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 SimplyPeachy

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 176
The touching of SOULS..........
Posted: 1/20/2007 1:11:06 PM
mr. m:

youve already encased yourself in a box when you consider the only pairing of souls between the one person you want to commit to.....

personally, i think once you are truly in touch with your own self and understand (and sometimes acknowledge you might never understand) your soul and how it responds to life's events....you will see things in others. SOOOO many others. so many people. and somewhere along the line i've come to accept i have a family of soulmates. who all have depths to them more valuable than the air we breathe.

i love my soulmates. every last one of them with all i have. i am fortunate.

 thatsmeamom

Joined: 1/6/2007
Msg: 177
The touching of SOULS..........
Posted: 1/20/2007 2:00:17 PM
Without getting to philosophical here, I know I've been touched in my soul...Each time I 1st felt my children move inside me before birth I was moved to my core. When I held them in my arms for the 1st time, my soul smiled...The 1st time I really and truly fell in love my soul felt loves truth. The true and loyal friends I've made through life's journey have impacted my soul...Certain family members undying love are still in my soul never to die...Hope, faith in what the real meaning in life is about, compassion torwards others, and my desire to feel that special intimate love again, has evolved my soul to a place I never thought I'd be able to reach in life. Love, in my opinion, is the only way to get this connection the OP is talking about here...
 Ssinjin

Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 178
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Posted: 1/22/2007 10:01:35 PM
I have grown up witnessing these things and know that this connection exists.
My parents have a soulful connection. They knew they would be together the moment they met and seem to have always been together. My grandparents on my father's side were the same way. I asked them what it was like and they told me I will just know when it happens to me. I have concluded from this that I have to find out who I am before I can recognize the heart that knows my own.

Even now I look upon my children when they are sleeping or when they are not aware of my gaze and I fondly remember parts of their distinctly different personalities even from the way they moved within me before they were born. This connection has been vitally important for me to help them grow and learn. I know them almost completely. I can almost tell exactly what they are thinking and know each by their distinct behavior. It also helps me to discern a problem before it takes hold on them. That to me is also a kind of soulful connection.

As for me, I have been touched deeply by people's hearts and minds, expressed by their words and actions but I have never been blessed with such an explosive experience. I have come to the conclusion that I may not ever. Perhaps I will always grieve the loss of that completion I have never had. One thing is for sure, I do know what it is. I believe. I always have, even as a child growing into adulthood. I feel it and I just know it is real.

There is a scene in the movie Bicentennial Man where Andrew Martin (Robin Williams) describes with humble intensity what this soulful union is like, this "ultimate connection with another in life" as Wicked and Wise has stated. I knew right then when I beheld it fashioned into words, I just knew that it had to be real because the description matched exactly what I feel. Someone had to have experienced it to be able to put it into such beautiful words.

I wholeheartedly agree.

~Ssinjin~
 CityGirl66

Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 179
The touching of SOULS..........
Posted: 3/8/2007 9:37:18 AM
I had an experience years ago. He lives in another country yet we managed to find each other online. We met in 1998 and he is one of my most trusted friends to this day.

When I look back on how we stumbled upon each other I have to believe that destiny played a role in the discovery.

We have both moved on and have shared in each others joys and heartaches. I no longer see him in a romantic light, yet our bond is so strong that he claims to be able to sense if I'm in distress.

If you find a soulmate - consider yourself blessed.
 ~Lost Angel~

Joined: 1/15/2007
Msg: 180
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Posted: 3/13/2007 9:39:04 PM
OP: I hope you remember this (*smiling*) . . . I believe it relates to this post . . .


I saw you
You saw me . . .
Then you touched me
And never again have I been the same
Indeed a lifetime effect!

We walked the beach
Sat on the sand
Talked under the stars
We joked
We teased
While all the time bonding in our souls'

We shared our pain
We shared our tears
And dreams to come
We laughed
Sealed it with a kiss
We embraced in such a bliss

Pure and honest was our crossings
A touch that was everlasting
A lifetime effect!!!

You held me ~ in my darkest moments
You encouraged me ~ when I saw no hope
You saw potential ~ when there was nothing to offer
I stand STRONG on my own now without you my love . . .

Your brief embrace
A lifetime effect!!

For YOU have set the standards to bond
And I live now only for that day to dawn
For to give up hope . . . is to deny what we had
Although short as it was . . . . A lifetime effect!!!

I miss you sooooo
For to connect is very rare indeed
You called me your Angel . . . .
But you were my Angel when I was in need!!!!

Your Angel . . . . always I wish I could be!






~Best of Wishes . . . . ~
 Feral

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 181
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Posted: 3/13/2007 9:40:42 PM
Every day, every interaction, every opportunity, Feral shares his soul with the world. It is the way of things. I find someone that resonates on that level, though... Now, that's the ticket!
 Wicked Wabbit

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 182
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Posted: 3/13/2007 10:40:28 PM
I wrote this thread two months ago before I had even met my now partner, we were only corresponding through computer and telephone, yet we felt a connection that we simply had not found with another so far in our lives.

In February we met and it was more than either of us could have ever dreamed of truly. For this special connection on all levels including our souls was most definitely evident.

I sit in his home now which is 1400 miles away from my home town, and again we are blown away at how we walk the same path. Every part of us is joined and it continously amazes me how another can match me so well. Know my thoughts without speaking them, and in such a short time is even more amazing. We do have differences , yet there is such an understanding of minds and hearts that we simply just KNOW how to work things out.

This truly is an experiences that is far different than ordinary love, and as much as I try to describe it's intensity or meaning, I feel that I may fall short.

I don't believe that I could match another this way ever again..........for in a nutshell he is my twin flame or my soul to soul connection. I feel blessed more than I can express in words.
 Algy

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 183
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Posted: 3/14/2007 11:17:46 AM
Best of luck Wicked. This is one theory I wouldn't mind being wrong about!
 Wicked Wabbit

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 184
The touching of SOULS..........
Posted: 3/14/2007 11:56:38 AM
I truly thank you for stopping by to send us well wishes, I know from your others posts on this thread that although you wish to believe , you have not as of yet become a believer in this soul to soul connection. So your words truly mean alot to myself.

There are some obstacles against us but it seems with something as rare as this find is, that we will be able to tackle anything......TOGETHER. For to be apart at this point, seems a slow agonizing death really (not to sound dramatic lol) and we will face each one as it comes upon us.


Again I thank you, and my wish is that possibly in your near future that this shall come at you full force and take your breath away. Please come back and share with us , when it does ok?! Cheers..
 welderwantedthis

Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 185
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Posted: 3/14/2007 1:33:36 PM
Ahhh...Wicked...simply put...I agree. I don't believe I could have said that any better myself.

It is truly wonderful when you connect with someone on the very deepest levels imaginable. Almost like they complete the void in your life...I've been married, and yes divorced, to a man that barely even knew me. Of course at the time we thought we knew everything about each other. On the surface we did, but deep down we didn't knew each others hearts and souls.

Welder and I...wow, sometimes it is unbelievable...actually it is like that all the time. From the very first time we talked we knew this was something different. Something special.

I have loved a few different men in my life. Even though most of the relationships ended poorly, they all taught me something about life and about love. Welder is different...he simply amazes me every day. He understands me. Most of the time our communication is unspoken...WE JUST KNOW.

I hope everyone eventually finds that spot, because it is immaculate...

~Welder's Girl~
 Wicked Wabbit

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 186
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Posted: 3/14/2007 2:18:20 PM

Most of the time our communication is unspoken...WE JUST KNOW.



Again simply put........Welder's girl............that is it in a nutshell, now tell me that common ordinary love has this unique quality?

The uncanny ability to simply read or just know what it is that this person is thinking, wanting, desiring, etc. It is truly mind blowing to me, for I was with a man for 18 years who absolutely never understood me whatsoever.

This is an experience I would not trade for anything in the world, so glad Welder's girl that you have found that path and your soul connection.
 This is Now

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 187
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Posted: 3/14/2007 4:38:20 PM
I'm hoping it's true. I believed it was all my life but am currently working on changing the things that I don't like about myself inside that would wind up tainting any relationship I got into right now.

I'm doing it for me but I also hope that in so doing I will begin to attract the real live version of soul whose presence I have felt from the very beginning.
 Jules-4u

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 188
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Posted: 3/14/2007 7:17:19 PM
AWWWWWWW,,,T., you are the master of soul in words!!!!
Luv ya ,,,,like a SQUIRRRRRRELLLY GIRRRRRRRRLLLEEEEEEEE!!!!!

So many times you say the same words, I just meant to say, or you already said em!
This is the way, life ought to be,,,peeeps,,,seekin peeps,,,who are like they.....
I knew from the first, we were so alike,,,,
and I know you and Hunter are much more,,,in time!
Simply time, gives us reason, to know peeps, and understand em,,,,
life is hard enough it seems, but with this prophetic thing,
it is so much easier, to feel ya,,,and to know ya.....
This it seems takes up some time,,,
but really would you trade it?
People live thru oh so much, and when we sit and think about,
all we have been through, all we have done,,,,
Heaven finally brings us back home,,,,
to people who both listen, then, tell their story,,,often the same!
We are the ones that feel the wind, calling for a deep lost friend~!
May we always find the ones,
the ones who say, I am not above,
I have been there, through that too,
I can reach out,,,give to you!
life is hard and never tainted,
but with this love,
never jaded,
accept the hand in friendship,
now,,,give it more, and you will bow,
that people are not all bad,
not all are looking for the sad!
Give it hope,
let it grow,
This in my life,
now does show!
Friends are priceless,
life is more,
Give them,
hope,
let them open your door!
 *cee~cee*

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 189
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Posted: 3/14/2007 7:42:24 PM
It's a bond that is beyond words. It's so incredible that it's frustrating because there is no way to express it, it's just a knowledge you share together. When you look at each other there's a recognition beyond description. Even though you've only known each for a part of your lives, it seems like you've always known each other and somehow it gives you a small comprehension of the infinite.

My questions are: Can this happen with more than one person? And if the answer to that is 'no' and we think we've already met that person but due to circumstances beyond our control a parting of ways occured, then what? Is it better to have known that and lost it or is ignorance really bliss?

Sometimes I do think ignorance is bliss, but for the majority of the time, I'm grateful I had it to experience. I now know it's possible and through it really understood what I wanted in a relationship. I'm ever optimistic that there's more than one person that we could connect with on that level in this world. It's a big place after all... which is why I am open to a long distance relationship if it meant being able to have that again.
 Jules-4u

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 190
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Posted: 3/14/2007 7:55:14 PM
Depechegurl, let me just say this, I had a conversation today, with a good , good friend, the words, made us both cry, and meaning had no end! sometimes people just know, and feel you through and through, sometimes you feel them,,,then u know is true,,,,that souls reach out from far away,,,minds can meet in mysterious ways,,,but have the faith and believe,,and this will happen, you will see, never be lazy, for a friend, be there for them to the end, and life will show their way to your heart! I know, and I have known from the start. It is not just with men you see, but it can happen, let it be,,,,rarely men are of the kind,,,,but often rare,,,they are a find! I would just suggest to you,,,,let your heart be open to, the love that people can send your way,,,and dwell on it for more than a day!
 welderwantedthis

Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 191
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Posted: 3/15/2007 7:23:13 AM
Wicked...'ordinary' love could never come close to the soul connections we are speaking of. They are in totally different leagues. I loved my ex-husband on the surface...we shared common interests, we had fun together, we talked to each other, etc. but I always felt like something in me was still missing. And it was. He didn't understand me and I didn't understand him. Sometimes it was like looking at a stranger because we just did not connect.

Welder on the other hand...things just fit. Don't get me wrong, we have our issues that come up that we have to work through, just like everyone else...but it is wonderful to be with someone that truly understands me and completes me.

Depechegurl: Yes, I think you can connect with more than one person on this level. I have a friend, Ken, that I met about 10 years ago. Funny...but we met online. We were just kids at the time...I was 14 and he was 15. He lives out in Vegas and I live in NC. We did e-mails and phone calls until I was 18 and I flew out to finally meet him. Physically/Sexually there was no attraction for either of us. But I love him for his mind. There was a time where we didn't speak for about a year and I had had this terrible day and up and out of the blue he calls and says 'Court, everything will be okay...just take it one day at a time and roll with the punches'. I started to tell him what was going on and he told me he already knew that I didn't need to tell him anything. It's always been like that with him and I. He holds a very special place to me in my heart because he is the first person I really, truly, unselfishly loved. He is one of my best friends and my confidant. Welder is my complete package though...I love him for his mind, his heart, his soul, his body, everything.......he is my soul mate. My destiny, if you will....everyone has their other half that fits them perfectly, but there are others in this world that we can share the deepest connections with without having to 'be' with them.

~Welder's Girl~
 crysania777

Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 192
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Posted: 3/20/2007 6:27:51 PM
incredible post...
kindred spirits appear when you least expect them...the depth, the intensity, the overwhelming emotion...it's truly a beautiful experience...
find yourself, know yourself, look within, love who you are...
open up and feel...you will know...there is no question...there is no fear...the connection, the bond will already be there...
kindred spirits, connected souls...wonderful
 lfrl

Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 193
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Posted: 3/20/2007 6:57:46 PM
I have had that but now it's gone but I am gonna try again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 vstarcruiser

Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 194
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Posted: 3/20/2007 8:51:19 PM
Never been closer to a woman than when we are both holding each other, body scent mingling, moving with each other as the music washes over and around. It's called dancing, and two souls come together as eyes meet and whispered words are passed and caresses are exchanged.
 Jules-4u

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 195
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Posted: 4/10/2007 9:11:31 PM
Hi All, esp....my good friend T.

Is a feeling like when you both
try to say goodbye
on the phone
you often both sigh
like you often
both hesitate
searching for
words within the
night
afraid to speak them
too quickly
but the hesitance
in voice
makes a statement
like you almost
wanted to
say
"Love you"
words we all have spoken
before
but the feeling
we have not had
for a long time
that hesitance
to hang up
sounding like
it's gonna rain....
waitin; for the other
to say the last word
both afraid to say it
too soon in the story
but is a feelin'
you all know what
I am sayin'

 onesimpleneed

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 196
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Posted: 4/10/2007 9:18:51 PM
Like my profile says, I love my Amigo Para Siempres. Touch a soul the right way? They'll come back even after their physical body is long gone. I am an engineer and a hard science type of guy but there have been things I have seen, things that happened to other people, things that I connected on deep deep levels with people, nope...without a doubt, if you can at the end of your life, on one hand count your Amigos Para Siempres and not have any fingers left over? You have lived a full life. If you need more than one hand, you're fooling yourself and haven't learned a damn thing...

Cheers.
 spirit_brat

Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 197
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Posted: 4/10/2007 9:26:18 PM
I think the most unfortunate thing about this, is if some of us never do have a "touching or meeting of the souls" as I think that its the ideal of all of us that hope to one day find our "one" To those of you who truly feel you have, treasure it, because you are most fortunate to of experienced it.
 Jules-4u

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 198
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Posted: 4/10/2007 9:31:21 PM
Ones.....that is so verry very true!
Indeed in life.........
we often lend
to ones that often
do not send
good things
our own way
but many do
and may I say to you
May life send more your way!
As I live my life,
now I know
that life indeed
sends many my way
to appreciate
them
is a love
to appreciate
is not just
See that all whom give you pleasure
you give back
all you can measure
they are the ones
that in time
will show
be there
for you
when the
old dust does blow!
 onesimpleneed

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 199
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Posted: 4/11/2007 7:27:48 AM
^^^

Take the lyrics, add the awesome vocal talent of Sarah and Jose and the musical talent of Andrew Llyod Weber...A totall awesome song...

Amigos Para Siempres

Sarah
I don't have to say
A word to you
You seem to know
Whatever mood
I'm going through
Feels as though
I've known you forever

José
You
Can look into my eyes and see
The way I feel
And how
The world is treating me
Maybe I have known you forever

both
Amigos para siempre
Means you'll always be my friend
Amics per sempre
Means a love that cannot end
Friends for life
Not just a summer or a spring
Amigos para siempre

I feel you near me
Even when we are apart
Just knowing you are in this world
Can warm my heart
Friends for life
Not just a summer or a spring
Amigos para siempre


Sarah
We share memories
I won't forget
And we'll share more,
My friend,
We haven't started yet
Something happens
When we're together

José
When
I look at you
I wonder why
There has to come
A time when we must say goodbye
I'm alive when we are together

both
Amigos para siempre
Means you'll always be my friend
Amics per sempre
Means a love that cannot end
Friends for life
Not just a summer or a spring
Amigos para siempre

I feel you near me
Even when we are apart
Just knowing you are in this world
Can warm my heart
Friends for life
Not just a summer or a spring
Amigos para siempre


Cheers!
 Wicked Wabbit

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 200
The touching of SOULS..........
Posted: 4/11/2007 7:54:00 AM
Onesimpleneed.................that was absolutely beautiful, and I truly thank you for sharing it on my thread....

It's words depict a soul connection that time or distance cannot alter or change, and a knowing or understanding of each other that is a rare find in this world. When it is found it is simply earth shattering yet so comforting at the same time.

I was just speaking to a long time friend of mine about this relationship that I find myself in and my words to her were this:

"I have never in my life been so totally understood, have not felt such a calming, peaceful balance in my life, and it is almost as if he nurtures my soul."

I can only pray that more people will find this in life ...........truly a blessing.
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