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| Just found out that im pregnant to my ex
Posted: 2/24/2007 9:32:23 PM | | ok, im pregnant now and actually was due yesterday( no such luck ) but on new years i found my baby father cheating on me red handed. we were togather for 2 and a half years never did i think he would do that to me. We argued and I just recently came to an understanding with him, he claims he wants to be with me and be a "family" but in all reality its not gonna happen. we will never have the house with the white picket fence the dog named spot and the nice swing set in the yard for our daughter. HE MAY CLAIM NOW HE DOESNT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU OR HIS BABY: hes either in shock or hes an a**. Give it time but what i suggest you do to protect yourself and your baby is get in touch with family court so you can at least get child support. If this is his first child than he may be scared of responsibility. Hopefully his family is supportive but if not be strong and just do some careful planning. Most importantly stay in control never give him the upper hand. | |
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| Just found out that im pregnant to my ex
Posted: 3/12/2007 4:04:07 PM | hi, well, my friend found herself in this situation not so long ago actually, after splitting up with her ex, a month later told him she was pregnant. Of course, like most male, he didnt want nothing to do with her or the baby which was predictable of him considering he didnt treat her well or hardly see her, and when he did, it was only when it suited him. He wasnt right for her and everyone could seee it apart from her. well, anyway, beginning of last month, she miscarried. She told her ex and didnt hear nothing from him til one night, when he text saying to phone him if he is still awake.
Anyway, what i'm trying to say is, dont worry too much, i mean, if he really wanted to know, he would be there for you right?? and as for the dad saying not ot shut him out your life, well, what kind of a role model will your ex be to your baby??
Its too complicated but at the end of the day, it comes down to what you want-your the one that matters, noone else, its what you feel is right, so go for it, whatever you wanna do, dont listen to no one apart from yourself, because only you know whats right for you. Good look and happy health!! xxx | |
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