| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 3/16/2007 11:30:15 PM | | Would I date a woman that is pregnant? You bet, I have and would again. Aside from thinking that pregnant women look hot, I can't see any issues that would cause me not to unless the father was some sort of jealous psycho who might want to beat the shit outta me for dating "his" woman and trying to assume to daddy role. But under normal circumstances, you bet, I'd date a preggo woman again without a worry. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 3/17/2007 12:58:26 AM | | If I fell in love with someone, I would date them irrespective of their circumstances. It doesn't matter whether you are pregnant, what matters is your quality as a person and how responsible you are to yourself. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 3/22/2007 2:51:47 PM | | well that very much depends on who knocked her up in the first place. If it was me, I guess I'd have to. If it wasn't me... yeah no thank you. Cuz as soon as the baby pops out, I'll get no attention at all. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/2/2007 3:56:07 PM | i have read some of the most ignorent shit on here i for one don't beleave in abortion for that matter i don't beleave in religion i think its ****ed up the world oh and just for u guys out there who like to use abortion on girls they get pregnant try a condom.
i for one wud date a pregnant girl as long as the other guy knows shes pregnant and i'd have to know if the father wants to know its kid and wants to be in the kids life but then hey alot of guys out there like to **** and leave and act like nice guys till they get what they want but oh well guys like that give true nice guys a bad name and **** up a girls life at the same time | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/3/2007 12:15:29 PM | | wouldn't bother me. but i guess it has a small part in if the guys likes children or not. i myself love kids. i'm actually going to school to become a pediatrician. plus i guess it kinda shouldn't count for me cuz i've dated single moms and preg girls before (not by me). so don't worry yourself you'll find a guy. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/4/2007 4:06:45 AM | I couldn't seem to bring up your profile but just the same and in case there are any pregnant ladies out there.
Yes. I think Pregnant Ladies are Beautiful.. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/4/2007 4:28:10 AM | I can’t see why it would bother a man!! It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest to be with a woman that is carrying another mans child. However if she was either having an abortion or getting rid of the child id stay clear. Abortion or giving a child up are sick and selfish and I think all babies have the right to live and be with there bio parents.
These days there are so many contraceptives and ways to prevent getting pregnant that there is no excuse and your problem shouldn’t be the babies’ problem.
Anyway that’s how I feel about it all
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/7/2007 9:11:48 AM |
Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Have done it and loved it. Few things sexier in life than a pregnant woman.
I am a god fearing woman, thus the reason I am carrying this child, I do not believe in abortion.
Apparently not afraid enough to avoid pre-marital sex... I'll never understand that expression.....god fearing. Makes me think of ancient cults sacrificing lambs and goats. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/7/2007 10:36:03 AM | deagleninja:
Apparently not afraid enough to avoid pre-marital sex... I'll never understand that expression.....god fearing. Makes me think of ancient cults sacrificing lambs and goats.
Obviously you posted without reading the part where she wasn't quite sober and concious when she concieved? God fearing is self-explainitory actually, but then you'd need to believe in one.
As far as pregnant women are concerned, they seem to shine with life and are so beautiful! I am a Daddy that remembers the Glow of Momma, the Baby kicking and moving visibly inside her and my feeling of joy for being a part of the miricle of birth. It is the time for protection, pillows, pickles, watermelon and ice cream at 3 am.. whatever Momma needs, Momma gets..
Being a Daddy goes beyond blood or conception, and Daddy is a Title that Money cannot buy.
I would definately be proud to date a pregnant Woman. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/7/2007 12:47:31 PM |
Obviously you posted without reading the part where she wasn't quite sober and concious when she concieved? Nope missed that since the OP isn't even on the site anymore. Sides, what does that have to do with being 'god fearing'?
God fearing is self-explainitory actually, but then you'd need to believe in one. Or several. The only time I was a god fearing was late one night while masturbating at the ripe age of 14 I realized that god was probably watching me. Kinda scared me at first, but then it turned me on to be honest.
how many dam times do I have to tell you not to go running around the threads unsupervised.. Sorry paw.... | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/7/2007 1:05:40 PM | Wouldn't bother me.
I think it's the best way to be honest. If you do stay together, the child has only know you as their 'dad'. For me dating a woman with a teenager would be worse.
I think it's much less complicated.
However, as a general worry I would be wondering if I'm a meal ticket... You have a business so I wouldn't worry at all. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/8/2007 9:44:17 AM |
Have done it and loved it. Few things sexier in life than a pregnant woman. Like....an unpregnant woman *LOL*
Seriously, how sexy is a blimp who's retaining water and constantly complaining about backaches and morning sickness? | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/8/2007 10:00:36 AM | I personally wouldn't.
simply for the fact that the child WILL need a father figure at one point. Even if you say the ex is never gonna be involved, I wouldn't raise a children without a father figure, something will be missing in that kid's life, no matter how much you try to compensate for it.
And no matter how much I want kids in my life at some point, now is not a time I would be comfortable with.
It's my personal choice. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/8/2007 5:12:38 PM | This thread is a bit disturbing for me. I couldn't make it past page 2 and won't. I can't believe the blame put on this young woman, that the situation was her fault.
Why do I feel this way? If you want the truth, my last GF was drugged and raped. Taken against her will. Guess who got the blame? Her and myself, I will never understand why the innocent get blamed for something someone else does. When will the individual "solely responsible" be blamed and condemed for his actions? I wasn't there or around when it happened. Though I constantly live with this every day.
No support from my friends what-so-ever. They could only point blame in our direction. Trust was broken and friends were lost.
This thread reminds me of my friends attacking us. (now x-friends)
Give the girl a break and answer her questions politely with out passing blame and not knowing her situation. She should never have to explain herself to any of us.
For those of you who support her, thanks.
Peace
My oppologies, but this thread touched home.
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/8/2007 5:33:24 PM | (pick'z up mic) YES I SO WOULD!!! It's like this,i have 2 kids(girls) of my own and i tell you they are the best part of my life!! Just cuz "she has a bun in the oven" just tellz me there is more 2 love! There is alot of good times 2 come and hard ones 2! and just cuz she is 2 don't mean anything! If there is something going 2 be there it all comes from the eyez and work'z its way into the heart!! And as far as i date that is? That would be the best cuz then i can say i took yah both out on our first date!!! lotz of love 2 yah girl<3 zack<3 (throwz mic down and walkz out) | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/8/2007 6:28:28 PM | | i understand what u are saying because im in that right now im also pregnet. its hard for a guy to date a pregnet women yea and they think the worse but its no different then having children and dateing keep ur head up and dont worry because there are such thing of nice men who can understand. people get on here and judge others but noone nos who u are inside. hope u find that guy and wish u the best | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 4/19/2007 11:27:30 AM | Well what a subject lol!!! What can i sya 1st of all i was in a similier situation a few years ago...(it happened to me) And the women who said adoption.well what the f**k... i really dont think you should post comment alongthose lines when not knowing a person! 2nd ...all the men that said no they wouldnt date a pregnant women.well 1 word Shallow.... because i think if someone met someone and really liked them ...instant attraction sort of thing...well it wouldnt matter pregnant or not...would it??
Good luck to you and when your littl baby is in your arms single or not you will be the happiest person alive... and children bring more joy than any man ever would.. xx | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 5/5/2007 3:19:10 PM | | I love woman that are pregnant it shows they can take care of them selfs and I love kids it would not matter to me I would date some one who is pregnant and if we were getting married I would evin adopt the kid as my own | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 5/5/2007 3:49:16 PM | | This thread reminds me of a nice guy who 'came to the rescue' of a pregnant girl in high school ...only to see her get pregnant again to the next alpha male that enticed her spread her legs. OP, I'm not implying that you're the same sort of girl, but only recalling how nice guys get used and abused. Any man w/ some sense of self-esteem would be wary of dating a woman who is pregnant by another man, and especially for one who's 'out of your picture'. In jail? You don't seem completely hopeless, nor wrong for your moral decision, but I'd not hold my breath for what you think you need. Let me put it to you this way.Would you want a man to be there for you when you give birth to your child ...or is this something that you want to brave alone. Any good man is going to be attached to your child as well. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 5/5/2007 4:39:38 PM | | Yea, and that is the problem, the next guy getting attached, I was in a situation like this.You need to wait until after you have had the baby,and then go from their.I dated someone that was pregnant, was there when she had the baby,got attached to her kids from previous marriage,and new baby,then her feelings change towards me and the whole situation we were in,and then where did it leave me,nowhere. | |
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| Would you date a woman who is pregnant? Posted: 5/5/2007 5:24:40 PM | To me, being pregnant doesn't end when the baby is born. There is still going to be a LONG time where parents have to get up for late night feedings. It can be a lot to ask a relative stranger to accept up front. Also the specifics of how you got pregnant (other than the obvious) can affect how people view you (seeing as how the father is out of the picture, I assume it was unplanned).
As to being jaded about men, I am sure a lot of users on dating sites are pretty jaded. Many days, I consider just focusing on my career, saving up money, then just adopting on my own, and never giving dating a second thought. There is a lot of stress and anxiety involved with dating, and there are times I wonder if it is worth it.
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