| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:33:59 PM | its when a woman lowers her head into a guys lap and opens her mouth and the inserts his..........................................................................
opps sorry wrong kind off head game : /
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:53:01 PM | ^^^^ and what you laughing at?
am i here to amuse you? he heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
ok on a serious note headgames are what everyone else has said they are...
NO OP.....really there is no need......please dont thank me you are more than welcome for my imput!
im glad i could help!
"cheerio"
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:59:22 PM | Wouldsen, Msg #8 the OP asked what "no headgames" meant and while I do not have that on my profile to me it means no lies or deception therefore my post Say what you mean and mean what you say is just be honest and upfront. Online men can be soooo charming, romantic, 6 feet tall, with an athletic build and Not be that at all. They can be on task with their romancing until the woman is caught then they are elusive.
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 7:02:49 PM | ...unfortunetely, honesty, these days, will turn you into shark food!!! I've just gotten a huge bite taken out of me by being honest and true...spoiled her with all kind of goodies, was always there when her and the kids needed me, emotionally, financially, truthfully and what does she do? Runs off with this ass.... 2 days after Christmas! Yep, that's enough to turn anybody into a player! I no longer beleive that you can ever totally trust anybody nowadays... The next one will have to work very hard to climb the wall that just doubled in size...
Que sera, sera!
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 7:17:01 PM | Head Games refer to the lies, Tests (big or small), Hidden truths, Misconceptions, Cheating, Subversion, or ulterior motives and many other mean or unkind behaviour and actions that many new and resentful or insecure people use to get what they want from another people. Despite the others feelings, or intentions!
Lets face it, when “games” are being done onto you or you doing them onto others, it does not come from a place of mutual respect, and fear is a primary motivator usually (but not always or in all cases). Fear of failure, fear of success, fear of being able to trust others, or to trust your own feelings weather they are new or old feelings being re-hashed, or experienced. Fear of wanting to be dependant, or of living in peace with another, or to stop any of those of the things that may change the way you experience the world. It is real hard to trust others if you don’t trust yourself.
It is hard to trust others, but I would rather trust and get burnt, than not trust anyone, and stay in my bubble.
I ain’t no bubble boy!!!!
Tell me if this could be a version of head games?
A significant partner tells me that this person was leaving town to go on vacation, but instead of going, this person stayed in town and was waiting for me to figure out that the other person did not go away (later I found out this happened several times). As well being “very upset with me or hurt” for not contacting the other person. Then when I had the truth revealed, I got blamed for many other things which I did not do to cause harm to the other person, but never to look at exactly what happened and brought us to the point of not wanting to talk to the other. Nor to discuss the initial “tests” to begin with.
Is that a game?
I know in that past instance, I could have asked many hard questions which could have brought forth the truth about what the other person’s intentions were, but I choose to believe the other person rather than come from a place of suspicion of lies or manipulation (foresight 20-20).
How much do you want to change your misery, or keep it?
The key here is to be honest with all people around you. Don't tell people you are looking for new partners, if you have no intention of doing so. Many people around choose not to face reality in this way, and it is self-defeating to do so.
Don't become a “plastic” person, unless you really enjoy being insincere, or fake.
I would beware of the person who asks you what you do on the net besides email all your little friends. Patronizing someone is not usually a good way to conduct a relationship that you want to last.
The person who wants to take over your whole life, and he hasn't even met you yet! Or the person who is coming to meet you and to whisk you off to live with them. These people particularly appear to live in a fantasy world all of their own and are looking for someone to fit into a role they have created in their mind.
Q: How do you know a using alcoholic is on a date?
A: He / she shows to you first date with a U-Haul. LOL
The two types of women over the Internet:
One -- the woman who is sincerely looking for a relationship and will thus give you a fair shot (whatever that looks like).
And two -- the game player, who leads unsuspecting honest folk on via e-mail messages, conversations, the Internet only to be duped.
The trick is to find the first type, while avoiding the second type at all costs. Which has been hard, in my limited experience.
Well, finding the person that you want to share your life with deserves the same amount of attention you would give to raising a child, or building a career. Halfway measures will produce half-way results. Respect others and ultimately yourself.
Be persistent, and present, and have fun out there.
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 7:29:27 PM | Marmott--you make some good points and of course you can replace "women" with "men" in your third paragraph.
I have to laugh at your "How do you know a using alcoholic on a date?" question. I suspected that a guy I was dating for awhile was an alcoholic when he DID NOT order a glass of wine at dinner and DID NOT say that he didn't drink. (It was an Italian restaurant and he was with an Italian lady and orders a soda?....geez, come on now!)
Of course, I thought it was my "fear of trusting too quickly" that caused me to be suspicious. My gut feeling proved to be true in the end. | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 7:36:34 PM | Sorry alan but w/ your profession and age asking such a question seems a bit unreal..!
If your serious your getting alot of sound advice from ppl along w/ the education you obviously lacked!!  | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 7:40:30 PM | | Alan....oh Allllaaaaaan!..it's your conscience calling!!!..time to own up and admit this is a redundant question!!!...oooooohhhhhhhhh...(fade to black...spirit of Intelligence Past, exit stage right) | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 7:57:35 PM | | A Head games is what a woman calls any behavior she has been involved with once she did not get the results she was looking for. She is unwilling to admit the fact that she was willing to go along with what ever the guy was proposing. By calling it headgames she does not have to be responsible for her behavior and can blame someone else. | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 8:29:47 PM | the following is from this womans profile, game or no game. She is also just looking for men, but in a commited relationship, game or no game.
I have no time for rudeness,or the smell of smoke,or cheaters......if u may be one then don't be afraid to click that next button lmao | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 8:56:30 PM | Webster's defines 'headgames' in the following manner:
A man who comes on STRONG... very sexually aggressive.... (which I don't have a problem with at all).... only to have a mere 3 inch prick in his pants that can't even stay hard.
Word of advice 'BOYS':
If what you have is a mouse instead of a tiger between your thighs... keep it in your pants. Nothing worse than a small penis coming at you.
Just being honest. | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 9:07:19 PM | ^^^ would that be Webster played by Emmanuel Lewis? Because that definition is in no webster's dictionary I ever found.  | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 9:36:44 PM | | Headgames are a women's best friend, the key to a man's heart, entertainment for the sick, and the cause of 90% of break-ups. | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 10:05:40 PM | head games are those things that you don't notice if you've got something better to do with you're life.
srsly. | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 10:38:17 PM | Why do headgames never work in maintaining attraction?
Because, if it did, none would dare call it headgames.
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/8/2007 11:01:28 PM | Well **OP**, we've obviously construed that head games include lying, but what about deceit, a much deeper form?
Passive-aggression?
Ulterior motives?
Hidden agendas?
Misrepresentation of feelings?
Leading one on?
To say they are going to use the "Restroom" in order to return a phone call or make contact with another is a game to me.
Adding someone to your "Favorites" list ONLY to know when they were last online is a game too.
Posessive, obsessive people play games.
Insecurity is commensurate with "games" of a sort.
To toy with anothers feelings and/or emotions for own self gain.
Anything requiring strategy,logic and DARE, is a game.(Cheating,Lying,stealing,abusing,etc)
IMO
God Bless
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/9/2007 12:41:42 PM | [head games are those things that you don't notice if you've got something better to do with you're life.]
Great post polishillusion!
I've played, I've been played...ah well, live and learn!
"hold your head high with the grace of an adult, not the defeat of a child."
Life is too short to focus on the negativity....head games and tests are everywhere, in politics, in schools, in work, yes even relationships...can't escape it, only thing you can do is not to fall into a 'victim' mode about the headgames...chances are if you look at the underlying circumstances without being hurtful and judgemental., and maybe if you approach the situation in a kind loving way..you may be able to stop the headgames and have some dignity. If ya dont like to do that, then just remember your just continuing a vicious circle.
(which reminds me....Dane Cook has an awesome skit on relationships on his new CD called vicious circle. I absolutely recommend it.... HILARIOUS!!!!!)
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/9/2007 1:24:10 PM | "headgames", a noun describing any meeting, date, short or long-term relationship that didn't turn out the way you wanted it to...
A few examples
Guy wants sex on 1st meeting, girl doesn't comply, each accuses the other of "headgames"
Person of either sex posts a profile simply to see how many responses they get with no intention of ever following thru and MEETING the responders.
Married/committed persons of either sex using a dating website, looking for an ego boost, a little on the side, or lining up the next SO.
People of either sex who break a date because they had a "better offer".
People whose only reason for wanting a relationship is to resolve a financial, practical or social crisis...
disclaimer;the word "headgames" does NOT appear anywhere on ladyc4's profile. Doesn't need to, the profile itself strikes fear into the hearts of all but the bravest and most honest men.
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/10/2007 7:30:22 AM |
Webster's defines 'headgames' in the following manner:
A man who comes on STRONG... very sexually aggressive.... (which I don't have a problem with at all).... only to have a mere 3 inch prick in his pants that can't even stay hard.
Word of advice 'BOYS':
If what you have is a mouse instead of a tiger between your thighs... keep it in your pants. Nothing worse than a small penis coming at you.
Just being honest.
Somethin' tells me this tiger hasn't been let out of the cage in awhile!!
Sorry, couldn't resist!!
God Bless
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/10/2007 9:27:11 AM | | I just wanted to add something to my last post. I ment to say pretend instead of pretends. Actually I should have put it when ppl pretend to take an interest in you and then blow you off at a different time. Yes, men do it too. Of course headgames are when ppl on internet dating sites use it for ego boast and psychological lift. I mean when I look at a woman's profile and see that some of them have anywhere from 100-300 male admirers listing her as a favorite. They use the internet dating sites for their own amusement and personal entertainment. They have no intention of meeting ppl out in the real world. | |
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| Someone explain what headgames are?
Posted: 1/10/2007 9:34:28 AM | | They are means of manipulating someone without physical force but its still abuse , its comes from shallow minded ignorant people !!!!! Some people do things or say things to make you question yourself like go through your things your mail your diary or mobile phone !!! Its not nice being on the recieving end of them and it hurts , alot of men tend to play them as a gain of control ( im not saying women dont play them also) alot of us are wary hence we don't want manipulating bullies in our life !!! Those that play the mind games are twisted individuals themselves | |
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