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| The touching of SOULS..........
Posted: 1/12/2007 6:02:11 PM | nautyangel, ,,
So true,You can love many men in your lifetime, there is also a difference of BEING IN LOVE with someone rather than loving them.
Then if your fortunate you meet YOUR SOUL MATE, the one person that touched the core of you. He is the one that no matter how many times you may try to move on, put him out of your mind or let go YOU JUST CAN'T! Nor should you. Miles apart, in other states it doesn't make a difference your soul has no mileage counter on it. Feelings touch you no mattter where you are or if your even together.
You sense turmoil, happiness, in this person's life and you even know when they are
remembering a tender moment in time they spent with you.
They say often one doesn't know at first when meeting ,that this is ones soul mate,
In my case it was love at first sight, I met this man, only as a friend, the minute I laid eyes on him, I knew he would not only be a friend but someone Iwould immediately fall in love with and VV,, from the moment we met, we were so drawn to each other, and no matter how hard I tried to fight it, it didn't go away, although we are not together today, who knows what the future may bring,,,,,,,some times obstacles stand in the way and keep two people apart for the time being. and for some unknown reason, if it's meant to be, then with Gods
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Posted: 1/12/2007 6:11:13 PM | Very nice Thread Wicked...
I truly cannot believe there will come to us a greater moment than that time
that two souls come together as one. It is without a doubt something that
we all strive to attain within this Life.....
The idea alone that this can and perhaps will happen compels us forward as
we seek that one true and kindred spirit, that we will give ourselves and be
accepted as purely as just ourselves. When time stops as we do nothing but
gaze into their eyes.....
....Love at first sight?....no, love at first touch perhaps is a better way to say it.
I believe we may connect with many upon a spiritual level within this life, it
will truly be a blessing when we do. These are the people that will remain with
us a lifetime, be it whatever capacity.
As I said, it truly is the greatest gift this life can afford, all my riches for those words
that need not be said, for those moments outside of time.....when everything
becomes "True".....
Of course we still need to be able to accept many things, as "compatibility" of course
will remain key to all successful relationships. Having said that tho, if there truly is
a connection that defys any reasonable explanation, one that is not merely "infatuation"
I would never turn from that person. In todays world I believe there are many that have.
Giving themselves to the never ending question of "what if".
The touching of two Souls will be the most beautiful moment we will ever know. It will
be within the confines of this time that we are most alive, when we can close the door
perhaps forever............wouldn't that be nice?........
So many well thought and well written posts here.....very good thread......
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Posted: 1/12/2007 6:21:04 PM |
No one can really know 100% if we have a soul. We can believe or have faith in it, but it doesn't make it so.
bravo for all these soul touching ideas...and that's all I believe they are... ideas.
and why not love at first sight? It that any harder to believe? | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 6:38:07 PM |
JUST BE CAREFUL YA DON'T LET THE DEVIL HIMSELF INTO YOUR WORLD, MIND, BODY AND SOUL!
Yes, I believe I dated him briefly last year. Needless to say, we weren't a match.
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Posted: 1/12/2007 7:10:11 PM | Gawd post 54 if you were ten year older and a lot closer to here......
geeze you BC gals are lucky.
Now that one has soul..
that must touch everyones soul. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 7:13:37 PM | | Wow.......some amazing posts in this thread! Though I'm sure my words won't do it justice, I formed a soul to soul bond with a man, many yrs ago....we were connected in every way. Although I cannot accurately describe it with words, EVERYONE around us could "feel" it, as well! There was no judging, no expectations and nothing hidden.....We did not need words to understand one another....in fact, there were many times when words simply could not convey what we were feeling. We could "speak" to each other (with mutual understanding) with our eyes....and with our touch. There were many times when we were "lost" to this world, while wrapped up in each others embrace. We "touched" each other in ways that neither of us, had never been touched before......We loved each other with everything we had, everything we were and everything we hoped to be in the future. It was overwhelming at times! It was not perfect and apparently, it was not meant to be forever. Our relationship lasted 4 1/2 yrs and because the connection was so deep, the feeling of loss was almost unbearable for both of us. It took years for me to come to terms with those feelings of loss. One day, I realized that what I had gained from the experience, much outweighed what I had lost. Only then, did I feel free to cherish the wonderful memories we shared and look back with the same love and acceptance that we shared while together.......I felt a sense of peace again, I was finally free to move on with my life..... I don't know if I'll ever feel that way about, or with, anyone else......but I would not trade my experience with him for anything in this world! | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 7:42:59 PM | What about this... I have been dating someone... I open up my soul completely... He knows me better then my best friend. I feel completely comfertable with him. Completely at ease, Completely serene... .
He ends it. cause hes scared, he meets someone else, looking for a, hoping for another person who he can connect with,... could it be because hes scared because of our intense connection?
Im sorry, but i have NEVER had anyone look into my eyes like he has.. to the point where I get all choked up and actually have to pull away. Never felt a Kiss so intense it brought on tears... Never felt something that intense that I felt achey without it.
Yet he pulled away.. its only been two days since he backed off of me. Its only been two days since he ended it.. and so far, i cannot sleep cause im used to talking to him everynight before bed.
I tried to go on a date (i found out about a week ago he was leaving his options open on this btw) and so last night I had a date set up by a friend. The guy kissed me goodnight and i felt sick. I made him leave and i proceeded to cry for an hour cause i felt like i had cheated.
I cannot tell you.. this is why people do not open their soul. cause when they do, the intensity is so extreme, and you end up being destroyed inside! | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 7:46:19 PM | | No, not destroyed, stretched. to an even bigger capacity to love. Scares the sh it out of some people it does. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 7:49:18 PM | | I dunno... i dont feel stretched right now. i do not wanna be touched by anyone else.. i dont wanna even think of it... I have never had an issue being able to even have a rebound guy in the past. never had an issue with going on a date with someone else.. never felt a connection to the point where i have felt like i was cheating AFTER a breakup. it hasnt been long with this man.. and he has gotten to know me entrily. he has made an effort to get to know me entriley. and i have to say, right now i feel like im losing my best friend! | |
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| The touching of SOULS..........
Posted: 1/12/2007 8:01:27 PM |
I simply believe that we can love many in our lives and have surface connection relationships, but until you have met someone who really touches, and understands more importantly your soul, will you have found the TRUE CONNECTION in life.
I believe at that moment, you would have found your true connection as you say. I'd like to think that if it does happen, you wont know, you wont be prepared. It will just hit you, leaving you unable to articulate anything.
All those cliche' moments of weak knees and butterflies, will all summount into a overall feeling of inner peace. Everything will just feel right..if that makes sense. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 8:20:04 PM | Many will live happy lifes with someone and never connect fully with on a soul level. Its a rare thing when that happens. It don't mean someone hasn't connected 99%.
Soul connection is to me the one that would look for you on the other side. No matter who they meet in life, your the one they want, and you them.
Always wondered who would a person be with if their mate remarried after they died. I guess it depends who is their soul mate and who they really love 100%. Then again who know.
Two becomeing as one in Gods rule. I always thought two light forces turned in to one stronger brighter light force. Then again thats a hard one for people to understand, are for me to explain what I mean by it. Just thinking out loud. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 10:13:31 PM |
I always thought two light forces turned in to one stronger brighter light force.
I understand what you mean | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 10:22:06 PM | I have heard of this many times over the years, but could not relate.
I am now understanding.
Never before have I opened myself up like I have these last few months.
I made a friend, this friend has become so much more.
I want to share everything. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
Yes, even my darkest secrets come out.
I feel like I can tell her anything and not be judged or looked down on.
Never a worry about saying the wrong thing.
Never a worry about having to impress or disappoint.
We finish each others thoughts and sentences.
We talk about our hopes and dreams, our children, our past, our pains, our joys, nothing is out of bounds.
I have never had a connection like this. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 10:26:27 PM | | I think we should make every effort to teach and encourage people to be in touch with their souls and not be so superficial. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 10:34:18 PM |
Yes, I believe I dated him briefly last year. Needless to say, we weren't a match.
I WAS MARRIED TO HIM FOR 15 YEARS!!
That guy gets around. Maybe he was dating or married to us all at the same time. 
~OT~ Interesting thread. I have met soul-mates (although I think that term is over-used) thoughtout my life, they were not necessarily romantic relationships, nor were they all males. But, there have been those that have not only touched my soul, but remain with me constantly, even if they are no longer physically in my life. I started my journey of self at a very young age, and I have always thought the only way to fulfillment was to be open to the possibility of finding love in unusual places/people and to love deeply if/when the opportunity presented itself.
After many years of being single and not dating, I hadn't given much thought to my life with a soul-mate of a romantic nature. And then fate/karma/etc., stepped in and returned a soul-mate to me. There has always been a bond like no other and it certainly did not limit itself over time. It's one of those things that unless you have had it, you don't understand it, and my not even believe it can exist. But if you do believe, those people provide a love/respect that simply is undeniable. Once you have been touched by that, nothing else compares. ~ For me, once someone is in my mind/heart/soul, it's where they stay. JMO  | |
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Posted: 1/12/2007 10:47:01 PM | | I like this topic but do not have the time for a meaningful response. I will return and make one soon though. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2007 8:13:23 AM | Some truly wonderful posts to this thread that I believe verify that this "soul to soul connection" in fact does exist and can be found, for those that truly search, believe, and are ready for this ultimate connnection.........may we all find this at least once is my hope.
I truly cannot believe there will come to us a greater moment than that time
that two souls come together as one. It is without a doubt something that
we all strive to attain within this Life.....
I agree, there could be no more greater moment than finding the one that matches your soul like no other possibly can. As I said I feel that I am on the brink of this, it overwhelms me yet excites me, it is a free flowing non judgemental kind of union that one could not pull away from even if they tried. Simply you do not even have any inkling of wanting to lose this precious gift you have found.
Having said that tho, if there truly is
a connection that defys any reasonable explanation, one that is not merely "infatuation"
I would never turn from that person. In todays world I believe there are many that have.
Giving themselves to the never ending question of "what if".
I must reiterate in saying that I don't believe it is humanly possible to pull or turn away from this connection for these energies within its magic are electrifying and the magnetic pull between the two souls keeps them drawing closer and closer for they are two positives that are destined to connect.
There was no judging, no expectations and nothing hidden.....We did not need words to understand one another....in fact, there were many times when words simply could not convey what we were feeling. We could "speak" to each other (with mutual understanding) with our eyes....and with our touch. There were many times when we were "lost" to this world, while wrapped up in each others embrace. We "touched" each other in ways that neither of us, had never been touched before......We loved each other with everything we had, everything we were and everything we hoped to be in the future. It was overwhelming at times!
This above post to me clearly defines the happenings that go on during a soul to soul connection and you have done an amazing job describing it in detail. When one finds themselves experiences this type of interaction with another, you can most assuredly believe that you are having the soul/spirit connection.
Thank you for that post.
......but I would not trade my experience with him for anything in this world!
No this experience will last you for a lifetime, whether this spirit is within your world or not.
He ends it. cause hes scared, he meets someone else, looking for a, hoping for another person who he can connect with,... could it be because hes scared because of our intense connection?
Your own words unfortunately answer your question, the magnitude of this connection scared him and it is obvious that his soul was not ready to unite.
I am almost sure that this soul will have regrets as he looks back and knows that he may have lost the opportunity to connect, sometimes this may happen but the possibility I believe is still there, patience is needed if it will come to fruition.
I want to share everything. The good, the bad, and the ugly.
Yes, even my darkest secrets come out.
I feel like I can tell her anything and not be judged or looked down on.
Never a worry about saying the wrong thing.
Never a worry about having to impress or disappoint.
We finish each others thoughts and sentences.
We talk about our hopes and dreams, our children, our past, our pains, our joys, nothing is out of bounds.
I have never had a connection like this.
Well said and my feelings exactly...............I have never had a connection like this either, but I am simply enjoying the exhilaration and depth of feelings that are going along with it, and thrive on finding/connection on more deeper levels. Hugs.
It's one of those things that unless you have had it, you don't understand it, and my not even believe it can exist. But if you do believe, those people provide a love/respect that simply is undeniable.
BRAVO!!! Yes, I don't think that someone who has not gone through this could ever ever understand the intensity of it, simply no words can describe it to another.
It is more about feelings than anything else in my opinion, would you agree with that thought ????????????????????????????? | |
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Posted: 1/13/2007 8:49:38 AM | | Wicked, I've experianced this "connection" once in my 43 years. Sadly, it wasn't a doable long term relationship. We were together for 9 years, though. The biggest (only) problem was an unresolved issue of her's, about something that happened to her about 3 months before we met. She was raped by someone who broke into her apartment while she was sleeping. The guy was never caught and she never dealt with it. She always thought that she was okay, and that everyone else had the problem(me). There is obviously much more to say about this relationship, but for this thread, I'll just say that, yes, I totally agree with you and many of the other posters, in that this type of connection exists and once you experiance it, no normal relationship can really satisfy. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2007 11:25:32 AM | if you are lucky once in your life someone may come along at a time when you are in dire need of emotional support and the knowledge grows as you get to know this person that your life is going to change! you share the same thoughts the same feelings, the honesty when you touch is overwhelming. you are whole again and will never look back. cicumstaces may prevent you from living with this person or even allowing the candle to burn out-, which it will ! [feelings as deep as that could not survive[ but you know each will remember as long as you live. somtimes as in this case it is born of gratitude for receiving such deep care.A meeting of souls can happen, so If it can happen once anything is possible i suppose.
People looking for this in a relationship must be able to give of themselves to receive. so all that is said about being open in these replies is a requisite. Find someone you can trust | |
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Posted: 1/13/2007 11:47:32 AM | | To dannyr069. I agree that no other relationship can compare but once your eyes are opened yu look and judge others knowing now more of the characteristics that will make a future relationship work. Learning hurts! | |
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Posted: 1/14/2007 1:42:40 AM | It's simple really. When you first meet, your eyes will touch, if you feel love then you will talk. Simple things can tell you so much. The electricity you feel from a touch. Will let you know that; this is the one, I've been seeking, we shall never have an argument without understanding, each others feelings. Because we are the one we have been looking for. For so long.
Even tho' there is miles between us. I can still feel the love we share, and I want to be with you and only you.
Now that I have met you. Can you believe the emptiness I feel without you. I have come to understand that my life is incomplete without you.
Never believed in the 'soulmate' thang' Until I met you darlin' All of a sudden I realize that my world was empty without you. You changed me baby! You changed me honey.
(musical interlude) Hey! I'm a musician, whaddaya expect.
With ya love everday! My heart grows with love for you everyway, and I hope that you feel the same. (Repeat phrase)
Without you darling, I am less than whole. But since you came into my life. I'm a better man. We are one.
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Posted: 1/14/2007 2:19:58 AM | Once upon a time behind a veil not so far away I espied the dips and glides of a faiery tale romance. I romped and skipped with nary a slip, chasing the butterfly-lies away. Then the abyss yawned deep and I scittered and scrawled in fright and slipped 'betwixt the mix of all the smiles and cunning wiles till soon enough not was left but broken laughs and shamans wraiths.
Out of the dark I sensed a thing, then another and then more. I cowered and glowered and willed myself back to the land of dreams and schemes and little plushy toy beams. But unlucky I was not and visited then I was under shredded moon beams by horses four who told of lore ancient and hakim. We travelled far and they eased my mind and let flow the trolls of fear and shame and hatred supreme.
Alight 'pon dew to view askance a world never the same. A world where souls flow about and jump like trouts but rarely on concrete seen. There they shuffle-dance, slips and slippers shifting sands by bands long asleep, and like billiards orbit 'bout wells till wearly they spin and spin about but one. Outside the myriad flows and flows and slows until obscene. Mother cries yet still plies the weaves and threads about the dead till a tapestry appears. It's enough to mount and hang while outside rang another link by smithy wed.
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