| Minute Men Posted: 10/17/2005 9:18:34 PM | | I'm thankful for one minute man..... my next door neighbor lmaoooooo when they go at it.. I know I wont have to hear them slammin up against my wall for hours... it's minutes literally and for that ... i'm thankful lmao | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 10/17/2005 11:02:35 PM | | I'm wondering how those guys in porn pump away at a hot chick for a good duration without errupting like a volcano....I mean I fastforward the video and at the near end of the tape,he's still at it.... | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 10/18/2005 12:02:57 AM | | umm sometimes its hell of annoying actually | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 10/18/2005 7:59:55 AM | | it's called a c*ck ring ^^^^^^^^^^ lol | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 10/18/2005 8:48:37 AM | it depends if you could go every minute within an hour...lol ..
there are ways to control it i think | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 10/18/2005 8:49:57 AM | My first time, when I was 16 I don't think I even got it all the way in, before erupting.
One of the few advantages of being older is staying power. Women get better with age. They just seem to cum harder and longer. With men, we slow down a bit. It just takes a little longer. Sometimes it takes a lot longer. Now that I'm "mature" it just takes me longer to cum. It can be frustrating to me sometimes, when I'm really trying, but when i'm at 1/2 hour to 45 minutes and still going strong, it sure works for my partner. The only time I've ever had a problem was when I met for a quickie and she had to be somewhere. She had cum several times and was quite put-out that I hadn't shot yet. When I found that out, I was able to accommodate.
To answer someone's question from earlier, even if there is no climax the act itself is just wonderful. Foreplay can be more pleasurable than the culmination. It just depends on how much time you take guys.
See girls, a hard body isn't everything. Sometimes it's just good old staying power that wins the prize. To you women who won't date a man over 40....Sorry for you. You just don't know what you're missing. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 10/19/2005 4:41:50 AM | | I like design_stl's comment. Go down on a guy, if he squirts right away, even better. Then you keep playing without worrying. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 10/19/2005 4:58:10 AM | LOL @ this topic ..but a good one nonethe less.. I think every man is "capable" of being a minute man depending on the amount of time between sexual encounters the excitement level etc...yada yada.. but as long as you keep it in you oughtta be able to work it back up..heh once I withdraw(at my age..lol) it seems likes its ova!!!!!!!!!!
But for the most part if a guy gets some at least semi reuglarly (at least in my case) I find I can last longer than if I had gone without for say a month. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 12:09:18 AM | | Of course it's a problem !! A very big deal!!! Definetly a more difficult situation in the initial stages of a relationship when opening up to each other is still very new. However it doesn't need to be a deal breaker. There are so many things that can be tried to improve this, and think of all the fun while experimenting! Question to some of the women here....I have on a number of occasions gotten pretty pissed when a guy cums during intercourse before me, and that's it, it's over. How in the hell is this fair? Anyone else? I just think it's a cruel joke (physically speaking) that we kinda get screwed ( hehe, not literally!) because "intercourse" technically is finished once the man has finished. What about us? lol what if the reverse were the case. Women came, we rolled over, maybe said "sorry, I had to.", and that was that, and the guy didn't get off! Some men really need to think about how they would feel if a women just stopped them before he finished because she had, and realize how FRUSTRATING that can be!!! As far as being ashamed ottawadude, don't be. If this is you were talking about. lol Be ashamed if your to lazy, or selfish to do something to correct the problem, but not ashamed that you have this problem. The first step in all recovery, is admitting you have a problem!! lol So your on your way now. Oh, one last thing, try thinking about really ugly women you know, I've heard that works for some guys!!!! lol hahaha | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 12:22:59 AM | | There is always round two my friend! | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 12:52:18 AM | I am a recovering minuteman.
Apparently if you start doing cardio exercise and getting good nutrition (maybe become vegetarian ) then you will start lasting longer. I'll be honest.. These days I still can't last an hour, but I can last a couple of half hours  | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 1:37:32 AM | Seriously: Do something about it.
Take up tantric qigong, seek medical intervention, invest in a strap-on. Does it matter what women or men on this forum think? No, it matters what *your* partner thinks. I suspect longer sex would be considered a boon for our both; if not, I doubt you would have asked the question. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 8:26:16 AM | | lol im so shure like a man can realey get off that fast my shortest time is 20 min if a woman can get a man off that fast she must half to be realley good in bed but i realey dont think it is posable for a man to get off with in 20 min sorey | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 8:46:00 AM | In my younger days, it didn't matter. I was up and ready within moments, and could literally go all night long, till one of us got tired. Heck, there were times when both of us would fall asleep while still engaged.
Nowadays, well, everything takes a bit longer. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 8:57:04 AM | | ok i have read some of what women have hade to say and yes some of it is verry hurtfull so comeing for a man that knows how to go a long time with out getting off i will tell you how it works i dont care what others think of what i am about to say becous i do give great sex and long sex with my wife but ok here we go you dont half to tell eaney one you do it but when you have time alone do your thing about 2 to 4 times a day and bye your self some books here are the names of books i have they work great(Satisfaction guaranteed what women really want in bed)(The healing power of sex )(the 10 secrets to great sex)(hot relationships)and my fave (Massage for lovers) all thows books are amazing and you will see the next time you have sex and if you want to plees her dont forget to do your thing you know what i meen she will love you for all this good luck | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 9:08:49 AM | Hey dude there are ways to fix this issue. Yes you can help it and you can rid yourself of this problem.
By the book Multi-orgasmic Man by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams.
I am not a minute man but the techniques in this book will solve your problem.
Hope this helps.
Believe me you are not being selfish. Just realistic.
Peace | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 9:12:53 AM | | i've been there and yes it was a turn off....but i think more because he didnt' do anything to help me get off. if you are quick you better know how to help your women out! | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 9:18:32 AM | I am not an expert on sex but here goes ....
Well the porno guys are professionals let's not forget that. As well there are many stops and starts when they are filming. It is never one continuous shot.
As well most of these guys are extremely fit and know all the tricks fo the trade. There is a direct connection to being muscle bound and having great sex.
Personally, when I started body building I noticed that my sex life was so much better and I felt like i had so much more control.
It is all about control and patience. Remember you are in control of your emotions and your body.
Geez there is nothing wrong with pulling out for a few seconds if you want to last longer. I am sure she won't be disappointed if you do.
Peace | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 9:20:56 AM | | As a guy honestly I think that I would find it more sexy if a woman could be honest if a guy dosen't have enough control over orgasm and needs to go through the steps to improve in bed. As long as theres honest open communication nothing should really be a big deal. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 10:07:22 AM | | WOW SIX pages of post on a two minute question, impressive. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 10:09:12 AM | | yes it's a very big deal, 2 or even 5 minute men are the worst. I wouldn't stick around. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/13/2006 10:10:35 AM | | Hi could any one tell what on average duration is useful.... 5 min 10 min..... ??? | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/14/2006 3:27:17 PM | | They're drugs you can take that will make you last longer. hell even some anti depressants have sexual side effects that can beneficial (lol like delayed ejaculation) LOL There is nothing wrong with taking something that will "enhance" your peformance. | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/14/2006 3:30:27 PM | oh well u losed on round one !!! what about round 2 its takes 2 to do it to foreplay could also solve that problem along with lubes to | |
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| Minute Men Posted: 11/14/2006 5:13:02 PM | Minute man? Been there done that never to go back | |
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