| After sex clean up..
Posted: 1/7/2007 10:05:21 PM | Personally I think that is a wonderful thing to do.....I used to do the cleaning for him afterwards and when I fond someone else I am sure I will be doing it again. Sort of like the final touch on lovemaking.  | |
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| After sex clean up..
Posted: 1/7/2007 11:14:05 PM | I perfer shower cleaning, once your all clean u can start all over again in the shower...... | |
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| After sex clean up..
Posted: 1/7/2007 11:32:09 PM | I think that would be soo weird if someone was to wash me afterwards...no thanx.
I just like to get up, go to the bathroom, go pee, clean up down there a little then crawl right back into bed and sleep. Shower comes in the morning, first thing lol.
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Posted: 1/8/2007 2:08:11 AM | I find it kinda funny....alot of responses assume sex is always done in bed and at night!! Not always the case. But thanks for the responses... its a practise my next lover will enjoy, im sure
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| After sex clean up..
Posted: 1/8/2007 5:56:13 AM | I don't mind the wash cloth beside the bed - but I really prefer to shower with my man, or do my own clean up - if we are too tired to change the sheets I toss a towel over the wet spot.  | |
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Posted: 1/8/2007 6:31:42 AM | Well depending if it's sex or "ya know" and where things end up- whoever it gets on......LOL
If it's not on me I usually grab a dry towel and then a nice wet warm one to do a lil better cleaning so we can at least be able to get up without having to worry about "drippage"
- is that even a word....lmao! | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 1:01:55 PM | Well group,
Take a look at you grandma's furniture now you know why everything is covered in plastic! Live and learn. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 1:51:17 PM | Cleaning up??
You're supposed to to that? That's why it's all crusty...here I thought I might have caught something.
I wash cloth you say?...Ingenius.
Usually I just liked all the juices drying to the sheets so my skin can be exfoliated as I slumber. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 3:20:50 PM | | Your ex has this fantasy. It's called, " I'm a queen...treat me like one, you sex slave, you ". :) Well, I don't know if it goes that far, but yeah, I have heard of such kinks. I'm an " old-fashioned " girl....I like the showering together part. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 3:29:48 PM |
Now if he offers to lick up the mess ? I'd marry him
hahahahaha
LOL. I don't think that would ever happen. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 3:58:38 PM | wow as if men have that much energy after sex..........
hmm what are we doing wrong............lol joking.......
but we do have a shower after together when we are done  | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 6:05:35 PM | "if we are too tired to change the sheets I toss a towel over the wet spot."
Well dang it why didn't I ever think of that. The Ex used to sucker me onto MY side (Not sure how she managed to do that EVERY time)
"Wet Spot!!! AAAHHH Cold EW!!!!"
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Posted: 3/11/2007 7:17:17 PM | "Yep, thats sweet of you. We wash each other to. (Just rember washing the out side alone isn't enough.) Clean on the in side keeps her clean."
This is acutally dangerous. The female body takes care of this quite nicely. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 7:35:20 PM | | To me, its all good, how is it that you can have sex with a man - the ultimate in intimate, but can't let him clean you?? If two people are that close, a little thing like the wet spot shouldn't come between you. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 7:37:39 PM | "If two people are that close, a little thing like the wet spot shouldn't come between you. "
Then keep it on YOUR side LOL
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Posted: 3/11/2007 7:39:30 PM | | I find the best solution is a shower together for sure. But I don't mind licking it up either ;) | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 8:04:56 PM | This thread has me seriously thinking for the potential romantic nuances in the wake of what makes for a successful LTR, and while I haven't minded the 'girl goo', my partners have all minded mine w/o consideration for a warm shower together or shared washcloth.
Hmmm. Perhaps "clean-up, clean-up, everybody..." says more w/o the saying for the status of my one plus one equals one equations and the logic of my heart. If I'd have known then what I know now, I'd not let one or two of my partners head to the bathroom alone.
As for the wet spot, I'd sleep on it if she'd have invited me to shower or brought me a warm washcloth. Both gestures would've made me realize that they were into me before they were into what I had, and that I still have, to put into them. Good post. Thank you for making me see the error of my past ways, even if I'm sure that I can still find better for one more most considerate lover in my life. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 8:24:33 PM | I enjoy cleaning my guy 'afterwards'... but I enjoy taking a quick shower...
as for the rest of the clean up: lets just say he definitely had to do some laundry this morning once we were 'done'.  | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 9:24:50 PM | | One of my ex boyfriends actually had warm wet cloths at the ready for afterwards and also dry ones. We would wake up in the early hours of the morning and have a good 2 hour making love session (an hour of foreplay) , clean up ,cuddle up and go back to sleep - spooned together. Then a shower, go for a good walk, head on back to the house and have breakfast. Then go grocery shopping ,come home unload, back to bed again for some more loving. Wake up make dinner, watch some tv then more loving then a bubble bath together with a glass of wine. Bliss.... This of course happened on a Saturday or Sunday. He lived up Island and I lived in Victoria. He was a keeper right up to the minute I caught him in his underwear in front of the ex girlfriend before me. He swore they were just friends but I had lost my trust in him and once that goes, forget it. Still I do admire a guy being ready to clean up nicely...........LOL. | |
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Posted: 3/11/2007 10:12:30 PM | i think cleaning up after is a mental problem,, where you think sex is dirty,,I prefer to put off cleaning up as long as possible,,love the fermentation of the goo of two.. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2007 5:25:10 AM | what happens if not making love in bedroom [yawn] ~~~ if in car, field, etc etc
no bowls and warm water then lol
ok ok thats not the point
nowt wrong with the mess ~~ yucky but its like a reminder ~~ shower later good thou | |
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Posted: 3/12/2007 5:31:18 AM | | a nice steaming hot shower together, then fresh cotton bathrobes and fresh sheets and a snuggle up with a glass of wine | |
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Posted: 3/12/2007 5:41:14 AM | | the whole washcloth and basin idea just reminds me of work too much , I've always loved the showering together thing ,it makes me happy , so I'll just stick to that (pun intended!) | |
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Posted: 3/12/2007 5:47:16 AM | | I feel a little private time is in order for this act. I don't want to wipe his ass and I don't want him cleaning me unless it's with his mouth and prior to all the clean up stage! | |
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