| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/7/2007 7:42:45 PM | Beach Babe
I don't know if you have given up on your thread or not. I want you to know that there are men who will date and respect you. I dated a woman that was pregnant. We were both in our 20's. I was in the military. I stuck it out untill toward the end she became VERY ornery and ignorant toward me. I went on a 6 month patrol. when I got back, She had the most beautiful daughter. She wouldn't give me the time of day. She only needed someone to get her to the birthtime I guess. I was crushed. I have a son who got his nards crushed riding bulls. He wanted to be a proffesional bull rider. He may never get to have children. He actually looks for pregnant women to date. SO....My point is, Yes I would and yes other men would. Just realize how emotional you get while pregnant. If you find a fine man...Don't run him off. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:08:03 PM | don't think i would personally..i think it would be best to wait till after the pregnancy before you date, you could probably do without the stress of a relationship
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:27:42 PM | Hi,
My thoughts are if you are mentaly ready to parent a child and give him or her the love they need go for it I was 19 when I had my first child. I never depended on a man to take care of my daughter or myself. I am a stronger person because I did whatever it took to raise a child on my own. She is now 13 beautiful and and honor roll student. I had people feel my head with a ton of negative thoughts, Well guess what? I am one hell of a parent and I did it without a man. Good luck to you and your baby, take your time in dating and don't worry about a man in your life if will happen soon enough, just focus on being a good mother and father for your child. There are guys out there that will still date you, be patient. Best of Luck!! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:30:05 PM | | I cannot believe you are out here hunting a man when you are pregnant..you should be preping yourself for being a mother, and a reminder....it's not "ME" anymore..it's "US".....please grow up before you have this baby..it's bad enough you met up with a looser who got you pregnant and wants nothing to do with the baby...if you cannot find someone to love you AFTER the baby is born, devote all of your time educating yourself and the baby...don't make the same mistake twice. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:54:36 PM | In response to Ewok123
I think this post is really horrible. Do you realize that this is a child you are talking about not just a money pitt! For that to be the first thing that you think of really says something about you! When she does find that perfect guy he will love her and it sounds like to me she will be able to support her own child and if he helps isn't that his choice? Not for some materialistic person like you to pos,t picking on this poor pregnant girl with a bad break! Can you blame her for not wanting some loser near her child and most the time childsupport means visitation. If that was your baby what would you do? Some people like you need to go and live in some other peoples shoes for a while before talking about something they know nothing about!
She will do great as long as she belives! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/9/2007 6:29:10 PM | | Why are you blameing this on a bad break? We have more ways of birth control now than ever in history. We have more education than ever before about sex and pregnancy. Why as an advanced society do we rely on others to accept resposibility for our actions. She got prgnant. She made the decision to have the child. She has to deal with the outcome. Quit validateing her "bad breaks" and tell her and everyone else if you do something thats going to have consquenses then be prepared for them don't expect every guy to accept what your bad judgement has inflicted on your life. Deal with it! Your not an angle and niether are the rest of us, but don't expect to be coddled, if your sad you can't find mr. perfect, then be sure to tell your kid it was your mistake, and not one they should make. Your the one with the kid it don't matter who the dad is, it's time for women to realize they got the right to say no, or yes, but with yes comes a lot or responsibility and they are always always always the ones left holding the bag!!!! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/9/2007 8:05:34 PM | I LOVE the look of a pregnant woman. As long as she's keeping healthy. Some girls can just have that nice round belly going on, mmmm.. It's... I wouldn't say it's sexy, but they can make it look sexy. Does that make sense?
BUT, the fact that someone elses dude is growing in there. Not for me.
The first time I lay my head on a pregnant belly, feeling that crazy love for my lady it'll be combined with the love of the child we've created. Not someone elses 'Whoops!'
Sorry.. Went on a rant. To answer, no I would not date a pregnant. woman. But I think they look great!
Dustin. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/9/2007 8:11:23 PM | | Yes, I could date a pregnant woman. I would have no problem but I can tell you it will be more difficult after the baby is born to get a date. BTW I find there are a lot of men who find a pregnant woman ery attractive. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 12:15:57 PM |
Your the one with the kid it don't matter who the dad is, it's time for women to realize they got the right to say no, or yes, but with yes comes a lot or responsibility and they are always always always the ones left holding the bag!!!!
I love it when people don't read the entire thread.
I'm looking for the point at which the OP had the opportunity to say no. Granted the majority of us have that opportunity and you point is well taken in that regard but posting such a message in a forum where the person under discussion didn't have that opportunity is in bad taste. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 1:54:40 PM | | hunnie there is somebody out there for everyone....Theadra is a bitter twisted woman... why the hell should you consider adoption?? you do wot is right for you!!....and the issue isnt about you being a single pregnant woman its about whether a man would want to date a pregnant woman!! i think theres alot that wouldnt but that still leaves the ones that would | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 3:46:50 PM | | Yeah why not? If you like a person and they like you back...a little bun in the oven wouldn't really stop me. We'd probably never be able to kiss at the 8 month stage due to our natural abdominal areas keeping us apart...but you can get around that I suppose. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:12:51 PM | I'm not exactly sure what you are trying to lure this pregnant girl into by not giving her the credit for having a child instead of taking the easy way of of aborting it or jsut giving it away! Keep your personal opinion to yourself!
I am a single mom and I have done it on my own and I also do not believe in abortion and my child is an honest "God Send" to me, and I would not dream of giving my baby away unles I was a homeless person! There are way to may resources out there now. I am not saying it is going to be easy but it is absolutely amazing what kind of strength a child gives you to be the provider that they need. I have done very well for myself and my child. I was very young when I was pregnant living the good life working part time. With having a child it made me a better person. I have a good job, educated myself and I own a home all on my own.
So please DO NOT give another single mom your advise, I find it unworthy to be here.
As for the pregnant mom, they may or may not date you when you are pregnant just use that time to focus on you and your baby it is an experience you may only get to visit once...enjoy it! You will eventually find someone who will want to be with you and your precious baby and you will know it when you find him!
All the best to Mom and Baby!! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:16:48 PM | Hey Theadra!
I'm not exactly sure what you are trying to lure this pregnant girl into by not giving her the credit for having a child instead of taking the easy way of of aborting it or jsut giving it away! As for her stating she is god fearing who are you to judge her being pregnat and god fearing...I don't see a halo around your head! Keep your personal opinion to yourself!
I am a single mom and I have done it on my own and I also do not believe in abortion and my child is an honest "God Send" to me, and I would not dream of giving my baby away unles I was a homeless person! There are way to may resources out there now. I am not saying it is going to be easy but it is absolutely amazing what kind of strength a child gives you to be the provider that they need. I have done very well for myself and my child. I was very young when I was pregnant living the good life working part time. With having a child it made me a better person. I have a good job, educated myself and I own a home all on my own.
So please DO NOT give another single mom your advise, I find it unworthy to be here.
As for the pregnant mom, they may or may not date you when you are pregnant just use that time to focus on you and your baby it is an experience you may only get to visit once...enjoy it! You will eventually find someone who will want to be with you and your precious baby and you will know it when you find him!
All the best to Mom and Baby!! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:45:04 PM | | WAGOOSH, you are a jackass. I'm sorry but Not all men are like you who wouldn't date a pregnant chick or a mum. I mean get a reality grip! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/10/2007 10:50:26 PM |
What are your plans for the child? I hope you're considering adoption; there are a great deal of loving, childless couples that could provide a happy two parent home for your baby.
Gee thats you know making People take resposabitly for their action, I am a God fearing Women and I am pregnant out of wedlock. My pastors also had a child out of wedlock when they were younger. You can not sit back there behind your computer and say what you have said. If you even remotly sugessted to me to my face that "I hope your concidering adoption" I would hit you for being so judgemental that I couldn't raise a child! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/11/2007 1:24:41 AM | Tm4sc:
Now we are getting violent.
Tm4sc, I suggest you think about the criminal assault charges and the jail time you would receive if you actually decide to carry out your physical threat on someone.
There is absolutely no need for violence in this matter. The op wanted an opinion and she is getting honest opinions. If she does not like the opinions she is getting, she has a choice not to return to this site. No one is forcing her to read the opinions of the people who are responding to her request.
Now, tm4sc, you to, are not being forced to read the opinions on this site. You must remember, opinions are like ass holes, everyone has one. You have stated your opinion. However, you have no right to intimidate anyone on this site by threatening to physically assault him/her.
Ym4sc, I highly suggest that you get counseling for your violent temper. It has no place on this site and no place in a relationship. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/11/2007 4:28:42 AM | | I'm not Violet at all, if you had read what i said you propely you would see what i said was if she has suggested that to my face i would hit her! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/11/2007 5:43:20 AM | the problem as I see it, and this is not an attack is that as your pregnancy continues and the hormones kick in you will love/hate whoever you are in contact with more and more.
That is a level of patience that is tough to keep (one of my best friends went through what you went through a while ago so I have lived through it as a friend). So it would take a special kind of man to want to do that.
Worry about you for now and the baby... then once things start to normalize you will be in the right spot to date... and never be embarrassed to be pregnant, most women I have known during this have looked just STUNNING! so flaunt it and enjoy it but realize that it may freak a few people out! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/11/2007 9:50:40 AM |
I would love to meet a guy who I can date
You seem very independant so I don't see why not. Sex could be an issue though, being pregnant and all. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/17/2007 4:49:09 PM | The question is "Would you date a woman who is pregnant?" It is in the "Ask a Guy" forum. She is looking for honest feed back. She told everyone that she does not believe in abortion and that she plans on keeping the baby. Then she asked "Is it better to wait till the baby is born, then I am just a single mom who works and goes to school?"
I realize that some guys can be a bit cruel in their reasons why they would not date a pregnant woman, and that's not right. But Some of you ladies need to just Chill out with all the offensive attacks here and maybe try to answer the girls question.
OP follow your heart, but realize that you will be spending a ton of time and energy raising this child. You might find yourself too tired or too busy to put up with the attitudes a lot of men can hold regarding that not being thier kid. It's a human nature thing, right or wrong. And as you can tell by the firestorm created here, that it could be a lot harder finding that "right" person than it would be if you weren't pregnant. I said I wouldn't date a pregnant woman, but I would be a friend, so in all this at least you got one friend. Go slow, think about your baby right now. Oh and one last thing... I am proud of you. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/17/2007 7:08:50 PM | | yes i would as long as her hubby didn't mind!! lol! and as for you my god fearing bible thumper...please keep those legs closed for a year at least! its true cause your choice in men sucks and mabey you need to give it a rest for a bit???lol! | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant?
Posted: 1/21/2007 4:00:58 PM | I would not date a woman who is pregnant. Many women live with the demented and perverted illusion that another man is always there to do the right thing and take responsibility for another man's mistake. It is a mistake for it was not, a pregnant woman would not be dating another than the father of IT. If the child was mine, it would be a different story. Women should be more responsible for their bodies if they are having sex. Pregnancy and birth control are not a "50-50" situation. Women have the ultimate say and control in a pregnancy.
This reminds me of the joke that Mario Joyner says, when he was asked by another woman "Black man, 45, no children, what happened?" He says "condom, that is what happened" | |
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