| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/26/2008 12:50:47 PM | * Better With Age ! * . . A woman my approximate age . . with my approximate Drive . . ??
Now Yer Talkin' . . !!! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/26/2008 2:03:39 PM | | I have had an increased libido for about a 2 years now. I crave sex all the time and I am going through menopause. I could have sex all the time!!! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/26/2008 7:32:09 PM |
Uhm. Maybe. But what would you rather have. Sex - or an actual relationship? Once you've decided...then look for what you want.
Its also hard to find parents of younger women in 20's to 30's who are going to approve of the guy who is 20 years older.
At least in the early 20s
For my own part, my relationship has an age difference of 18 years and I am 21. But even our relationship isn't about sex.
Again, it really depends on what you want, and what you're willing to put up with for your relationship.
I've been dating someone 19 years younger, the biggest age difference ever. Actually the relationship probably isn't going anywhere long term, but we really enjoy each other's company for now.
Funny enough, her dad is much closer to my age than she is, but he and I get along really well, and he's very encouraging of the relationship -- even though it's obviously a lot about sex. But I think he recognizes what else we have which is great. Actually her dad is an extraordinary guy. Unfortunately her mom is a bit of a wreck, and not much of a parent. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/26/2008 7:49:59 PM |
I don't have a problem with my libido...it's finding the right partner who turns me on that I have a problem with. These older fat bald guys who want to date me are just not cutting it. It's not their age so much as their appearance and mannerism. The younger guys in their 40's not only LOOK better to me, but they ACT better too. They are more open for suggestion when it comes to sex. Older guys not only have trouble performing, but if you suggest something they have not tried before, they totally shut down. (I'm 59 and know what I want!)
Dreamgirl, I have the same problem!
At 40-ish it seems the gap really starts to widen, in how time has taken its toll. Some people look 15 years younger and some 15 years older.
Also, something seems to happen to some women around 40, where all of a sudden they look *a lot* older in the space of a couple of years. I know this can be hard for them to deal with, and that it affects their self-esteem and probably their sexuality. A couple of my friends are going through this and quite frankly they're a wreck. A few years ago I might have been interested in them but not now, and their physical appearance isn't the main factor!
Then there's the random neurosis factor. A lot of people by age 40 have become significantly mentally ill, because of bad life experiences, poor mental and emotional hygiene, drinking, drugs, etc.
Unfortunately, some people don' t just dry up like prunes physically, but emotionally and mentally too. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/26/2008 9:56:33 PM | I don't get private on this forum...so if my smart ass remarks bother people, I apologize... :)
But I am serious when I say this...at 45 and since joining POF, I have come up with some awesome, creative fantasies that one day I'd love to do with that one special man...so I'd have to back up my 40+ POF sisters on their posts when they say that a woman only gets more sexier and hard to keep up with. :)
And to the lady who initially started this thread...how long has it been for you??? You'd die if you knew how long it's been for me...but I don't complain cause I'll have my day...and night. Whoo whoo... | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/30/2008 4:58:33 PM | | well ladies i hear what you are saying.but you need a younger guy in their 30's that will get the job done like me.b/c i have dated older women in the past.and i would like to get to know dreamgirl? stunninshark | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 1/30/2008 5:26:43 PM | This might give you a hint,
Two eleder wome were stroling on the beach and one of the was walking by a cane,
and a man was lying on the beach and all his body covered bu sand and his memeber
was sticking out.One of the 2 women said it is not fair.So the woman woth the cane did ask what is about,so the other woman said.When I was 20 I was curious about it,on 30 I enjoyed it,when I was 40 I did ask for it ,on 50 I paid for it,on 60 I prayed for it.
On 70 i forgot about it ,now I am 80 and that thing is growing up wild I can Squat!!!! | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/1/2008 12:05:00 AM | Age isn't necessarily an issue . . unless it's a Capability Issue . .
Women over 40 ...with Great Drives ...merely want a man that can be a good lover . .
Romantic, Sensual and Respectful . . Adventurous, but not painful . .
Playful, but not childish . .
After 9 years, alone . . I'll start slow . . with a 30 minute KISS !!!
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/1/2008 3:30:55 AM | | My question is Is it actually that we are wanting more sex at this age then before? Is that because it isnt there for us every night as it once was when we were married? Now that we are single and there isnt someone sleeping beside us each night? Does anyone feel that this maybe the reason why we are wanting more sex then before? Because we want to feel wanted and needed ? That yes sex is a great part of a relationship but the fewling of being wanted is maybe far more what we are looking for? and that sex is our one way of knowing that we will be wanted? | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/1/2008 5:45:10 AM | good lord you'd think we're dead. Since the biggest sex organ in the woman is her BRAIN, if you stimulate that your lady is still going to want you. if you still make her feel sexy and desired and loved and appreciated, she's still going to want you. it might take you a little longer in the foreplay department and keep the sex good, she's still going to want you.
there are women who, after having a mediocre or lousy sex life, use the menapause excuse never to have sex again and that is just fine for them. frankly, if its good, you want more, dont you? | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/1/2008 2:19:03 PM | | Some women, as well as some men, have a lowered sex drive as they mature, but others of both genders do remarkably well. Emotionally, the climate may change however. Sex between mature partners is not for reproduction. Different approaches such as oral may be very helpful in getting satisfaction for some. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/9/2008 12:28:20 AM | I believe you're right..
That old saying, "life begins at forty" has new meaning now..
I know of women in their 50's and 60's that claim to enjoy sex more now than ever before..
I spent some quality time with one lady of 68.. She was as good or better than most of the much younger women I've known.. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/20/2008 11:44:26 AM | Never know till ya try. Just joined this site, men emailing and IM for cyber experiences forget it Accept no imitations or simulations
No one's preferences or quest for experiences is the same, just got to keep sifting thru the pieces of the puzzle to get the one that fits your expectations  | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/20/2008 1:13:27 PM | | I enjoy being with women past 45. There is a lesser risk of pregnancy. Their children are usually are adults and are out of the home. Less worries. | |
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/20/2008 3:49:36 PM | When the ovaries are gone each woman reaches her own level of desire. Some say they will never need sex again. Others say they have more desire. I can say I have never felt more alive. It took time to get threw the change after surgery. So, I think it depends on the person and the couple. I had no desire with my ex. and with some men I have dated. But, there are others...  wow man-o-man... I'ld shuck my shorts for anytime...
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| SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 2/20/2008 4:00:36 PM | You might not ever have a chance to read any replies on here because of the bulk emails your going to get with that offer....
Like Robin Williams said,"God gave men a brain and a penis and only enough blood to run one."
Hesitate. You area very good looking young man. Good luck in your pursuits of pleasure.
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