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 Want_You_2010
Joined: 8/31/2009
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Sex isn't the be all to end all. But these days women brag about how they are bangin these studs that are young. And if old guys say they are bangin anyone most times women say they are full of it. Who cares if anyone is having sex over 40 or 50?
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 277
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Posted: 12/26/2011 9:01:14 AM
Women on here must be the exception. I went on Web/MD to get accurate information. they had two gynocologists, one man and one women who are supposed to be nationally known authorities on the subject. Both said women's sex drive is physical and emotional. but they both agreed that when a woman no longer ovulates, the physical part of the sex drive decreases. the vaginal walls get thinner and easier to tear. Basically, you can't beat father time. That applies to men and women.

The emotional part of a woman's sex drive is obviously not as affected with age, so an older woman can still be a "horndog. lol Testosterone does affect the libedo, but it has side affects like a "moustache" and hair growth. so I guess a woman with a mustache might potentially be a good time!
 lucyjade
Joined: 8/7/2011
Msg: 278
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Posted: 12/26/2011 12:19:35 PM
What a good post! Needlesstosay I agree 100% of what you say. I enjoy sex much more since being older and I guess its to do with being much more relaxed about it.
 2Sweet4U2
Joined: 5/29/2011
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Posted: 12/26/2011 12:42:52 PM
Your the type of woman that I would go down on for a series of multiple O's very sexy looking woman atractive and beutiful all in one
 matchlight
Joined: 1/31/2009
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Posted: 12/26/2011 2:35:19 PM
None of the women in that age group that I've known has had the least problem with a low sex drive. Sometimes it's almost a little scary--like they were going into some sort of strange fit. The thought of calling the paramedics may even pass through your head. "Yeah, it looks like another case of hyperactive clitoris, all right. We see this all the time in women this age. We'll just give her some basic treatment--she'll be fine."

I met one woman about fifty who could have an orgasm after nothing but a few minutes of doing sit-ups on her floor. I'd read about things like that, but I thought it was nonsense--until I saw (and heard) it. When it happened, I naturally thought she must be disappointed at not being able to finish her workout. So I went over and sat down next to her to console her. But despite my good intentions, that only made her more emotional, and she never did finish the rest of her sit-ups.
 sharing41
Joined: 10/14/2009
Msg: 281
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Posted: 12/26/2011 3:27:02 PM
Bardot I am with you hun, love hardcore sweat till you cant breath anymore sex, pity I spend my time swimming to release that sexual energy till i find the right one.
 cin____dy
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 282
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Posted: 12/26/2011 6:28:25 PM
Okay that is bunk about the women issue and menopause. That simply is NOT true. There is NO study that will say that!! Women's sexuality does not stop because of menopause. Actually women's sexuality increases with age.!
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 283
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Posted: 12/27/2011 7:48:55 AM


love hardcore sweat till you cant breath anymore sex,



wrap you up in a quilt on 100 degree farenheit dat with a gagg?

sounds like something Pol Pot would do!....no no no ..... we need to be a little more comfy dan dat!

how about a thlightly thawed daquiri rockin' backwards and forwards in a hammock by the beach watching the setting sun on the water, no-one around (just one English backpacker secretly videoing us on her HTC iPhone and upload to face book or sumfink)

a couple of chilly flutes of champers (champagne) and slaves like in iSpartacus. you be Cleopatra and I'll be .....ummmmm Frank Thring...
 imacpc
Joined: 11/3/2009
Msg: 284
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Posted: 1/8/2012 9:15:25 PM
kinda bothers me that most women say older men cant keep up!
i have to date younger women just keep me on the level
maybe im not the average
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 285
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Posted: 1/8/2012 10:14:13 PM
Just to update my situation. The last two sex sessions with my lover we had sex not twice but three times, after short breaks between them. My 54 year old guy had never experienced a second erection, let alone a third. I am 59 today. So there you are, we older birds just get better.
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 1/9/2012 12:03:51 AM
I had sex with women 55 and eve 60 without taking any batches of estrogen and they were sexually wild,. After she got three orgasm she wanted more and waited until I rested and recovered and gave her more. I am in my 60 and I am always horny if I get hornier more than that it will be embarrassing.
 WorldBfreeLOL
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 287
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Posted: 1/9/2012 12:17:50 AM
The message I take from all these posts is "Keep hope alive!"
Or "Hope is alive!"
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 288
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Posted: 1/9/2012 5:35:00 AM
I am 52 & due to a lifetime of high estrogen, have taken natural compounded progesterone for over a year...

the only diff b/w me now vs years ago is that I won't tolerate nonsense just to get laid.

an honest, straightforward (yet tactful) man gets my attention over a slick player type
 lauramae18
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 289
40.5; in trouble!
Posted: 1/9/2012 2:42:02 PM
I'm40 & a half now and have trouble finding someone to keep up, I'm not looking forward to 50
 NawtyNikkiPgh
Joined: 12/31/2011
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Posted: 1/9/2012 8:39:05 PM
There are studies and research that women do have problems after menopause. The difference though is that it does not have to happen to all women. Women who are in tune with their bodies, who are healthy, who feel comfortable about their age and their sexuality can all enjoy an active sex life.

If a woman is having problems, there are supplements, herbs, and other holistic modalities that she can use to overcome whatever physical changes have occurred due to menopause. Its not hopeless or unmanageable. My guess is that since most women hear about other women who have had problems, when they have problems, they assume they are unavoidable due to age.

Alot of women do not have doctors that can guide them through perimenopause and menopause. And they are embarrassed, so they suffer in silence. And its all unnecessary.

I prefer older men though the older I get, the younger those older men seem LOL Its not necessary for men to have problems with ED. There are ways for them to treat ED or other problems holistically and have more sexual energy and capability.

And there are other ways to have wild crazy orgasmic sex without intercourse. It just takes some creativity, some patience and some honesty.
 Naughty Nights
Joined: 2/8/2010
Msg: 291
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Posted: 1/10/2012 12:48:42 PM
Yep, Gimmie a nice middle aged broad any day..
 Cholayna
Joined: 7/18/2011
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Posted: 1/10/2012 2:48:15 PM
OP is completely wrong. I am now over 50 and enjoy sex a helluva lot more than I did when I was younger. And yes, maybe I do want it more too!
 onceagain57
Joined: 11/25/2011
Msg: 293
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Posted: 1/11/2012 5:39:36 AM
I havnt been with any woman including my ex who went thru her change...that hasnt enjoyed sex....its totally the way you treat a woman...right down to opening doors or doing dishes.....they appreciate it all and as for the act....kissing and foreplay is a biggy...enjoying every asset they have....I know whats worked for me in any relationship....good luck!
 Incognito555
Joined: 9/19/2011
Msg: 294
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Posted: 1/13/2012 12:26:44 PM
Sure, lots of women in their 40's and 50's want and enjoy sex. I am just surprised at the number of women (and this goes for men too!), who, if still desiring intimacy, why so many do not look after themselves.... you know...... try staying fit, in good shape, and trying to make themselves look attractive. Keep their hair, attire, etc., nice. Same for both men and women, some look attractive at any age, and some are not attractive at any age. It has a lot to do with how we look after ourselves......in every way. I do wonder what women are thinking who are 20 pounds plus overweight, and live a sedentary lifestyle, when my profile says I am of athletic body type, and my lifestyle includes fitness activities. Whether they read my profile or not, these are definitely 2 different lifestyles/mindsets.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
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Posted: 1/14/2012 6:36:45 AM
want you, you need to update your facts, everything I have read says sex is active in over 50, 0ver 60. google STD and Elderly

I assume those that keep fit and exercise regularly are the active, but if you shut down and haven't had sex for 5-10 years, you don't think about it anymore.

It might be hard to get started again, but once started it's like ride a bike.



Posted By: Want_You_2010 on 12/26/2011 952 AM
Sex isn't the be all to end all. But these days women brag about how they are bangin these studs that are young. And if old guys say they are bangin anyone most times women say they are full of it. Who cares if anyone is having sex over 40 or 50?


One factor can be medications like Viagra or Cialis. Another factor could be a newly single life. "Some seniors are real prudish when they're young but when they're divorced or widowed,they go wild," said Fisher.
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 296
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Posted: 1/14/2012 7:05:44 AM
Last nite I got an email from an 86 yr old for sex. He looked like Grandpa from the Muensters
god bless him if he can
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 1/14/2012 9:01:13 AM

bLondeDeviL12524:
Last nite I got an email from an 86 yr old for sex. He looked like Grandpa from the Muensters

god bless him if he can


There is a story I tell, a true story. It sometimes upsets women when I tell it, but…

My dentist has his office in a large professional building, 3 stories, big atrium, hundreds of offices. Mostly doctors and dentists and that sort. One day I’m waiting for the elevator, and there is an old guy waiting with me. So old, his back is bent, he walks with a cane, looked kind of like Yoda, if you can picture that. Up walks some pharmaceutical sales person / rep. Young, female, drop dead gorgeous. Short, petite, long beautiful black hair, beautiful face, very nice figure. Dressed in a power suit which showed off all of her assets, but looked expensive and professional at the same time. Pulling one of those large sample cases with wheels.

Turns out Yoda is a doctor, he starts a conversation with this young woman, asking her what she is here to “push” today. Whatever it was, he says he uses those, she should come by his office, he will take time out of his busy schedule to see her and hear her pitch right away. Very obviously making a play here, despite the fact that he is at least 75, and she can’t possibly be 30 yet.

When I tell this story, I always end up, “I just hope when I get to be that age I’m still in there swinging!”

Some women understand the point I am trying to make. Others just go, “Ew! That’s disgusting!”
 qualityl
Joined: 10/16/2010
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Posted: 1/15/2012 11:08:21 AM
As for me: I dated a guy 14 years older than me for 11 years. He has passed away. He treated a woman with respect and class. Dating a man older is great until you get older and god takes him first. Dating a man younger than me is a waste of time because he is not on my level in life, might have great sex if he is fit. Dating a guy a few years younger or a few years older is what I want. So we can grow old together and connect on all levels of life! Learned alot from my life and being picky! Females have a great sex drive in 40/50 if there bodies are fit and healthy. The key to success is living a healthy life style. Good luck with dating younger woman especially in today's world.
 bignuru
Joined: 2/16/2011
Msg: 299
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Posted: 1/15/2012 4:05:28 PM
I am a 30 years old man and i am looking for a woman that would spoil me sand make happy for the rest of my life.you can drop me a line and then we will take it up from there..
 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 1/15/2012 4:37:22 PM
I think it is not true that the estrogen batch causes stroke to every woman that is BS there are million women ob estrogen patches and never has stoke. May be in that woman case is an isolated incident. I am sure there is one woman or man in the world who allergic to something we use every day. As for women age and sex that is true as in every thing in nature. When we get older our sexual desire decline.
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