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 JulietJuliet

Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 26
what did I not see
Posted: 1/8/2007 10:50:42 PM
yazoo8.....
I would have walked to the ends of the earth for him and with him, but finding out someone has a secret 40,000$ GAMBLING debt after a year and a half put a little damper on the heaven on earth view that I had of our relationship. I wanted a plan to fix things,and he creid and than ran away from me.


Seems very much that this character has a gambling addiction that he is not prepared to get help for, not for you and not for anyone. He is correct by not dragging you down to his level, and it's best for you to leave him be if he is not prepared to seek help.
If he honestly loved you, he would do what was necessary to make things right, and that means seeking help for his gambling issues. Question is are you prepared to confront him about his addiction, and stand by him should he seek help?
 yazoo8

Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 27
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what did I not see
Posted: 1/9/2007 4:00:17 PM
Had I been given the opportunity I would say in all honesty YES, but like I said I was not given the opportunity, he said he still loves me but this is what is best, said he had zero complaints about me as a girlfriend, but was not "husband material" right now and he hoped our paths would cross again. The fact that he has zero interest in how this has effected me, and we have no contact after having a great relationship is what I have a hard time accepting. I dont just feel like I lost my boyfriend but I feel like I lost my best friend. I feel like Im cheating for going on a date(tomorrow) but he wants me to move on, so what can I do? Move on.
 farmboy21

Joined: 5/31/2006
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Posted: 1/9/2007 4:07:33 PM
better that you got out more than likely but some people can be procrastinators and really not have put it off because he didn't care about you but just a procastinator lol never know
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