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 Kareeza
Joined: 10/18/2008
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the older I get the better it gets and the more I want...as well as new and fresh experiances..
and as others have said most men of the same age are not keeping up..

now...
I dont mean keeping"it" up..I dont expect it to be..for hours..

the "hard" on is not the centre and be all and end all of sexual fun.....

I like playing and cuddling..bitting,spanking,smooching,massaging,bathing,touching tickling,senses play..intensity play ,role play
FOR HOURS...
 oohlala21
Joined: 11/28/2008
Msg: 252
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Posted: 12/5/2008 5:20:52 PM
Okay I'll admit not reading every post so I apologize if someone's already said this, but, what causes sex drive in women is the same as men, it's testosterone, not estrogen. So declining estrogen levels would have no affect on that.
 madame581
Joined: 11/8/2008
Msg: 253
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Posted: 12/5/2008 6:06:40 PM
So not true!!! I'm 60 yrs old, not only crave sex but could happily enjoy everyday! Sex is good for what ails a body and we should all start the day out with good old fashioned orgasm!
 NOLA Chick
Joined: 8/26/2008
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Posted: 12/5/2008 9:09:57 PM

Okay I'll admit not reading every post so I apologize if someone's already said this, but, what causes sex drive in women is the same as men, it's testosterone, not estrogen. So declining estrogen levels would have no affect on that.


Oh, good, this was close to the end so I didn't have to scan the whole thread before posting the same thing.

Yep, combine testosterone with the knowledge that you won't get your period or get pregnant and you pretty much have a woman who is experiencing a new kind of freedom and enjoying every minute of it.
 realdeal43
Joined: 3/12/2008
Msg: 255
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Posted: 12/6/2008 2:27:48 AM
LIKE CREATING A FINE WINE.. SEX Only Gets better with age and experience.....:)
 oldschoolamir
Joined: 9/13/2007
Msg: 256
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Posted: 7/20/2009 10:25:28 PM
hello there I just love reading your forums. How is your grandmother?
 licoricecat_1
Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 257
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Posted: 7/20/2009 10:33:56 PM
Both men and women still have a sex drive when they get older. Post-menopausal may not get lubricated enough and men may suffer from diabetes or other illnesses that may cause them not to be able to have an erection. These are the medical issues. People can work around these issues however. The most important thing is for 2 people who love eachother to try to satisfy the other in a variety of ways and they are not always sex. Be creative and enjoy eachother.
 archerny
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 258
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Posted: 7/21/2009 1:47:11 PM
I am sixty seven and my best partners have been in their 40's and 50's , mind you I am particular and very selective in who I pick as a partner. my sex drive has not diminished, and I contribute that to a healthy life style, food excercise etc., etc.
Licoricecat, you are absolutely correct about satisfying your partner in a variety of other ways, wether it's it is sexual in nature, or simply giving the right attention to the right partner.

BTW, Licoricecat, Love your photos.
 GSDGSD
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 259
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Posted: 8/5/2009 4:27:29 PM
To know me from a distance at first you will be able to see I am honest of seeking a LTR relationship. Is it overwhelming to read that this site member is looking for more than sex .. romance, (sex) intimacy are "equally" important as the social aspect.

Jeff
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 Jkbnimble672
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 260
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Posted: 12/23/2011 11:20:17 AM
I can only give your MY own personal experience and that is I am 58, never have enough and haven't found a woman that can keep up with me. Not bragging, just letting you know, not all the older guys have lost it yet. I love the romancin and forplay a lot now. I am able to hold off as long as my partner wants me to, its not all about me, its about my partner. Keep lookin. ;)
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 261
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Posted: 12/23/2011 12:07:01 PM
The stuff that woman sent you is bull. I have never been on hormone therapy and I love sex (I'm 58, nearly 59). I get incredibly horny. Your informant doesn't understand hormone production. Menopause does not mean cessation of female hormones (estrogen & progesterone) ; it does mean the reduction of female hormones, but just as men have a small amount of estrogen produced in their bodies, so women have a small (varying quantities) amount of testosterone (responsible for libido). So the reason some women who go off sex in menopause is not because they have the equivalent of castration, but other reasons (psychological, whatever). Hormone replacement therapy is really only useful for slowing the thinning of vaginal tissue. It isn't about boosting sex drive.

As for having bad relationships/ bad sex lives: again, nonsense. I have had bad relationships and some jolly good ones. The bad relationships were ultimately about the men not having much sex drive and me having to find good sex elsewhere.

So, stay with sexy older women. We like it.
 Corkslad
Joined: 10/11/2011
Msg: 262
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Posted: 12/23/2011 5:21:15 PM
i like older women and i wish there were more older women in Ireland who would just like to have some fun with younger guys...

If theres any out there mail me on here
 statemachine500
Joined: 8/25/2011
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Posted: 12/24/2011 4:13:12 PM
You're one of those guys that should keep his shirt on.You look like you're playing with yourself....
 rrolf
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 264
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Posted: 12/24/2011 5:32:55 PM
just looking for fun
 mogrl42
Joined: 4/16/2007
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Posted: 12/25/2011 7:01:42 AM

the only problem that I see for sex and women over 40/50 is that the men over 40/50 can't keep up...shame.....
well,most of them can`t keep up,very few can.So knock a few years of and get a younger guy for really good sex
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 12/25/2011 8:12:40 AM

well,most of them can`t keep up,very few can.So knock a few years of and get a younger guy for really good sex


If an older woman experiences vaginal dryness the man is justified, now, in looking for younger women, right?????
 The Waiting Knight
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 267
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Posted: 12/25/2011 8:32:51 AM
I agree with the shirt. That is repugnant.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
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Posted: 12/25/2011 9:20:29 AM

a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.


hahahaha what planet does this person live on? then why do women over 30 spend all day and a good chunk of money trying to make themselves look younger?

this is just another thread where angry and bitter old women get to bash us older guys. Then they wonder why we want younger ladies.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
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Posted: 12/25/2011 9:24:15 AM

Both men and women still have a sex drive when they get older. Post-menopausal may not get lubricated enough and men may suffer from diabetes or other illnesses that may cause them not to be able to have an erection. These are the medical issues. People can work around these issues however. The most important thing is for 2 people who love eachother to try to satisfy the other in a variety of ways and they are not always sex. Be creative and enjoy eachother.


this lady being an exception to what I just wrote. Thank you licoricecat. Kudos to you.
 statemachine500
Joined: 8/25/2011
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Posted: 12/25/2011 12:03:52 PM
Guys over 50,just get on TRT.This will make life far easier as regards sex,controlling your waistline,mood,maintaining muscle mass.Just do it.
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 271
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Posted: 12/25/2011 12:25:53 PM
Do women over 5o actually have sex?

I have to admit I kind of assumed they wouldnt
 Want_You_2010
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 272
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Posted: 12/25/2011 12:46:41 PM
Sad that us men get bashed and are nothing to women when we hit our 40's. Ahh to be in my 20's and 30's again. These times seem that all the women in their 40's and 50's want the 20's and 30's guys. And they all seem to make their minds up painting us guys with the same brush.
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 273
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Posted: 12/25/2011 5:05:56 PM
This morning my friend and I had fantastic, frantic, luscious sex - twice. The last 4 or 5 mornings we had fantastic, frantic, luscious sex twice, after a short break of cuddling. Both of us are in our late 50s. How good can it get!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 12/25/2011 9:04:26 PM

Sad that us men get bashed and are nothing to women when we hit our 40's. Ahh to be in my 20's and 30's again. These times seem that all the women in their 40's and 50's want the 20's and 30's guys. And they all seem to make their minds up painting us guys with the same brush.


Not all us women think this way...
I have always loved an older man....and even now that I'm almost 49, I still enjoy an older man. (and by older I mean my own age and older )
I find their comfortable confidence in their abilities to be sexy as hell.
They know how to laugh and have a good time, and know that the destination isn't the be all - end all of the ride......but taking the windy, slow backroads to get there is!

There are definately advantages for both men and women that come with age,
and sex is one of them.
 southernbabe03
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 275
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Posted: 12/25/2011 11:04:35 PM
I will be 49 on Dec. 28. I absolutely love sex and I love younger men. I have a high sex drive. I have not been able to have kids for 20 years and that made it better back then.
Now that I am older, it is only better as I am. I have been told that by an ex I was with for a second round, lol
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