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| I NEED ways on building self-esteem and being positive!
Posted: 1/28/2007 5:20:59 PM | HI Amanda. I feel for you. What I am hearing form you is how inhappy with your life you are and that if you had someone in your life you would feel loved and accepted. I am writing in love and a true desire to help. Sometimes we get lost along lifes way and we need a little help for someone to point the way. We know we deserve good in our lives, but we look outside ourselves to get those needs met, and when that falls short we feel frustrated, sad, angry, lonely, depressed, victimized. We give to others hoping for that little bit of love or acceptance, and then we find this is not returned and we did not get the result we wanted.
How to overcome this: love your self. Give yourself love, acceptance and validation. Fall so in love with you that you no longer look to others to give you what you think you need. Then, when you do have a specific need, openly state and communicate it to the one you wish it from. the person can say yes or no, but if this person cannot meet that need at least you know it up front and openly and you can accapt that and keep the lines of communication open. Choosing to participate fully in your own life in this way frees you - this way YOU control your life, and when you step in and take control of your life I believe you will begin to feel better. Feel free to write anytime.
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mizbex
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Joined: 12/17/2006
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| I NEED ways on building self-esteem and being positive!
Posted: 1/28/2007 5:39:35 PM | First go and work out, it will do you a world of good, you will be amazed how much frustration you will work through. Then, go and do something nice for yourself, get a facial or a massage. Then come home draw a bubble bath have a glass a of wine and go out to dinner with your girlfriends followed by dancing or something fun.
When you wallow in the situation, it can eat you alive. Get out of the house, do something for yourself and most of all be kind to yourself.: Don't try and be perfect or someone's ideal. Be the best possible you for you. I may get bashed for this but there are too many single men out there to put up with stuff like this. | |
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| I NEED ways on building self-esteem and being positive!
Posted: 7/10/2007 10:27:37 AM | Hi Jewel,
I have a suggestion that might help.. It WILL change your life... read the book *The Secret* it will rock your world.... its all in the power of the mind and this book really helps... trust me on this one!
Yes, honor yourself and buy the book... it will do wonders for those who want change and happiness...
Take care
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