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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/15/2008 4:59:52 PM | | You hit the nail on the head. RitaZ Wanting sex and feeling sexy is mostly in our heads. I can't believe I wasted so much time on someone that didn't get me. Best of all, I get me! and that makes all the difference. And as far as menopause goes, it's only increased my sex drive. And the night sweats are actually melting the lbs away as well. Who knew menopause could actually be so beneficial? lol | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/15/2008 5:11:00 PM | | I'm 45 and never craved sex more in my life and I enjoy the satisfaction I get while making love to a man that can keep up with me. Sex only gets better with age. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/17/2008 7:24:18 PM | I had to add my 2cents worth.....I am now 55 yrs old...this is the best time of my life for me...I am exploring my sensual side, areas I did not know exsisted and enjoying every minute...am I too old...."oh heck no"....I am free to explore, enjoy, relax..its all good !!!!!Is being erotic good??? Is sex good??? oh yeh!!!!...Dont count me out!!!! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 2:38:38 AM | | speaking as a 29 year old, bar a few execptions of course, my experience has been women tend to enjoy sex more as they get older and they tend to be alot better at it. I think its the fact that they've let their pretensions go and just simply know what they want. And they are experienced enough to understand their own bodies. It always depends on the woman but ive found there are as many mothers who'll hit on me as daughters! lol So dam no they don't lose their sex drive. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 5:54:18 AM | | Actually, younger men prefer older women and they can be just as aggressive about pursuing as some older women who like younger men. They prefer the experience, no drama and less demanding relationship is what they really like. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 6:13:00 AM | | I don't have a problem with my libido...it's finding the right partner who turns me on that I have a problem with. These older fat bald guys who want to date me are just not cutting it. It's not their age so much as their appearance and mannerism. The younger guys in their 40's not only LOOK better to me, but they ACT better too. They are more open for suggestion when it comes to sex. Older guys not only have trouble performing, but if you suggest something they have not tried before, they totally shut down. (I'm 59 and know what I want!) | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 6:53:41 AM | Just for some womens attention:
Check into a new drug for women called LibiGel..it is the viagra for women essentially..
It is a tetosterone based ointment..so women with diminshed sex drives could have it work wonders for them..or that is what the researchers are saying..
It will come in a pump bottle & all you have to do is rub a small bit on your upper arm.
The trials showed it led to a significant increase in satisfying sexual encounters..the safety studies are expected to be completed this year!
I bet that was one fun study..and you know"volunteers" are reimbursed for certain reason/items etc..if these people were paid for their mileage,time..had their medication given to them..is it prostitution..and not sure what colors for the bottles. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 7:38:26 AM | | When a woman gets older, she tends to be more comfortable with her body and has a better idea of she likes. However if the man I'm having sex with is bad, then I'm not going to enjoy having sex with him regardless of my age. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 8:21:33 AM | One of life's little jokes on us... Guys hit their prime, the women don't want anything to do with us. Women hit their prime and us guys are all tuckered out from having sex with older women...
Hey, if ya really love someone, you'll figure out how to fulfill each other's needs... Hmmm, good thing they don't have Viagra for women yet, guys would be dropping from heart attacks left and right!
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 8:27:19 AM | | right...and for years women have to put up with listening to men complain about not getting enough...THEN when we're ready to roll, our partners are rollin over...go figure | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 9:06:18 AM | Well, thank god for the almighty equalizer: Viagra... Add some caffeine and you have a man that's ready to go, hopefully, long enough... Then again, if we take a little nap in between...
Ahh, nature, you are a devious critter!
Hmmm, what are YOU doing Sat night??? Wink wink! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 9:41:00 AM | Well I am 46 (I hate that number) I still feel like I'm in my early 30's. Anyway, I could stay in bed all day, I absolutley love sex. No more cares about birth control, just fun whenever you want. It does help that there is a wonderful person in my life that I'm having it with.
Now the early poster who said it has to be with the right person, was absolutlely correct. Once I got rid of a crap piece of husband, it was amazing how fast the libido came back.
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/19/2008 2:55:09 PM | I didn't even know people still had sex over 40..not to mention 50 Huh??? You can't be serious, Yoyanna! Who do you think all the ED commercials are for...teenage males?!?
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/25/2008 8:53:23 AM | | Well I dont know about the rest of you folks, but I'm still very interested in sexuality-- though I think emotionally I'm just wrecked from being hurt so much... so its not so much about physical loss of desire as emotional. Now if the right man came along- someone actually DECENT with good intentions, I might just perk right back up :) | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/25/2008 2:24:07 PM | CG789:
When a woman gets older, she tends to be more comfortable with her body and has a better idea of she likes. However if the man I'm having sex with is bad, then I'm not going to enjoy having sex with him regardless of my age. The truest words spoken. "Enjoying" sex has a whole lot less to do with age than the experience itself. Age might be one determining factor in whether there is an 'experience' or not. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/26/2008 9:17:53 AM | nah, stick with the older ones, at least for me, I feel no down fall of my desire to have sex, as a matter of fact, it is more of a wanting now then when I was in my 20s  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/26/2008 10:11:09 AM |
I'm 45 and never craved sex more in my life and I enjoy the satisfaction I get while making love to a man that can keep up with me. Sex only gets better with age.
You sick puppy. You're probably like my gf, craves it, loves it, and now I have been late to races with a huge smirk on my face. Ha.
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50????? Posted: 1/26/2008 11:11:52 AM | | AMEN to THAT curlygrl!!!! Now the only issue is finding someone I might actually WANT to be with when it's all said and done! | |
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