| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:36:34 PM | Well I would love to have long, maybe curly hair. But my hair is very thin so I wear it the very best way it looks good on me. I don't think I would want someone trying to make me over. I can see why she was probably offended. I had an ex that even tried to make over my home furnishing styles.
Good Luck.
Nancy | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 1/31/2008 1:48:40 AM | | I think you probably did offend her. I know with me, I've tried mine several ways and I'm not comfortable with it any way other than how I wear it, which is naturally straight and long. Anyone don't like it....ya got two ways God gave ya to deal with it, and I ain't being mean....close your eyes or turn your head in another direction! lol. I'm me, and decided when my last relationship ended that I ain't changing who I am (inside or out) again for NO BODY!!!!! | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 1/31/2008 2:30:39 AM | "quote"lol would someone be offended if I said " a bigger penis would suit you"? I think it depends on the person, and how sensitive they are...my hair means everything, but i wouldnt be offended if someone suggested a different highstyle or said one would look good. Well as long as it was put nicely and not like " your hair looks like crap, cut it" lol "quote"
    That was funny! | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 2/1/2008 1:46:12 PM | i've had the longest hair (practically down to my butt) and if a guy is to ever tell me i'd look better with short hair, i'd seriously get curious. is he just saying that to start a random debate with me, or is he some fashionista? or he owns his own saloon. i mean, how often do you even hear a guy make comments such as these.
i wouldn't get offended. i'd see him again...depending on how everything else turned out. | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 2/1/2008 1:52:29 PM | there is no such thing as natural beauty it needs some enhancement
"needs"...wow...drowned in this commercialized world much? yes, women could be prettier with "enhancement", but it's not a need. one of my cousin is sooooo naturally gorgeous with her long lashes and what not. people think she wears fake lashes or i would think she'd be wearing some eye liner. she rarely wears make-up, and it'll be her dark gray eye-liner if anything. she's just so beautiful. they have this "celebrity match" online. you know...the one for the fun of things, when you upload a pix and it matches you with your "look alike". she got 85% for angelina jolie. i think it's her long lashes, high cheek bones, and extremly plump lips. enough older guys would ask me about her and i'm like...LEAVER HER ALONE...she JUST turned 15...hahahahahahaha...
i agree that make-up can enhance feature, but it is never a "need" for beauty.
i guess it's just either you got it or you don't | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 2/1/2008 3:35:53 PM |
there is no such thing as natural beauty it needs some enhancement
Speak for yourself, will ya?
There are tons of women out there that look absolutely gorgeous the way they are.
As for the OP's remark:
I guess that will depend on the tone you used as well as the woman in question. The more insecure or the more shallow she is the more your suggestion would probably hurt her.
You might want to keep in mind, though, that hairstyles (or looks in general) are mostly a matter of taste, so if you ask ten people about the ideal hairstyle for the same person you're likely to get ten different answers.
Also, looks don't really matter much, do they? I think brains and personality are what matters since beauty will fade over time, but stupidity or an unpleasant personality would never go away.  | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 2/1/2008 3:41:20 PM | | Lol yeah I guess you really scared her off. one thing you never put down is a women's appearance. I mean never ever kind of never. lol. | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 2/1/2008 6:26:24 PM | | I can sort of understand it, if she'd asked for your opinion, but if she hadn't then it is questionable to volunteer it. Like the other poster said, where would it stop? I've had this happen to me in the past and I felt offended. I overlooked the comment about the hair, but when it progressed to comments on clothing, that was enough. I immediately started to think this would be a trend, that this person would want to change me too much. After that, they couldn't be a long-term proposition. The person in question would have vehemently denied any attempt to change me, I know, but it certainly put me off them. If you think about it, they questioned: (i) my taste; and (ii) my personal appearance and, perhaps indirectly, (iii) my fitness to appear in public with them. Who wouldn't be offended? | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 2/1/2008 6:39:57 PM | | I think it is uncouth to critique someone you just met. Accept them for who they are. If the relationship goes further and you feel she is open to your feed back , then you can say how you feel. How would you like it if a lady you just met told you she thought you would look better in different clothes? It makes someone feel uncomfortable about themselves and how they look. Not a good idea if you think you might want to see them again. | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 4/7/2008 5:34:54 PM | I dare say I wouldn't tell someone on a first date that they should wear their hair/goatee/beard etc differently. Rather forward and critical if you ask me. She's there because she wants to make a good impression and you just assured her she didn't. By the way, don't you think you should consider wearing a different style of jeans the next time you meet up with a woman? Those really aren't flattering on your rear end. | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 4/17/2008 9:34:24 AM | | Yes it is included in the whole package. U can't change everything about a person and should not try. U either like their apperance or u don't and move on. Are u a hairstylist and this is how u would know this? I would be offended. I love long hair and would never switch to short. | |
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| Is hair style a package deal on a woman?
Posted: 4/17/2008 2:09:11 PM | Hey OP!
How exactly should I put this? Um, well, it's merely not your place. Who the hell do you think you are to tell a woman she should have XY or Z anything? Next, you will be telling her what clothes she CAN/CAN'T wear. To me, that is a red flag and would have forced me to give you the vapors. If you don't know what that is, Google that word with the name Biz Markie.
Anyhoo, I don't believe hair is part of any 'package deal' as you put it. However, it is intensely personal to a woman. A subject she discusses with a few select people: her girls, her self and her stylist.
Currently, my hair is braided because I live in a country where no one knows how to take care of my mane but when I was at home I went to my stylist every week and got my hair done. My b/f didn't have a say in this. When I lived in cities that didn't have an acceptable stylist I drove three hours each way to Atlanta to see my stylist, who moved there. It was an expense I worked into my budget. This is a non-negotiable of which men have no say. He is welcomed to say, oh, I do like it curly. Or, yeah, I like it when it's straight. But to tell me when I should, or should not cut it, or how I should wear it in general, that wasn't his place. I choose my style based on what I like to look at when I look in the mirror, not what some man's idea of what I should look like. Now, if I asked him, "Babe, should I cut my hair?" Then it's open season. Of course, I don't ask men questions like that because they don't know much about contours, colors and lengths that compliment face shapes -- unless they're gay. Those are the only men I talk to about such matters. 
If you prefer women with shorter hair, I suggest, you find a woman who possesses that at the outset. Of course, you should be prepared to leave as she may eventually decide to grow it out. After all, it's a hair style, the entire point is to NOT be married to it.  | |
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