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 CrazyDiamond97

Joined: 12/21/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2007 11:52:43 AM
I was about to say the same thing, so thankyou. Saved me the writing. Cheers.
 peacefulwlife

Joined: 2/15/2007
Msg: 77
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Posted: 2/22/2007 12:32:53 PM
We're not wells, we don't dry up. Honestly..I think some women experience many physical changes with menopause, none of my friends nor my mother have..They wanted sex more.
Gimmee, gimmee, gimmmmmeeeeeee. NOW. lol..Some of their men are having major issues with them WANTING so much sex..Go figure..
 Blackhart

Joined: 1/9/2007
Msg: 78
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Posted: 2/22/2007 4:19:13 PM
OK-Ok Let the good times roll, I'm not trying to say I Am or I CAN, but for the blessing I now at the tender age of 56 have a wonderful, no GREAT sex drive, and the lady I'm with now keeps saying i could be a walking add for Vigara, so even with snow on top, we Guys in many cases have fire in the Love Life Dept.
I can tell you guys it's not the staying power it's the lack of use, if you just sit and grow old, you grow old.
 rickyshot

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 2/22/2007 5:04:24 PM
I am 52 and this is the best time of my life sexually concerned. I was in surgical menopause at 42 due to a total hysterectomy. The first two years after were hell and then I adjusted and boom superwoman again. I too find men my age having a hard time keeping up with not only sexually but in all areas of life. Even young men have a time because I am energetic and fit.
 javelin1010

Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 80
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Posted: 2/22/2007 11:34:35 PM
LOL....It's the younger "studlettes" that think they are God's gift to older women. Women like guys that REALLY know what the hell they are doing, not just think that they do. And when an older woman tells you about seeing "The Who" in '72, you don't want the reply to be,"Oh yeah, my dad was there too."
 HzChld

Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 2/23/2007 1:10:15 PM
LOL...very true and very well said javelin1010
 b8td

Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 82
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Posted: 2/23/2007 5:05:39 PM
Thank you,.. so eloquently put.Time for 'Liz Kubler-Ross' maybe!
 b8td

Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 83
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Posted: 2/23/2007 5:15:42 PM
women (some of them)take HRT.The med news of late is now stating that the benefits of taking testosterone are multi faceted.Aside from the so called benefits sexual,there is proof that it does have the ability to ward off some cancers.I'm 60,..shooting up with it on the ass.The lab tests claim I am still on the low end.My last digital exam,the doctor was rather surprised that my prostate was the size of a twenty-five year olds......It was enlarged (normal for a man my age just two years ago) the length of time I have been self injecting same.I am sure that there is a contributing factor to my sex life(or lack thereof) and sure beats Viagra
 marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 84
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Posted: 2/23/2007 6:31:33 PM
Ovaries do not cease estrogen production, they just slow down some (maybe a lot). Proper stimulation can re-light that fire. I've heard of post-menopausal women who have started having periods again and everything as a result of a particularly exciting lover entering their lives.
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 85
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Posted: 2/23/2007 7:17:21 PM
Women over 40 rock!!! Women over 50 rock too, heavy metal!!! All women rock, but 40+ and 50+ know how to "dance" the "dance".
 Tarika

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 86
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Posted: 2/23/2007 7:49:28 PM
I'm over 45, and I think I've always had an healthy attitude and appreciation toward good sex. Yes, I know how to 'dance the dance.' However, men my age...now that's another story.
 Nick Thinker

Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 2/23/2007 7:53:45 PM
Each man is a different story, and that includes 40+ or 45+ men! So pls do not generalize!!
 Tarika

Joined: 8/30/2006
Msg: 88
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Posted: 2/23/2007 7:55:11 PM
Yes, Nikos...each man is a different story....but in general men over 50 don't do anything for me.
 hudson1

Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 89
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Posted: 9/26/2007 8:45:43 PM
IM 46 AND I LOVE SEX I THINK THE OLDER U GET THE BETTER IT GETS
 sex_artist

Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 90
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Posted: 9/26/2007 9:14:35 PM

the only problem that I see for sex and women over 40/50 is that the men over 40/50 can't keep up...shame.....



Ouch!!!!! I sort of resent that!!!! At the same time.... it depends... if I'm with a Pillow Queen and have to do all the "work" .... then yes I can't keep up but ....If I'm with someone who likes the back and forth of effort ... I don't have any problen keeping up ... thank you very much.....

Talk about not keeping up.... I find it rare to find a woman over 40 who can stay on top for more than 5 minutes without complaining about bad knees or something... Age does play a factor in some things I'm afraid!!!!!

As far as pillow queens who can go for hours..... thats why we have maturity.... in order to incorporate multiple partners with multiple Orgasms..... without the jealousy of youth....... Mmmmmmmm

Don aka Sex Artist
 Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 91
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Posted: 9/26/2007 9:19:06 PM
Great something more to worry about...*walks off shaking head*
 ~ Lainey ~

Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 92
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Posted: 9/27/2007 12:15:28 AM
The largest organ of the body is actually your skin
I don't think you can pigeon hole someones ability to perform or someones sex drive simply by age. Wine and cheese get better with age but that all depends if you like either lol! Last time i looked at my loaf of bread which had gone past its sell by date it had turned green so wasn't fit for anything hehe!

Reading these threads it appears that mens libido must, according to the comments, be in its peak in their 20's tailing off after that and womens libido doesnt kick in till later in life....hence the older woman younger man scenario! Surely to god if two people love each other then together they can improve on their sex lives....medical conditions not standing in the way of course

~ Lainey ~
xxxxxxx
 tinytowngoddess

Joined: 11/5/2006
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Posted: 9/27/2007 7:34:25 AM
I'm 42. I like it more now than ever. And want it more, too, but I'm also smarter, and more careful than I was in my 20s. As we age, we learn more personal responsibility, and of course I know I'm a much better lover than I ever was when I was younger.

I say mature sex rules!

J.
 bird on the wire

Joined: 6/13/2007
Msg: 94
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Posted: 10/1/2007 2:42:42 PM
Wrinkly Sex

The old dog's in heat
The old **** is willing
The children find
The scene somewhat chilling
Two old foggies
Fumbling around
On their knees
underwear down
Wrinkly sex
Is all the rage
The older you get
The worlds a stage

It's not confined
To the bedroom
It's no longer unseen
By younger children
Wrinkly sex is so obscene
Dirty, disgusting and unclean

Knobbly knees
That can't get up
Old life less limbs
That can't get down
Two old ravers
coming and going
Going at it
Up and down

Get a bucket
Fill it up to the brim
Dowse the foggies
Both her and him
Look at their bellies
Flopping around
Tummies drooping
On the ground

See their skin
Loose with no hair
God look at his bum
High in the air
Have they no feelings
For the horrors on display
Consider the poor children
Watching them play

No decorum
No reserve
New age foggies
Have got some nerve
They once condemned
The youth of the day
For promiscuity
For a roll in the hay

Now their inhibitions
Have faded away
The dirty buggers
Are at it all day
Have they no other past times
Can't they go play darts
Instead of old ladies
Behaving like tarts

What sort of example
What sort of signals
Do pensioners give
When their bodies mingle
Four in a bed
Oh what a sight
An OAP orgy
Not one upright

If you are over 50
So not to strike fear
Don't take your clothes of
If kids are near
They should not be frightened
By strange sounds and sights
As old age pensioers
Claim equal rights

I should be compulsory
That aged old men
Only make love
Every now and again
The lights should be turned down
The curtains firmly closed shut
And the older old people
Should cover their butt

They should not wear thongs
They should not wear laced silk
They should wear cotton pyjamas
And things of that ilk
Why don't they give them
Anyone over sixty three
Bromite for breakast
Any some more for tea
To dampen their adour
To kill their verve
Or give them injections
To kill of their nerve

Its not fair for us younsters
To see all around
Oldies and foggies
Frolicking on the ground

Older people should grow old with ease
They should not wish to sexually please

They should be put in homes
And perhaps restrained
And if they still want sex
They should be chained
Chained and tied up
And beaten and whipped
Humiliated and taunted
Cuffed and stripped
No wait don't go there
What is this I suggest
Oh i give up
They probably all cross dress.
 wodehousefan2

Joined: 9/12/2007
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Posted: 10/1/2007 2:54:53 PM
The lady does not understand that there is a purely chemical sex drive-from hormones-and there is a purely mental sex drive which comes from imagination. The horniest woman I ever knew was one who had had a complete hysterectomy, and also gone past the age of menopause, and so had no hormonal sex drive. After she met me, and decided to try having sex again-after many years of going without it-she had her first orgasms with a man, and found she liked them. From then on, she wanted sex all the time. The physical-emotional experience of multiple orgasms stimulated her imagination, and she could not stop thinking about doing me again. Her mental sex drive kicked into high gear. Many people do not realize that there is a non-hormonal sex drive, but those who know it enjoy it. HRT works for some women, and not for others, but is not needed to kick the mental sex drive up. Find younger women, or older women who are enlightened.
 Ravenstar66

Joined: 8/27/2007
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Posted: 10/1/2007 3:37:10 PM
hmmmm....41, no where near menopause yet

But libido seems to go up after 35, not down....

now I just have to find the time!
 ronscons

Joined: 5/22/2006
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Posted: 10/1/2007 4:28:48 PM
msg 4 and others--- they can't keep up with me, once in a while seems enough for these gals but they keep coming back, but in between seems every excuse in the book!
 ButterflyKissess

Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 98
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Posted: 10/1/2007 4:51:47 PM
EXCUSE ME BUT .....HELL NO!

I went in to menopause very early and I am NOT on any hormone replacement drugs. My sex drive is running on full throttle.

One of the most recent comments from a guy was YOU NEED A 17 YEAR OLD! if that gives you any idea.

Possibly you would need something to keep up with me or I should look FOR YOUNGER MEN since guys reach their peak at 17 and you are ..how old?
 browni4u2c

Joined: 8/26/2007
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Posted: 10/1/2007 5:16:10 PM
Hey there it does not stop at 50 believe me.. Sex only get better with age. I hope to make it to 70 going strong.
 southernsue

Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 100
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Posted: 10/1/2007 7:29:00 PM
I am a woman in my later 40's and I still have the sex drive that I had in my teens and twenties. No problem here. My problem that men around my age have erectile dysfunction. So maybe I need to look for a younger partner.
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