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 LMK45

Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 6/8/2007 6:17:04 PM
Haha!!! E.S.Eddie ... what I hate is when they post something so PROFOUND and can't use punctuation. Do they talk like that, too? (Sorry, off point. Just makes my eyes cross.)
 SwampHunter

Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 27
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Posted: 6/8/2007 6:18:30 PM
3 words for ya... Date older men. :)
 1800DoUCare

Joined: 5/19/2006
Msg: 28
what do i do i'm tired of it
Posted: 6/8/2007 6:20:56 PM
creativguy.. is right.

But now, if you were to attract someone who did want to stick with you, he'd want to stay with you because of who you are, and not just because of sex. So, don't you think that the course you're on, in the long run, is a good way to sort people out and find your prince, because it sure filters out all the frogs you're finding along the way?

Not all men are a like, this helps you to weed out the bad guys, be proud of yourself and for holding out, one day some one will come along who will want you for you.

You are still young sweetie and have many years to find that right one, enjoy your self in the mean time, "there are some good guys out there...
 FunluvrnPA

Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 6/8/2007 6:22:46 PM
Just what we need another post of male bashing. There are good guys as well as good fems out there. Perhaps if some of you women that don't take the time to answer an email, and find out about the guy, you might be surprised. I for one am sick and tired of all the bashing by both sexes. For a site that promotes finding that one person that may fulfill your life, all you can do is drive the good ones away. There are just as many, if not more, women that play the mind games, and LIE, as men. So wise up, at least take a few moments, and answer that email, chat with the other person, get to know them. Again you might be surprised.
 Bronco777

Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 6/8/2007 6:27:24 PM
I know what you mean.

I am tired of men saying they want to have a lasting relationship and then you find ut that sex is it. It doesn't matter if you give it to them or not they are gone by a week. I know the man of my dreams is out there but I am tired of having to go through the shit. It seems that if you an the date services they think it is their personal meat market. I am trusting but an about to act like everyone is only out there for the sex and treat them that way from the first email.

Want to find the man who truely want someone and if they say looks don't matter when that is the lie to. Even men that aren't that great will not be interested if you are good looking. That is wrong.

 moslova

Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 6/8/2007 6:51:40 PM
GIRL, YOU SOUND LIKE ME ONLY SEVEN MONTHS AGO. I WAS IN LOVE WITH MY DAUGHTER'S FATHER FOR MORE THAN SIX YEARS, HE WAS MY FIRST LOVE. THE FIRST TIME HE CHEATED ON ME WAS WITH ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS, HE DIDNT ACTUALLY SLEEP WITH HER, BUT HE WAS SEEING HER BEHIND MY BACK. THAT WAS ONLY 5 MONTHS INTO OUR RELATIONSHIP, BUT I LOVED HIM SO I FORGAVE HIM, AND IT ENDED UP BACKFIREING ON ME. I GAVE THIS MAN MY VERGINITY, HIS FIRST CHILD, AND I DEDICATED MYSELF TO HIM. WHAT DO YOU THINK ENDED UP HAPPENING? HE WENT TO A STAG PARTY IN DECEMBER AND SLEPT WITH A STRIPPER. YOU HAVE TO DECIDE FOR YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE WORTH RESPECT, FIDELITY, AND LOVE. HONEY I LEFT THE MAN I THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO MARRY OVER HIS OWN SELFISHNESS REGARDLESS OF HOW MUCH IT HURT TO DO IT. NEVER COMPRIMISE YOUR VALUES AND MORALS FOR ANYONE, AND IF THEY CANT RESPECT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE, THEY ARE NOT THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU. TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY GET TO KNOW THE PERSON, AND BE COMPLEATLY UPFRONT WITH THEM ABOUT SEX FROM THE BEGINNING. YOU'LL FIND THE RIGHT ONE HUN, YOURE ONLY 19, JUST ENJOY THE JOURNEY. GOOD LUCK
BEST REGARDS
MELANIE
 chaswhatif

Joined: 4/30/2005
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Posted: 6/8/2007 7:08:31 PM
Were I the guy,sleeping together as in comfortable together (no sex) is a cool tool to examine my reasons for ,well,sleeping next to ya.
A lady has to be totally into making love before the doing.Thought initates action.
Fun,not love,keeps couples cuddelin'.
I've never cheated(emotionally violated )-on any lady-call for a grammarrion.I put that badly.
If I were to have cheated...gotta sleep sometime.Ya have an iron skillet? Brain the idiot who sees you as a thing,not a lady.
No jury would convict!
 Rick R

Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 6/8/2007 7:33:24 PM
Come on really! My feelings are really hurt. I know lots of guys were all different. Also, how long are you putting them off of sex. A week, month, year...?
 dancecard

Joined: 3/19/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 6/8/2007 7:52:43 PM
Loveone 9448

There is more to this little story that you are not telling !

You coming across ~ as a gum machine,

~ I loss interest quick ~ tell us more.

dar
 Soulful Union

Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 35
what do i do i'm tired of it
Posted: 6/8/2007 7:53:49 PM

Men lie. Period.

Some women lie. Period or no period.

- Soulful Union
 Astrosfan11

Joined: 3/31/2006
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Posted: 6/8/2007 8:06:29 PM
Try dating women. Just kidding, unless you're into that.

Someone once said that you will find what you are looking for when you quit looking for it. Concentrate on yourself and becoming an outstanding person for the guy of your dreams when you do meet him in the future. Good luck.
 DonSim007

Joined: 7/15/2006
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Posted: 6/8/2007 8:26:09 PM
I completely agree with what you say unless you want to be a big person when you get old..... in that attempt you may be a big person in the end but lose all fun till then and be decapacitated to enjoy by then!!!
You, the right girl, what do you say about a hot coffee near a hot beach?
To see if something more hot is possible?
`D
 DamCute

Joined: 8/10/2007
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Posted: 9/22/2008 4:35:40 PM
Good morals kiddo. Men cheat becuase they think they can get away with it. Women cheat because of no love given so they seek emotionally desperate ly elsewhere. No matter what argument that some guy gives you hold true to your beliefs and its' their loss. Yes there are many but there are also some good. Just work on being your best and learn to discern over the years. It's gonna get rough when people are getting more self centered and self preserved. It will happen.

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