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 *buzz*
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Books were my source of the unknown, yet luring me tremendously. And then my imagination stepped in ... mind enticed ...
 RickyGR
Joined: 10/9/2009
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Posted: 1/16/2010 1:42:30 PM
We had some really nasty books stashed somewhere like a chicken coop. Also my mother's books had some sex in them.
 lobster tales
Joined: 8/7/2009
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Posted: 1/19/2010 11:52:20 AM
My first brush with erotica arrived when I was a mere lad of 13. Being of curious mind, and adept at discovery (Christmas had quit being a surprise for a coupe years by then), I found a secreted Penthouse magazine in my dad's room...and even more than the actual pictures, the Forum "letters" opened my mind's eye to so much more...and has kept it open ever since.

I'm just sayin'
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
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Posted: 4/17/2011 12:26:13 PM
i was surfing the internet several years ago for information about female domination/supremacy and i found some websites that had very good fictional femdom and bdsm stories.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
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Posted: 4/17/2011 1:50:50 PM
~OT~ I don't remember, but I do remember the uncomfortable feeling it gave me. I still get that feeling, so I don't indulge. Much like romantic poetry, the flowery type. I just don't get it. It makes me feel silly ~ much like Harlequin romance novels (assuming, since I've only read the covers of a few.) I am much more comfy with the images and thoughts in my own head for these types of things. JMO
 MrFication
Joined: 5/6/2010
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Posted: 4/17/2011 2:19:19 PM
Hmmm....the first discovery was at about 6 years old. I was at a friend's house and his sister was babysitting for us. She thought we were outside playing...so she and her boyfriend threw in a porn movie (back in the days of VHS/VCR) and started to go at it on the couch. We heard unexplainable noises so we went to investigate. Well, we could see through the window what was goin on...on the couch and the TV. And then ran inside to hopefully join the 'wrestling' match. Hmmm...to be young and clueless.
That was pretty vanilla. Now, in middle school somehow the school library got the book called 'The Joy of Sex'. It had plenty of intro to BDSM, never been the same since.
 sweetspyce522
Joined: 2/14/2011
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Posted: 5/2/2011 4:14:26 PM
I was in Jr. high & I was reading "Flowers In The Attic". I was reading the book series because it was popular, I didn't know anything about erotica. When I was a little older (19 or 20) I tried reading Anne Rice's "Belinda" & couldn't because I was comfortable with reading it. But I have no problem w/it now. I just like for it to read like erotica, not porn. There's a difference.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 5/3/2011 10:32:20 AM
My dad being a doctor had some anatomy books in the library, also I discovered national geographic and pictures of aborigines. After that, OUI and Playboy.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 5/4/2011 6:39:00 AM
Funny....
I was 9 or ten years old, walking down the street, on my way home from school, there lying in front of me was a magazine filled with erotic gay and some straight drawings similar to that of "Tom of Finland" accompanied with very descriptive stories.

I was so happy to see that my prepubescent willy would grow up to be a 12inch hairy kum-dripping monster when I was an adult. I will never forgive "Tom of Finland" et.al. for setting me up for disappointment!
 sukkatash
Joined: 3/27/2011
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Posted: 5/4/2011 10:11:07 AM

how did you discover your first erotic visual? Before the internet that is.

I turned the JCPenney catalog into erotic visuals.
Then it was Cinemax, friday after dark. Emmanuelle, Black Emmanuelle, Emmanuelle and a bunch of chicks, Emmanuelle in Hell, Emmanuelle in Bangkok where she was a he until turned into a she and then had sex with everyone, Lady Chatterley's lover, Private Lessons, Black Venus, My Tutor, Happy Hooker movies, etc.

My favorite was Cinderella with like Tom Bosley or something. Where Cinderella had to ride this loom bike spinning corn kernels which her stepsisters used as vibrators until they climaxed shooting out popcorn.

I miss 70's and 80's movies.
 honeycognac
Joined: 11/22/2010
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Posted: 5/7/2011 10:17:38 PM
It was seemingly innocent historical fiction, but it turned out to be pretty steamy dominant and submissive stuff. I was a very young (maybe 12?) bookworm. Those were my first stirrings of unmistakable, ahem, yes - desire - except I didn't even recognize it or know what to call it. I was just glad that it turned out to be one of a series!
I can still picture the cover - a woman in a Victorian dress, but I can't remember the name of the series. I used to read the trashy True Confessions magazines too but I liked the bodice-rippers better.
 cherryyblossom
Joined: 7/19/2009
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Posted: 5/8/2011 6:20:16 AM
peeping in my parents room while they were watching hardcore porn when i was like five.
 SweetnessInFlorida
Joined: 6/26/2008
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Posted: 5/8/2011 5:53:34 PM
Looking through my Dads drawers trying to find some spare change for a Dr.Pepper....lmfao......
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
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Posted: 5/10/2011 1:32:51 PM
DC Comics - Wonderwoman. And then, yeah, as someone said, the JC Penney Catalog underwear section.
 fetishcdaz
Joined: 8/18/2011
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Posted: 10/11/2011 3:38:01 AM
surfing tthe internet and i by accident came upon a couple of sites that various erotic stories posted on it.

the femdom erotica is my favorite if its written well.

 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
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Posted: 10/12/2011 3:08:20 AM

Literotica.com is my favorite site. Some of my favorite writers are KenJames, Samuelx and Olderbiman.


Thank you for introducing me to this wonderful site

Now for me how did I discover:

-my father had boxes and boxes of Playboy Magazines (me and my friend once took the centerfolds out and was trying to sell them to the teenage boys - honestly it was innocent on our end) anyhow I think a parent called mine and my friend and that's how we got caught and in trouble...

-I accidently found my mom's vibrator...I mean I had no idea what it was as it didn't look like a penis back then (or maybe in the 70s they did and this was just her choice) I don't know if it vibrated or not as I didn't exam it that closely but as I got older I realized what it was that I found...and surprisingly once I learned what it was it didn't even bother me she had one...(not that it should be I could see how it could 'scare' a kid)

-As a child I remember seeing a movie called Laura's Toys (1975) and never forgot the scene he was performing oral sex on a woman...I had no idea what was happening but I just knew I wanted to experience the same pleasure she was having...funny after all these years I never forgot the name (guess since it was my first it was special to me LOL)

Here is the Plot Summary for Laura's Toys:
Archaeologist Walter and his wife Laura are working at a dig on a small island off the coast of Sweden. One day Laura catches Walter having a go at it with his sexy assistant, Anna. Laura calls in her old friend--and former lesbian lover--Hanni to help get her revenge on Walter by having she and Hanni seduce Anna.

Now I honestly only remember the oral sex scene (was also outdoors from what I remember)...I don't remember lesbian things or 3somes (if there were any)...I think I may have to watch this movie again...
 Isis_feline
Joined: 10/4/2010
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Posted: 10/12/2011 3:37:39 AM
ahhh through books :) every story is so much better when you make the movie in your mind while reading it......including erotica :)



*shamefully adds my first was a mills and boon book.... :( please dont repeat that to my friends lol
 poker_fan_in_nyc
Joined: 4/6/2007
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Posted: 10/12/2011 3:44:22 AM
Wow I left the most important one out...

I found my mom's sex encyclopedia as a kid and was fascinated by it...I mean it was a BIG book that talked about everything with PICTURES...I mean how could I not be facsinated by it

I should look in my mom's hidden spot in her closet and see if she still has it LOL
 Nightowl196308
Joined: 10/8/2011
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Posted: 10/12/2011 3:57:01 PM
Its funny that you say finding a playboy in the woods. Because that is what happened to me. Found a few magazines not even sure if they were Playboy, I think is was a porn mag. Also at the same spot found some movie film (8mm?) cant remember the format. it was just piece of the movie and of course the film is tiny. But my cousins and I found it very educational!
 mtngypsy828
Joined: 8/17/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2011 7:22:55 PM
My big brother's Playboy. His stash was under his bed. I read the articles, too. Really.
and I loved Gahan Wilson's sick cartoons!

Oh, and I found my mom's copy of "Joy of Sex" on the high shelf of the bookcase. The drawings in there are positively erotic and beautiful.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
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Posted: 10/13/2011 7:58:26 PM
I found my dad's stash in the cellar when I was in jr. high school.
 Wh1te_Rabb1t
Joined: 7/3/2010
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Posted: 10/13/2011 8:13:35 PM
I'm not sure if this is Hijacking the thread, but what about your first nudie/sex scene that you remember watching?

I'm sure anyone near 40 will remember Phoebe Cates' pool scene in 'Fast Times at Ridgemont High'...

I distinctly remember an 80's cheesy thriller called 'Playing With Fire' or something like that. It's loaded with gratuitous nudity - Sybil Danning takes her clothes off like 7 times in the movie.
 Jackilyn
Joined: 7/10/2011
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Posted: 10/13/2011 8:27:14 PM
Nancy Friday's books on sexuality. Not directly erotica but not porn either.

Btw, John Steinbeck wrote "The Pearl"
 Jenn_Ink25
Joined: 5/21/2010
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Posted: 10/13/2011 8:29:10 PM
Erotica or Porn?

I first happened upon Erotica when I was about 15 or 16. I love Anne Rice, so I bought her trilogy "Sleeping Beauty" and didn't know it was erotic til I started to read it. Good Series though. Gives you a whole new view on the erotic when you are that age
I discovered porn from flipping through the higher DirecTv channels as a kid, and oops look what i found. Which got me into trouble since I didn't know you had to pay to watch it. hahaha.
 Lolita_LeBron
Joined: 1/12/2011
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Posted: 10/13/2011 8:41:54 PM

I love Anne Rice, so I bought her trilogy "Sleeping Beauty" and didn't know it was erotic til I started to read it. Good Series though. Gives you a whole new view on the erotic when you are that age

Ahhhhh!!! I loved that series. It was awesome.
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