| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/10/2007 11:19:19 PM | | AWSOME, AWSOME, AWSOME, SO DAMN TRUE!!! The guy i'm involved with now says that that he loves having sex with me because "I **** him back" don't just lie there like a dead fish or think that it's all about me. We may not be as physically flawless as a 20 year old, but if you don't know how to work with what you've got...it ain't worth shit. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/10/2007 11:21:23 PM | | Sorry, I was responding to the posting by Bound for Camelot...maybe now i make a bit more sense, lol | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/11/2007 6:01:35 AM | i agree with JO, i've run the age scale in dating and think someone around my age has a desire to create art not simply f***.....
attraction and connection (not like that) are the keys to true passions no matter the age..... | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/11/2007 11:49:50 AM | I have found in the last few years that my sex drive is much higher than it was in my 20's, but back then I was a full time mother, wife and worked outside the home. I also believe it is due to my changing hormones as well.
I opened my mind more to finding out who I am and what I want and need in life, in all areas of my life. I have always been curious and open to exploring the sexual part of myself, it's the finding of ONE partner, that wants to share and explore too, that has been difficult. I have been enjoying the challenges I have made of myself. It's the evolving little pieces that keep coming together in this person that is me that I am really liking what I am becoming.
I think the key to a great relationship is open communication. If you have that in all areas, including sex, how can you not have and make a connection and have passion, with your partner. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/12/2007 7:43:53 PM | I do believe in love at first site and always will.....I'm not saying you cant fall in love with someone eventually...but if the spark isn't there at the beginning....it doesn't work for me. I'm beginning to think I'm in the freak category cause everyone asks me why I'm still single and on this site........and I was once asked...is there something wrong with you...cause you shouldn't be on here LMAO.
There is nothing wrong with me.....when I LOVE...I ****ing LOVE...and I know right from the very beginning if that's a happening....
What really surprises me is that I am told that I base to much on sex....well WTF....I don't need a man in my life if the sex isn't going to be any good....come off it....the reason I want to be in a loving, caring, relationship is for the sex...I'm going to be honest.....that's what I'm looking for and that's the number one important part of being with a man to me. I could care the **** less about the other bull shit that people keep trying to shove down my throat. This is what I'm looking for....the spark...the butterflies.....the fabulous fantastic sex that we enjoy with each other.....I could care the **** less about money...property...job....etc etc I provide that for myself...I CARE To find a partner the TURNS ME ON, that's number one.
See the difference between being my age and being younger is I don't need anything to be provided for me from any man....I can get whatever I want and do anything I want....what I do want is a great sexy partner...to have fun with and enjoy...and please don't talk to me about growing old with someone...so that your not lonely....ummmmmmmm I would rather be lonely then with someone who I don't tick with.
I give myself a great life...I don't need someone to give that to me...what I do need is a man to share it with and to HAVE THE BEST SEX EVER WITH!!!!!
oh before any of you say I contradict myself....NO Im not on this site trolling for casual sex with just anyone LMAO this is the difference.....what Im saying is SEX IS TOTALLY IMPORTANT TO ME and if there is no spark initially....and I mean heart racing want to rip our clothes off attraction...forget it , it wont go any further...thats whats important to me...
I guess Im one of the lucky ones Im over 40 and can be as honest and as authentic as I want to be....oh and it hasnt just been at this age....I have always enjoyed sexual intimacy.... with the right partner | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/13/2007 12:38:49 PM | | I love older women! Have always fantasized about older women!!!!! I wouldn't turn her down for sex if she is in her 40's or 50's! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/13/2007 1:59:55 PM | Having been in the "geezer" age bracket, for sometime now, I feel I can offer an educated opinion on this subject. As women age, they only get better at sex! They may not have the hard, flat bellys, or perky breasts, but as with anything else, their experience at sex only makes em better, at it. Consider the wrinkles as "knowledge lines," and go for it, men.
Hmmm.. maybe I shoulda said younger was better, & saved all the experienced ones, for myself? Oh well, I could have never afforded that much Viagra, anyway. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/13/2007 2:18:21 PM | I thought women in there 40's were in their prime...Hmm, must be why I have a hard time finding a man who can keep up with me. Have to agree tho, it does keep on getting better and better!!!   | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/14/2007 4:15:56 PM | | Most definitely..... women in their late 30's to 40's are definitely better than most in their 20's for sure. They sure know what they are doing and can actually keep up! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/14/2007 4:56:51 PM | I've had sex with a couple of women over 40 and the sex was HOT! An older woman has experience and the ones I dated knew things that some younger women I've been with didn't have a clue about. Older women know their bodies a lot better than most younger women and most are more in tune with a man's body. There's some younger women that haven't even experienced an orgasm. When I was 32 I dated a woman who was 44 and she was one sexy vixen! She took care of herself and had the body of a much younger woman. She was extremely sexual and I think the fact that I was younger had something to do with her appetite for sex.
She had just gotten out of a boring 17 year marriage and was itching for some excitement. All she ever wanted to do was have sex, because her sex life was non existent with her ex husband. When you run into a woman in their late 30's early 40's who've just come out of a boring marriage, they're like kids in a candy store when they meet a younger guy. I use to think older women started losing their drive as they aged, I was WRONG!  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/18/2007 5:09:56 AM | | heres the bottom line,awoman can choose whom ever she wants as a partner,where a man has to first,find one,woo her and still be thrown to the curb.its a shame,but thats the way it is.there are a lot of fish out there,but as you noticed,over 40,and up,are more or less looking for someone,not for a sex partner but a companion,i say phooy/the whole thing stinks and thats the bottom line. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/18/2007 6:15:43 AM | | After reading all of this I decided to post my own thread. Please take a look and leave a comment Asp you ladies that are convinced men over 40-50 can’t keep up. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/18/2007 7:02:50 AM | | Actually it is the male hormone Testosterone that creates the sex drive. Men as we age typically have a decrease in it and hence the same happens to our sex drive. Women have it as well just in smaller amounts until after 40. They have an increase in it and they experience an increased sex drive.One of the reasons we change so much was we age.The men have an increase in female hormones and the women have an increase in male hormones. Aint life grand. The way to battle this is to stay active.Having plenty of muscle seems to maintain hormone levels in a proper balance. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/21/2007 9:31:25 AM | Im 41 and my last boyfriend was 6 years younger then me and when we had sex he had to stop for a rest. Well that says it all  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/21/2007 11:44:27 AM |
MY EXPERIENCE IS THAT WOMEN OVER 40 ENJOY SEX
newsflash.. i enjoyed sex before 40.. now that i`m 40.. well.. i`m waiting 2 enjoy it.. again..  ..
DO I NEED TO SEARCH FOR YOUNGER WOMEN??????
not unless ya wanna be viewed as only a sugardaddy.. oh & what makes u think u`ll be able 2 keep up w/the young ones?..
and buddy.. plz loose the caps.. ty.. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/21/2007 11:58:27 AM | OP, that information was subjective and consensually false. Let me explain.
First of all, sex "drive" as everyone calls it is not merely in the hormones. Hormones definitely are a precursor to sexual activity but the mind and emotions carry the sex need more than the body does.
Only 11-15% of women in Canada are actually prescribed HRT for troublesome menopausal symptoms. There are alternative methods which women can educate themselves about.
I have aunts and grandmothers who did not experience a decrease in their desire for sex after menopause. That is because they felt more free since the issue of pregnancy was no longer a concern. Mind you, one of my aunts dumped her husband after many years of marriage because she realized that emotionally, he cared nothing about her...so she moved on without her ball and chain into her new adulthood.
Menopausal women struggle because some (not all) have difficulty managing the moods that go with the hormonal changes (which can last up to 10 yrs for some). The lack of compassion or understanding about these mood swings often precipitate disappointment for the women who wish their partners would be more understanding.
If you want to know what a woman's menopause will be like, find out what her mother experienced and it is likely she will have similar issues.
Hot flashes are very uncomfortable. Your skin feels like it's on fire. That coupled with the heat and friction associated with sex already causes many women to forego sexual activity because it's unbearably uncomfortable. Their partners' sulking over it and pressuring behaviour only add to their struggle and malcontent.
Studies also indicate that women are tacitly hurt by men's ignorance and disregard for what they are going through. They often do not or refuse to sympathize with the hell their body is going through. This in itself leads to them wanting less sex with their mate or partner. For many men, menopause is considered nothing less than a four letter word.
The women who have the most trouble with menopause are right here in the Western hemisphere. Interestingly they do not experience as much discomfort in other cultures where menopause is revered as a right of passage to a woman's wisdom and leadership skills. In other words, she is assigned another value besides being a cum receptacle. Go figure, they begin not to give a crap about the man who is always harping her for sex.
Those women who showed greater sexual desire were women who had understanding husband or partners and were willing to work through the troublesome symptoms.
Lesbian women report fewer symptoms and less decline in sex drives, saying that they enjoy themselves despite their lack of need to be reproductive any longer. (go figure)
Many couples fail to fully develop solid emotional relationships with their spouses because sex was the biggest asset they shared. Interestingly, many women separate from or leave their husbands/partners at the age of 50 because they realize they are not truly loved. Without the sex, they are considered less valuable.
There's a reason they call it menopause...break the word down. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/22/2007 10:48:32 AM | OMG...It is on my mind almost constantly!!! I am done with menopause and do not use hormone replacement therapy. I cannot imagine what it would be like if I did....  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/22/2007 10:52:27 AM | | im looking for an older woman but no luck yet guess theres none in Kentucky lol ......its kinda like fine wine women get better with age !!!!!! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/22/2007 11:41:10 AM | | We most definetly know what were doing ! ! ! ! Were also not afraid to tell you what we need & want if needed | |
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