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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 12/21/2007 12:34:13 AM | hi guys just want a few questions answered , please i would like to know why do men in there profiles say that they are looking for longterm , and then , after metting them they say im not ready for a relationship , but they try to sleep with you , (come- on_ now i know im not that bad , im sweet , independant , loyal , and yes i have a little baggage as men say , hopefully , someone can look at my profile and enlighten me a little 
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Posted: 12/21/2007 1:09:43 AM | Why are men affraid of something good coming into their life?
- I don't think we're afraid, I think we're just more cautious based on what the past has proven to us. Each has his own past he must conquer in his own way.
Why do men fear commitment?
- I don't but see the previous answer for enlightenment on this as well.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
- I find this more in women than in men. Women will compete with one another more than men will in my experiences. I have had thew odd guy try and move in on someone I was seeing. If they do, then it's their issue and if the girl goes for him then she was probably not worth my time. I don't compete. Too much B.S. associated with competition.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
- Well if a guy has no kids it's fair he expect a woman to be the same. Also, depending on the laws it can become a financial burden on him. Also, if you think about it, a woman with children is automatic Family. For those of us with high family values we' would only have an issue with it if the woman DIDN'T want to have one with us. But it is personal preference if you ask me.
- What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
- Nothing. If it's right for you then go ahead and do it, just don't expect everyone to share your views.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
- That would be a sign of a man who is neither confident nor his own man. I may ask for advice on some things I am not sure of but all in all I do what I want because I choose to do so. This question is a valid one for many women as well.
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
- Ask the women this one too. Again, see previous response to understand this.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
- I find this on women as well. Also, it's probably because you're skirting the issue or not being direct.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her there's no reason, when she is never invited?
- If I am dating someone I invite them to most things but not all things I do with my friends. Then again I don't mix friend's with GF's too early because I really want to know where I stand with the woman before I let her into my life that far.
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
- It's only not okay in a few instances.
1) Your EX is one of your male friends and there are still visible signs he is still interested.
2) one of your male friends shows interest in you in a wy that is not akin to friendship.
Same two situations hold true for the guys.
hy do men run when they fear something?
- Psychology. Fight or Flight response. I like confronting most things.
What is soooo hard about opening up?
- Getting your heart broken. Also, when you open up, you give the other person insight and with the insight it is easier for them to hurt you and or control you. Not too much too soon is best here too.
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
- It's not Wrong. It's just when we ta;lk about our feelings most women decide to poke fun at it or use it against us, see previous answer for this one too.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
- This I don't believe in. I think EVERYONE has a past. Up to you what you learned from it.
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
- Lack of confidence.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
- Nothing, but don't make us an hour late for a reservation at a place we had to book 3 weeks or more in advance.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
- It's a feeble mind who thinks this way. WOmen get dolled up to impress other women and not because of us guys. That or they just want attention.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
- We don't. We just are afraid of using those words to describe the wrong woman.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
- Nothing, again just don't make us too late for dinner.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
- I never lie about that. Usually the women I meet are either Family or Friends when I am with someone.
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 12/21/2007 9:42:59 AM | Dear GAWD! Let us pray! Its survey time! "Our father who art a Hebrew..Hollow be thy wallet..."
So let me address them in order:
So if I miss a few, its because you didn't number them -OP. ;)
1) Men are not afraid of that, they are afraid of the false pretense thereof.
2)Men do not fear comitment, they fear being commited to a bad/ uncertain situation.
3)Real Men have no fear of competition, providing that the woman they are with doesn't insist that they have to to keep her.
4)Why do women put a Man into a secondary relationship in competition with the kids? Or have a my Kids come first, and you are a distant third type mentality. Instead of equal priority.
5)If its scarry to settle down at any age, then the couple obviously is not ready for that.
6&7)Because most Men are too stupid to trust their own council on things, or purposely are being confused so that they have to turn outside the relationship for clarity.
8)Timing and lack of comunication. If a person starts a relationship based on say "Sex and good times" then that changes, obviously its hard to deal with. Or the question is so stupid because he has already answered that one way or the other. Or the womans lack of sincerity begs sarcasm.
9)One could ask the same when a woman supposedly in a relationship is always on "A girls night out" If you want this to not be a factor, then resolve it equally in the relationship.
10)If its a problem via either side in the "relationship" then that has to be delt with. Its not so much a question of friends, just the curiously intimate "friends".
11)The same is of both sexes. Especially when they have an over developed flight reflex, and have too weak a character to fight for what they desire.
12)Try it some time. Especially when the elements that are necessary for you to trust them, havent been earned, or are otherwise not present as yet.
13)Its not "wrong" for a guy to talk about his feelings, its just often not necessary. Particularly when some are truthfull enough to not fake what a woman is looking for. Often Men say more in action better then in statements of philosophy/ or whats on their mind.
14)That much, is on them both. If a guy bangs out ten women in three days He's as equal a slut as a women who bang out ten men in three days.
15)Both Men and women do the same "ass" type of behavior. Its because they want to be the center of attention and are just insecure enough to want you to know that.
16)Define presentable, as all men see what a woman is wearing. As do all women, if one has to be that decked out just for beer and darts say with her man, shes sending a message. "Look at me", "me and him together, and hes sooo...lucky", or "other byatches beware, this is my man", Pointedly if they go out of their way to be over the top and be dressed in a better fashion then their man.
17)See the above. A woman whom dresses plainly but is comfortable in her own skin, doesnt need a fashion pick me up. She is confident but not arrogant, regaurdless of cloathing or type. If shes dressing to attract attention the question becomes "who's" as the fact that "her man" should of allready assured her that she is attractive. Even after those assurances, if she still does overdress its an esteem issue and see #16 again.
18)This question implies that there is a soul there to work with. ;) What a woman wants as a soul mate is nebulous at best, ill defined via expression, and uncommunicative as to what that is. Worse yet, is in a constant state of emotional flux, or definitive variation of.
19)See 16 & 17 Try an original question please. :) this is a variation of 16 and 17.
20)Same can be said of women who do the same, they want their cake and eat it too, but are not willing to pay for it by being decisive or commited to the concept of monogamy. Obviously if one knows about this and doesn't break away they must be enjoying that game. So by all means they continue playing. ;)
21)Then obviously He or she as the case may be, is not as interested as one thinks. this happens often when one partner or the other becomes lazy or is resting on their supposedly earned laurels. Or is testing to see if the other is paying attention and are willing to compete for them. A bad deal all around.
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Posted: 12/21/2007 12:01:24 PM | >Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
Who is? ?Mot me...
>Why do men fear commitment?
IIIi don't. But should think in some men its a fear of something better coming along after they've committed.
>Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
Likely the hunter/gatherer thing. Would you not want your man competitive when it comes to feeding/clothing his family? Winning the best life possible for them thtough his everyday efforts?
>Why are men not accepting of women with children?
The only person I have ever in my whole life truly loved UNconditionally is my [step]daughter. And I put the "step" in brackets because I despise the term. That being said, "responsibility" is the longest 5-letter word in the English language. And it took an awful lot of thought on the front end. And I'll go to my grave thankful III chose to take on the responsibility...
>What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
There is nothing scary about wanting to. Whats scary is someone else wanting you to when you don't want to.
>Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
I'm sure you've heard that garbage about women maturing 2 years faster than men. Don't believe a word of it. It's more like women mature 20 years faster than men. Herd mentality. Fear of making a mistake. Fear of being teased by friends. Fear of being left out by friends. Fear is the absence of faith. Lots of bravado but no confidence. Immaturity.
>Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
Same answer as above.
>Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male >becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
See "avoidance of commitment" above. Would you rather he lie to you or get sarcastic and avoid having to? If he told you exactly what he thought he'd be history.
>How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship >with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
The best defense is a good offense. If he gets indignant/offended at the thought he was untrustworthy, he can avoid telling you what he was up to that would make you "right" and not "jealous". The latter makes you look bad, the former, him.
>Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay
>for a girl to have alot of male friends?
You'll find as you go through life, the most untrusting people on earth are the untrustworthy. A thief, for example, is totally paranoid because he of all people KNOWS what thieves are capable of. The cheater is also the most jealous, because he too knows what he himself is capable of, and assuumes all others are capable of the same.
>Why do men run when they fear something?
its only logical. Perhaps a better question is 'why they fear unreasonable things'. See above...
>What is soooo hard about opening up?
When a boxer lets his guard down; leaves his defenses "open", he gets pounded. 'Nuff said.
>Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
See "boxing"
>How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps >with ten girls?
DAM good question. "C'est la pigpoop".
>Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
Because he is an ass and only they understand that fact.
>What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
Because, as in "paranoia" response above, he knows he's constantly looking and assumes you to be too.
>Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like l>ooking good for themselves?
Ditto
>Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
It clearly involves several other 4 letter words... "commitment"... "responsibility"... yadda yadda...
>What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
You might attract attention.
>Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the >women their with already knows?
What the heck do you EXPECT of us? To admit we're WRONG?!?!
>Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them >even though they say they really like the person they are with?
Gets back to the old "what if somebody better comes along?" fear...
I'll confess to a little sarcasm in the above, but there's truth even in that... And of course, nothing is an absolute for every body... But I have found, in all people, that where you find self assured, confident, secure people, you also find them to be mature, honest, respectable people. They know themselves, have respect for themselves, and thats what gives them confidence and self-assurance...
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Posted: 12/24/2007 12:06:12 AM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
I am not.
Why do men fear commitment?
I will get to this in a moment.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
Because men are competitive by nature. Maybe if women who were in a position of having choice among men were willing to go for the guys who were not competitive and did not care about success, the rules would be different but we know that is not going to happen anytime soon.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
Depends on the man...not all men are like this.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
Find for me the woman who would not claim with two guys of identical features that she would not prefer the one with more $$$ and you will be looking until you are old and gray. There in a nutshell is your answer.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
I do not need approval from my friends on any topics. I may ask for an opinion on something but I would weigh that opinion on its merits as I discerned them and not blindly accept it. But most guys are not like this but neither for that matter are most women. If anything women are at the very least as influenced by their girl friends as guys are with their guy friends. It is called "the herd mentality."
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
The same reasons women do.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
Because women often want to get into subjects guys do not want to talk about. And rather than be rude about it, guys go the indirect route of sarcasm.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
It is not logical but as for why this happens, it depends on the guy I suppose...maybe they are doing things the girlfriend does not like doing. It is hard to answer this one as the possible reasons are many.
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
Usually if is girls who think they can have guy friends and get mad when their guy friends have girls as close friends.
Why do men run when they fear something?
Not all men do.
What is soooo hard about opening up?
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
Will get to these two in a moment.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
I do not believe in that double standard so ask someone else.
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
To show his friends he is not p***y whipped (to put it bluntly).
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
Nothing at all.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
I never do (except in jest) so ask someone else.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
Probably because the phrase has a tone of finality to it. There is also an exclusivity factor too which many men may not be comfortable making -society hardly encourages men to do that after all.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
Nothing at all.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
Because they think they can get away with it perhaps? (I do not know because I do not do that.)
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
Not sure what you mean by that one. Now to answer the questions I said I would get to later; namely...
...Why do men fear commitment?...
...What is soooo hard about opening up?...
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?...
I answer those by quoting from a post I wrote a back around December 15th or so:
It is very difficult for us to open up to you because of the way society conditions from an early age in part. Another is the confusion from women who want the "sensitive man" and then men who take that approach are presumed to be "weak" or "unmanly" by the same women who play the "where have all the cowboys gone?" card who previously said "where are the men who can show their feelings?" while they go off to bang the guy who did 3-5 for armed robbery because though he will likely abuse her (based on his previous track record) he is nonetheless the very kind of "cowboy" who does not show those "feelings" she wants men to show of the same sort she dumped her last man for showing! And those same women wonder why many guys have commitment issues?  [ http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts8761773.aspx]
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Posted: 12/24/2007 6:49:43 AM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life? Most men aren't, it is just the ones that are afraid of committment. Most men would like someone special in their life.
Why do men fear commitment? Once again this is generalizing. The one's afraid of committment have been hurt before or are players and may commit on one level but are still playing the field on the next.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning? Just the nature of the beast. Men are very competitive.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?This is a myth also. Many men will accept women with children.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age? typically men aren't done sowing there oats until 25 or 30 years.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics? Insecurity for the most part. They are afraid to make a decision that may make them look weak to their friends.
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?See above answer
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?Serious talks often end relationships, wouldn't you try to avoid this if you were in love with the person.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends? If they were friends prior to the relationship and you have met them it is fine. If he keeps adding to his herum be cautious.
Why do men run when they fear something?
What is soooo hard about opening up? Men cannot express their feelings as well as women. It is hard to put into words how we are feeling at times,
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?See above answer
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?Just the way it is. Just kidding. IDK
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?Kind of a macho I am the pants wearer roll. It's not right but it gives the impression he is not weak and wrapped around the woman's finger.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?Nothing, I prefer my woman to look nice in public
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves? Because that man feels he is not good enough for you and feels you will leave him for a better looking guy. It's all the insecurity that you women lay on us. Make us feel that we are the "only" one you want. Dress up when you are at home for us once in awhile. Show us how you feel about us in public.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ? When we feel we have our soul mate she moves on. It is confusing to say the least.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner? Nothing.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?Those men have poor morals, not all men are like that.
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Posted: 12/24/2007 10:06:03 AM | Not that you were asking me specifically, but I have to put my 2 cents in here....
You are generalizing. Not all men behave this way. Nobody ALWAYS does anything and no one NEVER does anything. Plus....you can take the word MEN and replace it with the word WOMEN, and the same would hold true. It's not gender specific....it's people in general. People are going to do what's right by them and you really can't expect any more than that....man or woman. And as far as the soul mate thing goes....why is it that the bum living in the park doesn't have one if there really is someone for everybody? | |
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Posted: 12/24/2007 9:31:28 PM | Those guys are jerks, and you should just avoid them. My older brother gave me some very good advice when I was young: avoid negative people. I have found that these people get angry when you move away from them, but it's worth it. I deal with very few negative people in my life, and it helps a lot.
The kind of guys you ask about can be found everywhere, but you have to find them. Many of my guy and gal friends have some kind of knack for finding these people. I drop them out of my life like a bad habit. | |
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Posted: 12/24/2007 10:10:22 PM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
Men are afraid of something really BAD coming into their life, when the person who is bringing it, is saying it is something good.
Why do men fear commitment?
Men fear commitment to a woman they don't want to commit to in the first place.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
Male culture makes out that there are only limited resources in life, and that you have to knock every other man down, in order to win. So men need to feel like they are winning, or they may get a losing streak, and the male hyenas will come and stomp on him all the time.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
Men love kids. Men are really afraid of women who pass their responsibilities onto their boyfriends, and then get the courts to support this, such as the cases of men who had relationships with single mothers, broke up, the mothers took them to court, and the court said that the men had to pay child support for the rest of their lives for kids who weren't theirs, even though they had not lived together for very long.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
The high rate of divorce of people under 25, and the fact that so many people complain they never had a life when they were young.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
Love is blind. Friends are not.
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
Your friends can be there for life. How many girlfriends can say the same?
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
Men love serious talks. Men don't like a talk that requires them to make a commitment that is unnecessary, and damaging in the long run, because their girlfriend doesn't feel secure, because her last man ran out on her.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
Men don't get support from texts, emails or phone calls. Men get support from other men in person, away from their S/O. Take it away, and it would be the same as if you were never allowed to see, speak to, phone, text, or email any female friend for the rest of your life. How happy would you be then?
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
It's not. You're being played.
Why do men run when they fear something?
Men run when they know something is about to hurt them.
What is soooo hard about opening up?
Men open up all the time. Men only don't open up to people whose tongue burns like acid on your face.
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
Men are happy to talk abut their feelings, to people who are supportive and encouraging.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
Men are only interested in women if the man finds her attractive.
Women think a man is more desirable based on the number of women who want him, and women base the number of women who want him on the number of women he's slept with.
Women think a woman is less desirable based on the number of men who don't want her, and women base the number of men who don't want her on the number of men who already slept with her, and have moved on.
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
Society hates a hen-pecked man.
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
Looking presentable is great. Unfortunately, what counts for presentable on TV and in films, would not look out of place in a porn film.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
I feel good for myself when I dress up by myself at home, or in front of my girlfriend. If I only dress up when I am going out, I'm doing it to attract women, because attracting women is what makes me feel good, not because looking good makes me feel good.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
Men love the idea of a "soul mate". Men don't want to be called a "soul mate" when it's being used as a euphemism for "millstone round my neck".
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
It's great to dress up in a suit and formal evening gown, and go out to a top-quality restaurant, where everyone is dressed similar, and they serve the food he likes, with the service he likes, with the people he likes, and the atmosphere he likes. If he says he doesn't want to dress up, it means that he doesn't like the clothes, they don't fit him, or he doesn't like the restaurant you've chosen, or it's going to cost a lot more than the food and service is worth.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
Women live by words, not actions. If a man cheats and he admits it, she'll hit the roof. If a man cheats and he denies it, she'll let it slide most of the time.
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
When a man says he really likes you, he is telling you what you want to hear, so you will keep sleeping with him, till you dump him or he finds someone better.
When a man really likes you, he shows it in his actions.
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Posted: 1/15/2008 8:45:31 AM | I love surveys!
Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
We aren't....our definitions of "good" just may be two different things.
Why do men fear commitment?
As a man, I don't at all.
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
It doesn't. I actually refuse to compete for a woman or anything like that....now a game of pool...that's a different story.
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
I like kids, so it doesn't bother me.
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
There isn't anything scary about it. If the right women would show up, I'd be all for it.
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
I have aplenty of guy friends.....and don't ask anything like that from them.
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
My friends give me their opinion.....my decision is made entirely on my own.
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
Where are you finding these guys? A serious talk is fine.
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
Can't vouch for this one either....I'd rather have her join me.
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
I don't do that one either...sorry
Why do men run when they fear something?
I don't....I hit it head on
What is soooo hard about opening up?
It's not....most of us are just cautious of doing it.
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
It isn't....I just don't do it in the wide open. There has to be a certain amount of trust in order for me to really open up like that.
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
It's not always like that. I don't think it's right for a guy to do that either.
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
Wow, another one I don't do. Why would I treat anyone different based on who else was around?
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
Absolutely nothing! If you walked around in sweatpants and a t-shirt every day, I'd lose attraction to you.
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
If you're "dressing up" to go grocery shopping....then it's probably not for yourself. If you; especially if you wear whatever you pick up first when you're out with us.
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
That's not scary at all.....unless you bring it up in our second or third conversation.
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
There isn't anything wrong with it at all.
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
Once again, doesn't really apply to me. I'm monogamous, even when dating.
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
Yet another one I simply don't do. I'll ask again, where are you finding these guys?
Sounds like to me you've had a bad experience and are now making generalizations about men. It's not men in general that are the problem, just the ones you've decided to pursue. Believe me, if I generalized woman based on my previous experiences.....I'd just become a hermit. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2008 10:18:49 AM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?, Try why are "Some" afraid of something good, and maybe define the good? a good car? Job?
Why do men fear commitment? How long into a relationship are you looking for the commitment? for me anything over 6 months would be fairly serious, you've usually discovered most fo the warts by then
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning? Is almost everything about that? Thought this dating lark was about taking part and seeing where the road lead, didn't realise I had to go for the throat!
Why are men not accepting of women with children? Again generalizing, kids shouldn't even come into the equation till well into the dating scenario, mention you have to get baby sitters, fine, talk about them, fine, dont drag them into every single date you have, at least give it a chance to see if its likely to have any legs before exposing them to row after row of different geezers!
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age? No idea
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics? Because you go for the thick type maybe?
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions? See above?
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation? If its a common problem you have consider the way you ask maybe, the only common denominator would be you
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited? Not looked and getting the impression your fairly young, so he probably has to do the whole macho lets go get drunk thing, you cant lear at other women if the other halfs in tow, and till the age of 23 on or so, thats not the done thing
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends? Sounds like you've been dating Mr insecure's?!
Why do men run when they fear something? Because its scary? ? define the thing being feared??
What is soooo hard about opening up? Because you leave yourself vunerable when you do?!
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings? See above? plus lack of maturity maybe?
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls? Master? sounds more S&M than someone that shags around
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around? immaturity
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public? Absolutely nothing
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves? immaturity
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ? Missed out the word "some" perchance?
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner? Absolutely nothing
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows? Sounds like they're just plain stupid 
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with? Sounds like they're waiting for a better bus to come along, | |
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| My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!!
Posted: 1/15/2008 11:13:29 AM | Why are men affraid of something good comming into their life?
*** Because they were hurt once. Men take it harder than women***
Why do men fear commitment?
***Because they think that they will be controlled by the borg***
Why is it that almost everything has to be about competition and winning?
** Not winning as much as approval.***
Why are men not accepting of women with children?
*** Because there are some out there that are not open minded***
What is soo scary about wanting to settle down at a young age?
***See the borg***
Why do guys always need approval from their guy friends on most topics?
***Because guys need to poll so that they don't look like an idiot even though it still happens. Ask a girl as well once.***
Why do men let their friends influence their decisions?
***Because if they act like the masses that they are surrounded by, then they will be accepted. I love my individuality.***
Why is that everytime a woman want's to have a serious talk about something, the male becomes sarcastic and avoids the conversation?
*** Because they didn't have a chance to poll thier friends first.***
How is it logical for a male to go out all the time, but when the girl he is in a relationship with gets jealous he tells her theirs no reason, when she is never invited?
*** Everyone needs thier alone time. But never??? That isn't acceptable. They or one of thier friends has thier hand in the cookie jar when they shouldn't. They don't want it getting back.***
Why is it that it's ok for a guy to have as many girl "friends" as he wants but it's not okay for a girl to have alot of male friends?
*** Sorry, just like with any animal. Prodimancy.***
Why do men run when they fear something?
*** Because they got caught.***
What is soooo hard about opening up?
***Because of a inferiority complex we all have. See borg***
Why is it wrong for a guy to talk about his feelings?
*** See above***
How is it that a girl is a slut if she's slept with ten guys but a guy is "master" if he sleeps with ten girls?
*** Well what I hear from my "girl" friends, they are queens that they can get any guy too! But your compairing the opposet sex. So a girl will think the same thing if she knows that a guy has slept with a bunch of girls. Girls like to be special just like guys. Just that guys are more vocal about it.***
Why does a man have to act like an ass to his woman when his friends are around?
*** I don't know?? That one is tuff. Because I still treated mine like a queen.***
What is wrong with a woman wanting to look presentable when she goes out in public?
*** Because your always a half hour late. So the man can't understand why you can't start a half hour early. Men are logical, women are emotional.***
Why do men accuse woman of trying to "impress" another man when they feel like looking good for themselves?
*** Because they did something they shouldn't have and you just didn't find out yet.***
Why do men fear the words "soul mate" ?
*** Don't know. I was on your side of the stick with that.***
What is wrong with dressing up to go out for dinner?
*** Nothing other than we'll be a half hour late.***
Why do men lie to hide when they've been meeting other women even though the women their with already knows?
***My opinion, they should have been swallowed rather than born.***
Why do men draw back in a relationship when other women become interested in them even though they say they really like the person they are with?
*** Men are the worst at hurting a womans feelings. They will fight tooth and nail so they don't have to do it. Because when they do, it digs in to the complex that I have stated above.*** | |
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