| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 9/18/2006 12:38:20 PM | Actually to tell you the truth I have met people in fact lots of people from other sites including yahoo chat rooms but I have yet to meet anyone from here. which is weird because the women who respond to me here seem to live alot closer and maintain a huge volume of interest.I just chalk it up to fear of rejection and keep it moving.Life is too short to ponder such people and as it was already stated the site is a freebie so quit crying!  | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/22/2008 1:16:52 PM | Freebie Or Not, trappedonbayst , The purpose of this site, and the ONLY purpose, it to DATE. Let me say it again, DATE. It says "Free Dating Site". Not "Free Chatline". There are as you can see, strict rules for the sole purpose of dating. The point is, when you see a profile, male or female, you engage in contact with that person for one reason and one reason ONLY......DATING!!!! So free or not, "JUST HERE TO CHAT" Defeats the purpose. If these chicks just want to chat, they can take that shit to M Y S P A C E!!! | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/22/2008 1:24:28 PM |
And it's gonna be a lot more time longer before you get a "Get Together" forum started anjori . Most these women are actually in a boring and unfaithful marriage and use this site to get the attention they don't get at home! Truth be told. They will never come out even if they were allowed to leave the house without they controlling husband.  | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/24/2008 5:42:48 AM | Wildfire you maybe right BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOUR ALSO WRONG The male's are wrong too but i'm not gonna sit here and bash them all like everyone else is doing....
I have hosted some event's Some gathering's and some single one's in fact!!! AND TONZZZZZZZZZZZZ OF awesome ladies show up with there single friend's...
It's easy to take out the fake's and flakes. All those BS people everyone listed... Give them two week's everything unfold's at the end.... | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/24/2008 12:54:27 PM | I find it interesting that people here, don't interact, even if a person just says hi. I personally don't understand why people join, just to have their face, in a place. The place is great Free, gives people a chance to mingle under no pressure. I've met one person from here, it had a memory; which I won't say is worth keeping. Yet it was a try, and no body got hurt. It be nice if people tried. | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/24/2008 5:19:16 PM | hi vanilla it s nice you guys out on long Islind do have getogethers I tried doing a post for the Bronx gettogether, even offered to meet in manhattan or westchester I got about 6 or 7 guys asking why we cant meet in jersey ??? LOLLOLLOL | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/25/2008 5:17:39 AM | Anjori You don't do your gathering's correctly... And people think your full of BS why no one show's up or even does anything about it... I mean I read your thread's and what not... Sound's fake and all BS sorry to say... I mean who in there right mind post a time and address a day before or even that day of fact... And think people will show up? You have to do it in a few week's advance and give people a shot that way...
I don't want to be rude or nothing... But when you post address of a place your going to be a day before or with in 72 hour's or so... It just make's you sound desperate why no one will show... Now if you created a REAL POST PARTY THREAD I am sure load's of people will go then... Only if you do it the correct way... Hope's that helps Vanilla Scent | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/25/2008 11:42:39 AM | | that's true. it takes me a day or two to even NOTICE there's a new event going on let alone make plans to go. as most of the events are a good hour away from me (damn you long island people) i need the time to figure what's what and of course see if anyone interesting has signed up yet. if it's just the person who created the event forum and two other 60 yo guys, i'll probably pass... unless they have candy... i like strangers with candy. | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/25/2008 11:44:56 AM | | as for women not wanting to meet, doesn't bother me. i'm MOSTLY here just to waste time at work. if i find somebody that interests me then i'd be more than happy to meet them somewhere but if not...hey it's that much closer to quittin' time. | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/25/2008 4:59:15 PM | yea I did throw up a couple last minut thing s,, but I also posted some idea s for party s , with no more then 1 other person interested , basically I was trieing to find some people in the Bronx, to hangout and share a few drink s, but someone wanted to move it to jersey ! and I got a little testie about it. LOLLOLLOL, | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 1/25/2008 5:52:06 PM | Move it to NJ? That is like taking some of your own kind of medicine huh? LOL LOL LOL And if you are a host. You have to be very patient with everyone!!!!!!!. Even if you don't like that person... Or any of there two cent's as well.... If you don't like what they say you have to bite your tongue towards a point... In less it's something negative towards everyone then delete it or be nice back... ALL I KNOW number one/two rule's should be... VERY VERY PATIENT and have your restriction's move so everyone is able to email them.... If some don't care for the thread's and all that BS come's along with it too... Can you handle it? | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 2/1/2008 3:31:22 PM | I just went through one , we had about 6 -7 exchange s, they all were very pleasent , it look like we wer getting famillar with eachother , then I suggested we have a meeting / date , she got offensive, like I said somthing bad about her mother, then I pointed out all the thing s we chatted about were in refference to doing something or going somewhere , and she got defensive , like i was forcing her to go out with me, anyway I just said Bye Bye | |
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| Who is fed up with only here to chat people Posted: 8/29/2008 5:39:14 PM | You should be happy. Cream of the crop, men like that (or women) , you lucked out. It could have been worse; they could have really shown up, and you'd possibly now be dating a low life. But what goes around, comes around, and believe it, they will get theirs.  | |
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