| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 12:08:45 PM | | Well bratluv you are right lol. When I get an email from a guy in his early twenties I have no doubt about what he is looking for LOL but that is because I am forty...there is only one thing on his mind and I can not-repeat-can not do it....wayyyyyyy tooooooo young. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 12:15:08 PM | | btw I have found in my last two years of dating experince that guys in thier 30's are nice happy medium, They want both snuggles and sex :). Get into the forties and they lean more toward the snuggles. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 1:26:02 PM | | I know men in your age group looking for that too Bratluvyu, but they are all gay. 20 year old men are supposedly near their sexual peak, I know I didn't like cuddling then, was a waste of testosterone. Stop trying to mold men and you never know just what you might find. And at 41 I've learned the art of cuddling, but when it comes to women men are about sex first and foremost, forever. We learn the art of the cuddle to keep everything else coming ladies. So if you want to cuddle for three hours you've got to be willing to endure something you may not like for 3 hours too, love needs reciprocity. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 1:34:18 PM | | i agree olg. if you just want to cuddle, the last place you want to go is the bedroom. if you want to cuddle and watch a movie, do it out in the living room on the couch. in the bedroom cuddling comes after sex. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 1:58:21 PM | | im 29 so i guess it dont really apply to me...but yeah we think about other stuff other then gettin laid...just not many of us haha its sad but hardwired into our dna to lust, spread our seed etc...but we also not all but some of us also think about more important things like finding somone to spend the rest of our lives with.. and not every guy will go after the hottest one in the bunch...and whos to say you arnt the hottest one? i mean every guy has his own idea of what is hot to him...other then what society says is "hot" a woman can be smokein hot..but if shes a real ****, snotty, stuckup, dumb as a box of rocks, or has no funny bone then all the hot in the world cant make a guy want to BE with her to just be with her...if ya get what i mean. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 2:59:46 PM | | I like to cuddle, but I prefer sex over it. The only time when I don't like cuddling is when the girl is laying on top of one of my limbs restricting blood flow and causing it become cyanotic. Just because a guy is in his twenties, does not mean he doesn't like cuddling. We're not all the poster child of the male stereotype. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 4:01:53 PM | I think it's kinda funny about the sex drive at different ages thing....I must be broken because mines the same now as it was when I was 18. Personally I consider it a gift to be the same. Although I can "cuddle" at this age, I sure couldn't hold out for much longer than a movie. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/6/2005 4:10:48 PM | | Yah, will have to agree when I was that age it was all about getting laid. Things are different now, I mean still nothing wrong with getting laid but at least now I can control myself and my actions. No hope of that back then. | |
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| kk(?) guys arent any better?
Posted: 4/6/2005 5:46:27 PM |
age is just a number blah blah blah....
Atta girl. A refreshing attitude from someone your age. Lose the drugs and kill the smoking and let's figure out how to bridge the 540 mile divide between us.  | |
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| kk(?) guys arent any better?
Posted: 4/7/2005 2:00:53 PM | Brat
Dakota here says your cute he loves cuttles. He likes kisses too but I gota warn ya I've seen him lick his own but so I would stick with the cuddles | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/7/2005 2:36:02 PM | | 20-26? All men think about at that age is having sex! I believe every woman they see...theh grocery clerk, the ice cream girl, the school crossing guard....they think what would she be like?? lol | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/7/2005 3:22:24 PM | Why would a young guy want to do something as boring as "cuddle in a bed for 3 hours"!!??
Man, now that is whack!!!
Seriously thou, if you arouse the guy's interest in mutual things (non-sexual things) you will get that cuddle, just be prepared for him to doze off once the cuddling begins.
In my opinion women have just as much sexual thoughts on their mind as men, they just go about it in different ways. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/7/2005 3:33:49 PM | | i believe it's a method of torture. they crawl in bed together and he's already looking forward to the nights plans in his mind and she looks at him and says lets just watch a movie and cuddle. i can only imagine what is going through his mind as he lays there for 3 hours. when he had plans on doing something else for 3 hours. what agony. this poor guy will be scarred for life. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/7/2005 3:51:37 PM | | illnev Don't forget the maid, the school teacher, the woman at the coffee shop...... the nurse.... | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/8/2005 11:38:55 AM | | It is not our faults.It part of the male side of any species to start that whole sex thing, and when were close it be comes a physical desire that takes over.It is somewhat incontrolable.It not that we dont respect you or what you want.It just makes it really difficult when you have large amounts of testosterone coursing threw your brain.Its also rediculous to assume everyone is the same, this is impossible concidering the vast numbers of people and cultures. | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/8/2005 1:55:55 PM | | yeah well they should try to controll it at least fer the girls sake and if not fer anything else at least to keep us around | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/8/2005 1:56:04 PM | | yeah well they should try to controll it at least fer the girls sake and if not fer anything else at least to keep us around | |
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| kk(?) guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/8/2005 1:59:13 PM | k now canoe guy~~now i know not all guys are like that some do like to cuddle after sex
but why do we need to have sex every single time we're in my bed... | |
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| kk(?) guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/8/2005 3:13:57 PM | | If tryed to control myself, I would say i can 75% of the time.Other then that i have to leave the room or have it at. | |
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| kk(?) guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/8/2005 3:42:55 PM | | im 24 and i can honestly say sex is not as much an issue as it was in high school, its like smoki and drinkin, your old enough to screw and old enough to party your ass into the ground, but it just isnt as fun when its allowed | |
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| kk guys arent any better??
Posted: 4/8/2005 4:01:45 PM | age is big factor, I won't date a woman under the age of 26 because maturity and priorities.
You should be out enjoying life, there will be plenty of time to cuddle when you are old. | |
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