happens,it happens,if not,well I' ll wait! | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 8:05:38 AM | {quote] sex comes with cuddling. cuddle before, cuddling after if your cuddling with your bf for 3 hrs and NOT having sex at some point, theres a problem.
We have a winner. I love to just lay there after with my g/f in my arms. To me, the bedroom is for two things. Sleeping and making sweat love. If you have a TV in the bedroom I just have to ask, Why? | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 8:17:03 AM | | Some people have personal space issues. Some males and females just don't do the touchy feely thing. Finding a cuddler means learning to read body language better. | |
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| kk guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 9:00:21 AM | | omg now 10 minutes of sex out of a 1440 minute day is asking to much, sheesh. lol | |
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| kk(?) guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 11:47:47 AM | | bratluvzu, you sound like you're 20 going on 35 (this is a good thing). You need a man 30-35 going on 20-25...just for now. Some time between 25 and 30, you'll find some guys closer in age to you have caught up with you emotionally. | |
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| kk(?) guys arent any better?? Posted: 4/6/2005 12:05:47 PM | | to a 20 year old guy cuddling is done AFTER sex, well that's what girls call it. Guys call it taking a nap before I go home to sleep in my own bed lol | |
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