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Posted: 1/3/2007 6:32:54 PM | This is a tip esp . for grneyedqt4u-
I think you can still block him-
go into your "contacts" list & you'll see everyone that emailed you & be able to view all correspondence...even the deleted unread should be there.
If you go to the bottom of one of his emails to you , you should be able to block him  
Hope that works for you! | |
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| Why do some people feel it's ok to blast you...
Posted: 1/3/2007 10:17:10 PM | | When I went to my contacts page, clicked on him, all the emails he sent me are there but mine aren't. I tried what you suggested, didn't work. Took me to the main email page with his profile info on it, like when you first email someone. Fortunately he hasn't emailed me again... after reading his emails again... it sounded like he thought that I was going to change my profile and continue to talk to him. Sorry NO! | |
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Posted: 1/3/2007 10:21:31 PM | Hey Thanks Crittersitter!! I have a Perv that I am seeking to block and avoid as well. I deleted ALL his messages.
Get a load of this Ladies and Gents......he cuts and pastes seductive scenarios and there is another woman's NAME inserted where MINE should be. Go figure. The shallow mind of some men. Pahleeeez.
Now tell me how can I "inform" ALL the other women Who he is? Inquiring minds who want to know, email me and I'll be more than happy to let you know who to avoid.
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Posted: 1/3/2007 11:21:00 PM | Just read their forum posts. You can learn a lot more than you would ever learn from a profile.  Sometimes I find myself wonder if a poster even knows that his/her forum posts are going to show on the profile. Ok, there's a few I don't think even care  | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 3:30:50 AM | | I think some people feel somewhat anonymous and distant and see things that make them angry based on past experiences. This is a public forum and everyone seems to have a soapbox sometimes. In their own distorted perspective, they may feel that it's a form of constructive criticism. Take it for what it's worth as just someone's opinion. Sometimes you have to have thick skin but not all people are that critical. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 8:56:09 AM | Whoever blasted you for your profile most likely did not read the entire thing as you sudgested. If they would have, they may have laughed as I did. It was quite creative and funny which shows what type of person you must be. Try not to allow others silly opions bother you, because I saw a funny and creative, non-materialistic,(sorry, I'm a rotten speller. ) basically nice person in that profile
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Posted: 1/4/2007 12:05:33 PM | The thing I have to wonder is why you would beat yourself up for not perfectly dealing with the situation...
Not only does this seem to be one of the first times this has happened to you...
Not only does this seem to happen to 'most every woman online here...
Not only do you understand where you went wrong and how to do it better next time...
But you also are a kind person, whose profile portrays a strength of character that seems to have been severely shaken by this jerk...
Read your profile again, and just look at how cool you were when you wrote it... You still are that cool person, you just need to let go of the victim and become the lovably b****in' power-woman again! And, as always, you have a gargantuan support system on the forums, so don't be afraid to come back for therapeutic reasons, alright?
Good luck, and as for the guy in question: good riddance!
Congrats for surviving his onslaught: goes to show that you're stronger than you give yourself credit for.
~ David | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 5:14:34 PM | I have actually let it go, I just wish he would post in the forums. hehehe
I know who I am, what I stand for, what others like in me, so it really doesn't matter what some loser guy has to say about me in an email that I shouldn't have even responded to.
The sad part is, one of his emails made it sound like I should change my profile and continue to talk to him. That's pretty wacked! My profile actually gets more responses now then it did when I said "Looking for a nice, serious guy. Who likes kids and camping" no one responded then.
And in all actuality that's not me... I do want a serious nice guy, but if my profile read any differently you wouldn't see the true me. I love to joke around and I'm very humorous most of the time. Someone who wants to date me has to be able to handle my evil, wicked, humorous side.
At one time my profile heading was "Hot, Wild, Monkey Sex..." I wonder what he would have thought about that?? | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 5:49:58 PM | people want a challenge, but there's a good reason:
If there's no challenge, then what's the goal?
If there's no visible goal, then what's the use of trying? You'll just be firing blind, and as far as most men think, that's a waste o' good ammo...
I suggest you use the realistic profile "looking for a nice serious guy, etc..." and add a bit.
Find a balance between "waiting for the right man" and "hoping someone can *finally* win fair lady's heart, cause she'd had it up to *here* with wussy, 'nice' guys!"...
Hopefully the balance is not too hard.
Oh, and stay away from that last heading... That'll attract guys like him like flies...
Unless you want to draw his fire from other victims?
~ David | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 6:11:52 PM | Your profile is just fine,,,,,,but you should have stopped at Ok I don't care what you look like........LOL   or what you drive......your a girl......who speaks her mind and it's good..!! | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 7:15:18 PM | want me to send him a virus. that should get him off line<img or hack in and put his personal info all over the site just a thought src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_204.gif border=0>  | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 11:19:50 PM | Well, sure, I have had hot wild sex, but the whole primate thing was sort of scaring me. Or maybe I was lusting after the monkeys. I normally try to limit sexual contact to my own species. I am just funny that way...
Or maybe they thought you were a camera person for the National Geographic Channel or Animal Planet. There always seems to be something mating on those channels... | |
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Posted: 1/5/2007 1:44:30 PM | That is funny because this lady blasted me about being a polo player and hurting horses. I have never hurt a horse in my life. She sent me this e-mail that blasted me like all polo players hurt horses: She tried to say that polo players break jaws of horses. I have never even heard of a horse with a broken jaw. In 35 years of riding I have only see one horse break its leg and it was at a slow speed and it was a misstep. It had nothing to do with polo players.
Well this is what I was going to tell her before she would take an e-mail back.
WOW that is not the kind of polo we play. I play arena polo and my horse is my baby. She is well taken care of. She has been playing polo for 7 years. My friends horse has been is 22 and is in amazing shape. We take care of our horses. But I know there are players that do treat their horses like a disposible Dixie Cup. And that is sad. Horse racing is even worse. They don't love their horses. I know there are horse treated bad in any horse world. I have seen it, I have rescrued horses and brought them back to a good place.
And wouldn't you want to know the person before making a broad general statement, that "all polo players are bad to horses" This is just not the case. I also know a guy that breeds polo horses and they are better taken care of than me. Each horse is $60,000 to $90,000, so he is not going to treat them bad or he could not sell them. He has 100 horses+. Every horse and their program is on a computer and there are many people that work the horses. If one of them mistreated a horse they would be out. And of all my friends that play polo there is not one horse that is abused.
That would like someone saying that all people in Temecula are Winos. LOL That is silly.
Well I think you get my point.
So lady in Temecula hope you know that not all people who play polo do the same thing. Now that was a blast from her. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2007 3:24:46 PM | When people blast you or say anything to hurt you or put you down don't listen to them. They are idiots that just want to hurt others because their life sucks.
Try not to let this get to you, because that's just what they want to do. | |
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Posted: 1/5/2007 6:33:16 PM | I was not aware that polo was a giant horse cruelty issue. I will have to think about that the next time I hit the Eldorado Polo Club in Indio!
They offer golf cart polo now... Are you guys brutalizing the golf carts as well? Do I need to start a movement? People For The Ethical Treatment of Golf Carts? | |
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Posted: 1/6/2007 8:28:37 PM |
I'm a card carrying member of this group are you mocking us?
Is it possible to mock a mock group? If so, can one mock a mock group without getting dizzy? And what about the golf balls? I don't see anybody sticking up for them and they're subject to a lot more cruelty. I've even heard of them being abandoned in the grass or, worse, left to drown in a pond. | |
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Posted: 1/6/2007 9:40:22 PM |
Is it possible to mock a mock group? If so, can one mock a mock group without getting dizzy? And what about the golf balls? I don't see anybody sticking up for them and they're subject to a lot more cruelty. I've even heard of them being abandoned in the grass or, worse, left to drown in a pond.
I frequently throw golf balls in the pond, I want to see one float... and they never do. Sometimes I paint eyes on them and then run over them. | |
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