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Posted: 1/31/2007 7:10:17 PM | sounds more like a list of somebodies issues then a list of questions.
1. is simple... we get to decide whats good, not you.
If these questions are based on your personal experiance maybe you should be asking ..
- why are men afraid of a good thing like me.
- why do men fear commitment with me.
- Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning when they should know I don't like that
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Posted: 3/4/2007 7:53:36 PM | I don't generally entertain this sort of insolence, especially when brought up by what's clearly an impatient and confused insufferable young girl, but In your case, I'll make an exception.
First of all sweatie, congrats. You now carry the title of "Creator" of THEE most narrowminded blanket statement I have EVER read at POF and I've seen some whoppers.
*here, put these glasses on and pay close attention...okay?*
Now just endulge me here....
1. We're not affraid of good thing..perhaps your not all you're cracked up to be.
2. We don't fear commitment, we do fear neediness and unwarranted judgements.
3. It's not about winning and competition. Please take your seat.
4. Again, total foolishness by todays youth. I've dated plenty with young ones.
5. If a guy felt that it was a good decession, he would. Clearly you don't have the tools to convince him.
6. Why do I call my buddies? Because your an emotional retard at times and incapable of listentening. Call your sister.
7. I make my own decessions Doll. Thank-you
8. Perhaps he's gettin' a bit tired of those 1 sided conversations. I'm not fooled honey.
9. Either the punk boys you date have little to no interest in you in a social environment or your borring and make fuss...Call your sister.
10. Perhaps, he had a girl in the past, suck-off his buddy behind the arena and you have yet to prove your trustworthiness to him. Just a guess on that one.
11. Real men don't run, boys run. Period
12. People open up to people who they're comfortable with. Period. Stop your bellyaching, open your mind a bit and you can flip that coin real quick.
13. Hey, thats just YOUR "programming" on that one. Let go.
14. Stop dating boys. Real men don't do this. They fight tooth and nail for their women.
15. Nothing wrong at all with looking good....What's the problem??????
16. Stop dating insecure boys and this problem will end.
17. Men Don't fear the the words "soul mate" The ones that have been with you just don't see you as that. Lay off.
18. If I'm taking you out for a nice dinner, I expect you to dress up. Nothing wrong with that.
19. A liar is a liar is a liar. Period...I cannot tell you how many times I've cought a woman in a lie...Difference, they don't dodge about it...They cry.
20. People are allowed to NOT have the same position on a relationship as you, hate to break it to ya'
You have to learn to relinquish some the imaginary power you think you have over the boys you have been with. All the signals of a possessive, jealous insecure kid. Sorry if I come off turse but lets call a spade a spade. When you make generalizations and blanket statements about my male counterparts, I'm just bound to say something. It's like me saying "why are ALL women cranky, bloated, difficult, impatient fools"...Boy, would get nailed to the cross If I started that thread don't you think?
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Posted: 3/4/2007 8:54:07 PM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
We are not. We like it. The men you are talking about did not think that it was YOU or your friend that was good.
Why do men fear commitment?
We don't. We fear wieght gain.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
Cause we need to be entertained.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
Because children are annoying.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
Nothing, but ti is not something most people want.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
What are you talking about? I need to ask about this one.
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
Because we will hear SHIT about it forever and ever and ever.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
Because women always want to talk about what WE are doing wrong.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
It's not. Dump him.
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
Its okay with me. Either way, everyone is two inches from ****ing each other.
Why do men run when they fear something?
Is that not the normal reaction to fear????
What is soooo hard about opening up?
eh! Because everyone woman asks us to . . .all the time.
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
It isn't wrong. Women do not really want to hear what our real feelings are, that's all.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
Got me.
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
I don't know. Ask the hot chicks who sleep with those ***holes.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
Nothing, but its a pain in the ass. If I am attracted to you, then I could care less if you get "done up" all the time.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
what???
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
We don't. I fear a person who writes questions here and asks about mens' fears fifteen different ways. That SCREAMS you are needy and clingy and that makes men run - hence they fear YOU. I could be wrong though.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
Nothing. But it is not something men enjoy doing. That is like me asking you. What is wrong with a handjob before I go to bed? See what I mean?
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
I dont do that so I dont know
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
We really do not like the person we are with, that is just the best we can get at the moment. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2007 12:36:22 PM | | you ask so many inane questions, u obviously don't want an answer. Your implication that all men do these things leaves us to believe that u have issues, and more than likely the losers in ur life are like this, but I can assure u most men aren't like this. Stop asking rhetorical questions and we'll take u more seriously next time. | |
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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 3/5/2007 1:33:27 PM |
Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
They're not.
Why do men fear commitment?
They don't. They fear only committing themselves to someone who isn't 'the best they can do'.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
It's a biological drive, the same way women are interested in relationships & communication (soap operas etc)
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
Biological again. Having the desire to raise someone else's offspring doesn't do your genes any favours.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
Selling themselves short. Women settling down at a young age are 'selling' during their peak (i.e, most attractive and most fertile years ahead), whereas men doing so are selling at their low point (i.e, before they're career has taken off and they've achieved the status & power they will one day)
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
Don't really agree these two are true.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
Avoiding emotional intimacy because you're not the one.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
Not logical at all, just a desire to be in control...
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
Because he wants you to be completely devoted to him. but at the same time the 'freedom' to be friends with who he chooses is always important to him. I never said any of these reasons were remotely fair...
Why do men run when they fear something?
Too vague to comment....
What is soooo hard about opening up?
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
Demasculinisation? (if that word doesn't exist, it should)
A guy will open up if he's really in love. Don't believe otherwise.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
Becuase men judge other men, and women judge other women. Half the reason girls don't sleep around more is because of the pressure from their social circle. If you go to a club and try to pick up a girl, you'll have abotu 10x more success if she's on her own or with a friend than out with several female friends.
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
He only does this if he himself is an ass.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
Nothing.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
Only the jealous/insecure ones do this.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
See all your other commitment/connection questions
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
Nothing.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
Are you dating a complete a***hole, or what?
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
Becuase they are lying about saying they really like who they're with, they're hanging around for a BBD (bigger better deal), and they're too insecure to dump you and be single for a while. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 6:04:55 PM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life? something good is always welcome, SOMEONE good, now that im weary of.
Why do men fear commitment? I, as a man fear nothing.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning? ....Thats your fault, women dont wanna date a loser..so we have to win
Why are men not accepting of women with children? Depends...are you accepting of mine??
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age? Getting divorced at a young age.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics? only the ones we know nothing about.
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions? only who we date and what size lawn tractor we buy.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation? A serious talk , means im in trouble
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited? because its hard inviting your girlfriend to the strip club
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends? it just is, and because our female friends dont wanna bang us.
Why do men run when they fear something? Because we figure we can save our lives if we outrun it
What is soooo hard about opening up? its easier to stay closed
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings? I dont have any feelings
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls? Find me a woman who has slept with ONLY 10 guys and this Master will marry her
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around? because you insisted on being invited to the strip club
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public? nothing, but dont show up the strippers. And dont go out with your male friends
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves? bullsh**..we all look good for other people
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ? I said I fear nothing..you deaf??:)
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner? Nothing, but they have great buffet at the strip club
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows? Deny, deny, deny
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with? huh??? | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 7:52:50 PM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life? You mean like lima beans or broccoli? Doesn't taste good. Give me a burger.
Why do men fear commitment? I was only commited once, wasn't so bad. Funny conversation, three squares a day, and all the lorazepam I could handle.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning? The first one to have an orgazm wins. Get ready get set...
Why are men not accepting of women with children? You mean my ex?
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age? I think it's the word 'settle'
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics? Because if he asked his other girlfriends about you they'd find out!
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions? Women don't let their friends influence their decisions? Coulda fooled me on that one.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation? You should wait for an appropriate time to have that conversation. During sex is not an appropriate time.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited? Does he know you like going to she male porn movies?
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends? Because he won't get laid but you might.
Why do men run when they fear something? That guy was a lot bigger than me. Anyhow, I was late for supper.
What is soooo hard about opening up? Speculum was made for women not men.
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings? I do. I love that hockey team. I hate jalapenos.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls? A guy with ten girls is fantasy. Is he a dungeon master?
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around? They will not know who he is if he acts nice. He's always an ass with his friends.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public? Nothing I guess, but I prefer they look like hoochy mamas.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves? I don't know, I thought women only tried to impress other women when they decide to look good for themselves.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ? Sex with fish. Ick.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner? There was a two for one special if you could prove you were homeless.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows? Ah yes, they evil twin theory. Hardly ever works.
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with? Hmmm. Probably trying to get the hottest one but wants to keep the other dangling as a backup. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 8:28:44 PM | Well, let's take your questions in the order you asked them.
Not all men are.
Not all men do.
Not all men feel that way.
Many men are.
Good question. You probably don't consider me to be young, so I won't answer that one.
Not all men do.
Not all men do.
Not all men do.
Sorry, could you re-phrase that one???
Not all men feel that way.
Because it's better than jumping on a chair and shouting "EEEK".
Sometimes the key gets jammed in the lock.
It isn't.
In who's books???
Not all men do.
Nothing at all.
Not all men do.
Not all men do.
Nothing at all.
Not all men do.
Not all men do.
There you go, Sweet Blue Eyes. All the answers, nice and tidy. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 9:57:04 PM |
u should ask the guy u have the issues with!! THAT is it in a nutshell.
OP, I think everyone understands being a little bitter about someone you've dated or are dating, but you're generalizing and I think a lot of guys are insulted by your statements (and rightly so).
Realize that men and women DON'T think the same and don't view things the same. Some men think we women blow things out of proportion, at times...your post didn't help. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2007 9:10:33 AM | ***Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
isn't that pretty subjective? what you may think is good could be a bad thing.
***Why do men fear commitment?
depends from man to man, but generally if your begging for children and trying to change a man, we get scared. btw, why is it that men are the ones with the issues and need women to fix it? could be vice versa you know.
***Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
evolution, men where the hunters and gatherers, but many men have taken the 'traditional' role of women and vice versa.
***Why are men not accepting of women with children?
personally i'm not looking for children, i'm 18, lol so i have enough problems getting my life in order let alone supporting and raising kids. once again some men LOVE children, i know many friends that LOVE children to the point that i get scared. lol
***What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
because we have our whole lifes ahead of us.
***Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
we don't. if i listened to my friends all day i wouldn't be going anywhere.
***Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
why do women let their friends influence their decisions?... why not? their our friends, people be trust, its normal for both sexes to seek external advice, no one knows all the answers.
***Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
we don't, i always confront serious issues, sometimes women don't want to confront serious issues.
***How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
its very logical, girls have girls night out, why can't we have a boys night out? i should acuse women of bringing male strippers to those 'tupperware' meetings...
***Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
who said that? you can have as many hot guy friends as you want. thats no a gender issues, thats a trust issue.
***Why do men run when they fear something?
because we get scared? if a train is coming at you, you get off the tracks. is this a bad thing? women run too you know.
***What is soooo hard about opening up?
it isn't, if you want to be my girlfriend, i'll tell you everything and we can cuddle, i'll give you declorations of my love, meet the parents etc. many men are sensitive and have no issues opening up.
***Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
it isn't, thats just the media sterotype talking.
***How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
because the 'masters' usually hang out together, while decent guys group in another club where that action would result in excile and stonning.
***Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
?????... wont even bother.
***What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
nothing, hey i'll take you shopping get some dresses, make up, the whole works.
***Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
Why do women accuse men of trying to "impress" another woman when they feel like looking good for themselves?... once again we don't all do that, a trust issue once more, no a gender issue.
***Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
i love the word soul, and i love the word mate, you put the two together and you got me. ;)
***What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
i love dressing up for dinner, and so should you lol. except if we are going to KFC or something lol.
***Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
because in that case they are cheating? and not all men cheat so those men wouldn't have anything to hide.
***Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
depends on the guy... i'd love for women to take the first move more often, we get tired of doing everything you know.
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Posted: 3/12/2007 12:09:03 PM | I'm tuning up my Stradivarius right now.
Wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....................
Your questions have basically killed the self pity and redundancy birds with one large stone. Really, your 20 ?'s have covered about every single thread on the entire relationship forum about why guys won't commit, commit to single moms....etc.
There is a fine line between something coming into your life and ruining your life.
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Posted: 3/12/2007 6:02:43 PM | | One leeetle question: do you hate men, or are you looking for a needle in a haystack? Speaking for myself I have some of those characteristics you describe, but so does every other living breathing human being.....................and yes women have them too. Not to be harsh, but I sense a huge load of ill feelings here. Oh my Gawd there go the empathic things again aaaarrrrrgggghhhhh!!!! | |
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Posted: 3/16/2007 8:52:14 AM | These questions by their very phrasing show a very ignorant attitude toward my gender. In the interest of banishing ignorance, here is another view, though many of the preceding answers are quite satisfactory.
Why are men afraid of something good committing into their life?
Fear of the Trojan Horse
Why do men fear commitment?
Not with the right person we don't, but to clarify if a woman is denied the commitment she seeks doesn't mean she isn't right for him, maybe he is still collecting information on her to make the decision. "It's too soon" often has valid reasons behind it.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
Well, how many times in your life did you step around the guys who are actively competing for your attention to approach the proverbial shy guy in the corner who didn't? A man who doesn't compete, has no chance at winning. As to why the competition has to be in "everything" because (from personal experience and observations of others) for men, once their basic survival needs are met, 99.9% of everything they think or do revolves around impressing women. Even things that at first glance look to be just simple self-improvement simply to better oneself, if examined closer become bettering oneself to better attract women.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
Most men just like most women are looking for a person who will place them as the priority. All those sayings about someone being your "The one' and 'true love' meaning you put their well-being and wishes above yours . Those with experience in serious relationships mostly agree that it's unrealistic and unhealthy but it's still a subconscious target for many people. When you are considering a woman with children as a potential girlfriend, then by default you will at most be priority number 3 in her life and she will be greatly restricted by how much of her time and attention she can devote to you. Sounds needy, but still, everyone wants to be a priority for their significant other.
Added to that is always doubt about how big of a role the biological father is playing in her life right now. And that's a double-jeopardy situation too - if the guy is still in the picture, he is competition. If not, then why not: did he not want anything do with his own offspring(best case scenario for me), or did the mother in some way prevented him from doing his part for his children (very serious red flag) and if so then why.
Thirdly, relationships for the most part don't work out. So how is the man supposed to interact with the children - if he is distant and aloof with them, mother might see him as a bad match for her family, if he isn't then come break-up he is breaking up with 2 or more people at the same time.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
That fear is present at any age, but when you are young, you have more to lose - not just realistically, but young people often also have hopes and dreams that older people have already laid aside, and settling down means having to discard some of those dreams now instead of gradually.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics? AND Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
Well assuming you are talking about serious friends - for many people definition of friend includes someone who we respect and whose opinions are valuable to us - if your friend's opinion does not matter to you in the slightest, you should reconsider whether you really see that person as a friend or just someone familiar you've gotten used to.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
Depends on the person rather then gender. But as a helpful guide, remember that men are goal oriented, and our actions and communications usually have a specific purpose. If you are starting a conversation and the guy does not see any way that conversation can end well, the common reaction is to avoid it. Also from personal experience, some girls - or some people i should say because i am sure there are guys out there that do this too - only pretend to want to converse or discuss an issue, when really they have already made their decision on the matter and are just trying to cajole you into agreeing with them. Again, people will gradually stop participating in 'serious' conversations with you, if the end result is always one-sided - after all, why waste effort discussing it if past experience already tells you how it will end.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
Depends on your definition of 'all the time': if it's really all the time, then it's not logical because what's the point of a relationship where you obviously don't spend time with each other, if it's actually only some of the time, then some people need some space - depends on the person.
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
Men know that if a girl is attractive, she is always on the radar - may be just a small-pin point with an attached file cabinet of reasons against pursuing her, but nonetheless considered. Ultimately it's a bit insecure on the guy's part to begrudge his girlfriend her male friends, and insecurity is part of almost everyone to some extent, work around it or if you can't you are bad match.
Why do men run when they fear something?
Who doesn’t? Fight or flight is an old theory for behavior of all things capable of thought – if by ‘something’ you mean yourself then there is your answer, if he doesn't want to fight...
What is soooo hard about opening up?
'Familiarity breeds contempt' - sounds awful, but nevertheless true. The more information you know about him, the less dangerous/mysterious he is to you, and that always reduces the attraction - a constant. Hopefully the things you learn will strike the right note and breed positive feelings as well, but that effect is variable. So ‘opening up’, maybe you will gain something, maybe not, but you will definitely lose something. Sometimes hard to take the risk. Again insecurities and fear of rejection.
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
What's the benefit of that? We feel what we feel, talking about it is not going to change it, but it will make us look weaker simply because another layer of 'unknown' is removed. Wouldn't say 'wrong' just most guys see it as detrimental to their cause, and often they are right.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
People who define others in stereotypes are wrong, because no person can be completely encapsulated by any one stereotype, always will be something missing or wrong. So just forget both stereotypes.
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
Not all men, those who do that fit my definition of 'posers' and I don't care about them.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
Nothing.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
'Some men' not all men. And those some are just way too insecure.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
Words commonly associated with unrealistic and immature approach to life. Like saying 'I love you' on the first date. Still, most guys won't fear it if they feel the same way.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
Women are unpredictable, just because she was okay with the last time you met another woman, it would be stupid to assume a non-negative reaction to other meetings.
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
Some men, and those are just weird, though - are you sure other women being interested was the reason, maybe it was your reaction to other women being interested that cooled him, or something else that coincided. | |
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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 3/16/2007 2:19:49 PM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
A: We're not afraaid, but more then once we just can't believe our luck.
Why do men fear commitment?
A: I'm not, and i have many friends who are not, but there are others i cannot answer for.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
A: Is it? Well sometimes it can be. But for most people it is about challenge. many nights with my ex bend ove3r tthe scrabble board trying to beat each other. Then Mario Kart was just as much fun, and before you wonder, no, i did not always win, and later on, it became quite a challenge beating her.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
A: Depends on the guy. We all realise that starting a relatinship is one thing, getting the responsibility of kids is sometimes a little unsetteling to guys, with that i mean. Some man will freak and run, some take a little time getting into the idea. As we are all different we can all react differently.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
A: With the right woman nothing, but then who is the right woman?
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
A: Bull. If that was the case nothing would ever get done.
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
A: a lot do, but that is the same for women.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
A: It isn't logical. Guys want to have an evening for beer with the guys (like friday-night), so do women.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
A: Not a measurement i ever used.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
A: Absolutely nothing.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
A: Do we?? I dont, but there is more then one question at times what makes a soul mate and what shows a person to be one.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
A: Nothing at all..... This presentation of self is really an issue for you, isn't it? So what is your view on it? an evening dress, hot looking jeans with a nice matching shirt?
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
A: Depends, was the meeting innocent, and is she jealous? Too often women think, the only reason we meet other women is to arrange a penetrating result. That is not the case. Hence we get worried, and might make a mistake in the fields of honesty.
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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 3/16/2007 3:13:11 PM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life? Because that shit is rare.....people in general fear the unexpected/unusual
Why do men fear commitment? because in this country at least...commitment seems to mean change. you are committing to not what is felt right now, but whatever is said in the future as well. Whatever that might be. women change after 'commitment'.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning? Because we are all competitive by nature, getting gratification by winning
Why are men not accepting of women with children? Because every guy wants to think of his woman as HIS woman. That he broke the mold and is the introducer to most if not all sex in her life. a child proves this to be incorrect
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age? Because when your still 'wet between the ears, there are things you might see down the road that would probably be easier to digest .....SINGLE.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?Same reason women do....gimme a break
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions? Same reason women do....gimme a break
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation? because a womens serious talk is one usually where you will NEVER see eye to eye with her, knowing you have already been through that.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited? no answer for this one,....i never had a girl i didnt take with me
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends? because guys dont have FEMALE friends...they have friends they have not fukked yet
Why do men run when they fear something? so we dont get killed
What is soooo hard about opening up?for fear it could be turned against us
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings? because it puts a guy in a vulnerable position, vulnerable meaning weak.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls? Because the private parts are offset where as womens are internal
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?because he is not a MAN yet....he is a BOY, in the transisiton
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
nothing
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves? because the world is FULL of women who go out and flaunt what they have (or dont have for that matter) just to get attention from men. DEAL WITH THAT FACT
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ? i dont think they do, they just dont say it as much as women...its a 'woman made' phrase.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner? We have to 'dress up' to come to work.....dress up to go to church....sometimes comortability steps in and says 'hey what about me!!!'
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows? because it isnt worth the DRAMA
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with? fear of getting hurt or just want to play the field more | |
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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 3/16/2007 5:26:35 PM | At risk of coming and giving an answer to this question from a woman's perspective....Men have a totally different outlook, thought process, etc about a lot of different aspects of life compared to women. Maybe not all men are all of the same way, but generally. Men just have a totally diferent make up then women do, so what makes sense to guy may not make sense to a woman. What they think women want and vice versa are not always the case. Bottom line....men can sometimes be on a totally diferent wave length then women.. so not to say one way or the other is wrong, its just we dont understand it the way the other sex would.
If that makes sense??? Just thought i'd kinda add this perspective into it.
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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 3/22/2007 11:55:40 AM | All these questions? You haven't learned anything yet?
I won't answer them all..most of them I find kinda comical. I never said a woman was a slut for sleeping with a lot of guys. I think it is more the women who think that. All I ever hear from women in conversation is..."oh she's such a slut' "she'll sleep with a dog" ..believe it or not...those were women talking about one of their "girlfriends". Now...as for me...I told a lady once that I had slept with 2 other women..after her and I ended...but we still kept talking. She confessed to me that she had slept with 1 man after me...I was the slut...I guess cause I had 1 more than she did.
Guys having more "girl" friends and women not being able ot have more "guy" friends....yeah right. My ex-wife had a lot more "guy" friends than I had "girl" friends. They would even call the house ..I would answer, they would ask to talk to her...."oh, he's only a friend"
Why do men let the friends influence their decisions? That is a laffer....be for real..women do it alot more than men do...that's why they hang out together..isn't it? To talk about their problems and ask their friends..."what should I do?" On that subject...why do women always go to the bath room in droves? If they are going to "powder their nose"...why do they need to go in groups? I guess maybe to see what kind of "powder" the other one has?
Acting like an ass to his woman in front of his friends...I never did that, but I guess I must be the exception to the rule.
Men fearing something good coming into their lives? Your good and his good may not be the same. Could be said the same for women....fair is fair.
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