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zonea
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 10/2/2008 1:53:14 AM | | Wowee! This post has been a real eye opener for me. Until now, I believed sex stopped for women at 50. A misguided male friend of mine sold me this story 5 years ago and I believed him - my God, what an ignoramus he is! Listening to all these wonderful 50 plus women who seem to enjoy great sex after 50. To think I used to envy men because they can go on forever while we women conked out at 50! And to listen to the senior ladies, it seems it's the opposite problem - men can't keep up with the libido of 50 plus ladies! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 10/5/2008 6:37:41 AM |
Until now, I believed sex stopped for women at 50. Sex has always been possible and even present for women at and above 50. Even before "little blue pills," it was a matter of attitude more than physiology.
Now that we do have little blue pills, men can keep up (pun intended) with the libido of 50-plus women.
And sex is still great at almost 60!
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 10/5/2008 8:24:29 AM | I can't believe that in the 21st century, people are still asking this question!
Yes, sex over 40 or 50 is great! No more worries about pregnancy, no little kids knocking on the door just at "the moment." Once you get to this age, you realize how much you have going for you, how much you know, how much you'll put up with from a man (not much!) and a wealth of knowledge in a lot of other areas.
And a plus - this seems to be the era for younger men, older women! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/6/2008 6:16:18 PM | | Turning 44 in about a week and I'll tell you what, I have been horny since I turned 40. Coincidence? I don't know. I wish I could find a partner that I could enjoy sexual activity with everynight. Problem is, most guys I have met my age are not as interested. It's like a job for them or something. So far, I can't find anyone that has the same sexual desire as I. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/6/2008 6:46:21 PM | i'm over 40 and damn....energizer bunny has kicked into full throttle....what she wrote has nothing to do with your experience....right?....sleep with womever you want..  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/7/2008 10:31:40 AM | Well I am not over 40 but my wife is. I enjoy her sex drive and if she still has it going on and wants it..>Suck it up and give it to her...The more the better....After all they say us men can't go on for ever..
Where is that Pill. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/7/2008 10:41:39 AM | You need to search for a woman that fits. everyone is different ,however, I have found "oldeer"women to get greedy in bed. Hands grabbing, lips smacking, greedy greedy hands. It's all a bit overwhelming sometimes. It can put a guy off...NOT!!  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/7/2008 11:03:25 AM | I'm 43, and I have the libido of a woman half my age. Luckily, my man has the libido of a man half his age (he's 48) so together, we're pretty hot. The good thing about being 43 is that I'm smarter, more confident, self-assured, I know where everything goes, how it works, and what to do with it. Sex is 90% mental- if you feel sexy, you'll be sexy, no matter your age, weight, or physical beauty.  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/14/2008 4:35:55 PM | well I have read all these comments I am 58 my wife is 58 we use to have a great sexual relationship, I still get horny every day , but my wife lost her drive about 15 years ago, says she doesn't need it , doesn't want it , we have not had sex for 15 years and she never gets horny and i want it all the time, she doesn't like to cuddle or kiss or any kind of intimacy, so undoubtly it it is not the same for ever woman or man, and i stay horny all time I sure could use some and by the way when she says she doesn't want or need sex she has the nrve to tell me it is all in my mind that I need it. so beware this can happen to u | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/14/2008 4:44:19 PM | Sometimes......it's not that they aren't interested in sex.... it that they aren't interested in sex w/their partner anymore.
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/14/2008 6:48:31 PM | All I can say is, whomever your source is, they are wrong. I am 46, have been through menopause, am not on the patch to replace hormones, and I have a very healthy sex drive. In fact, I enjoy it more now than I ever did.
My plans for my 50's is to continue to enjoy it! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/14/2008 6:54:40 PM |
well I have read all these comments I am 58 my wife is 58 we use to have a great sexual relationship, I still get horny every day , but my wife lost her drive about 15 years ago, says she doesn't need it , doesn't want it , we have not had sex for 15 years and she never gets horny and i want it all the time, she doesn't like to cuddle or kiss or any kind of intimacy, so undoubtly it it is not the same for ever woman or man, and i stay horny all time I sure could use some and by the way when she says she doesn't want or need sex she has the nrve to tell me it is all in my mind that I need it. so beware this can happen to u
Your wife needs hormones. They make all the difference in the world. HRT got a bad wrap but there are bio identical hormones and I am really glad I found them! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/16/2008 4:57:36 PM | I love women in their 40's and 50's. They know what they like and they like it a lot!!! I remember dating younger women who love to play the "oh he really likes me, I'll make him wait" game. That used to get me to play the game with another person!!!
The women I date now are very upfront and don't play games. Oh and they know what they are doing without the hangups and inhibitions!!! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/16/2008 5:25:54 PM | Well, I am 46 and have less hang ups and inhibitions as I did when I was younger, so sex is much better for me as I age. I plan to have sex until I die....and that would be the best way to go  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/16/2008 5:31:00 PM | confidence is a plus when it comes to women. -thats what captivates us men -(of all ages) and gets us so intrigued about a mature women -the way this beautiful creature knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to go for it, -not saying we don't like the younger ones too. just something about the older ones that turn us on  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/17/2008 5:10:14 AM | havnt met a mature woman yet that doesnt like sex....they did have issues with their exs but after we had a night of kissing,fondling and other they ALL loved the feeling and some have never crossed some of the bridges we crossed.....lol | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/17/2008 2:28:28 PM |
LOL racermatt!! (You obviously didn't forget one of my other posts in another thread...too funny!)
Well yanno, there are some things one just cannot forget...  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 11/17/2008 6:22:40 PM | Well, I will be 56 next month, and I gotta tell ya......I am always "in the mood" !!
Of course, I'm sure that my change of partners is a huge factor! Especially considering I had no partner other than my right hand for more than 3 years.... Our love-making just seems to get betterer and betterer (Connie's Dictionary: betterer --the positive progression of Connie's sex life.)
Seriously, my folks are 79 and 78, and have been married since they were 17 and 15. They still have an happy and active sex life. So....I got good genes!  | |
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