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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/11/2007 11:49:41 PM | MSG # 17 mentioned DNA...sorry pal but unless you have the actual condom, placed in a security sealed bad...it won't be allowed in court. All evidence MUST be kept pristine to be entered in a court of law. Wait a minute, I guess if your in Iraq you could get away with it. Seriously though, the chances of her getting pregnant are slim to none....perhaps she should seek mental health treatment?  | |
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jo~
| | Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 56 | |
| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 2:45:58 AM | OP........Sorry to hear this happened to you BUT........
Hopefully she will not become pregnant......Odds are in your favour!!!!........Relax .....since nothing is concrete at the moment!!!!!
SHE obviously has major issues going on mentally.........Never heard of such a thing!!!
How long have you known her????......If she was just a booty call as you claim then............Time to rethink WHO you lay down with next time you feel the urge to
Those are the chances you take I am sorry to say!!!!!! | |
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 5:33:58 AM | I hope she isn't pregnant.
You have anger, maturity and respect issues to deal with and she needs some therapy for her mental health issues and obvious insecurities.
As for calling a child a **stard. I find that extremely immature to say about something that is innocent. Get some help...or maybe get a snip. I am thinking you wouldn't make a good father anyway.
You're asking for advice, but the deed is done. Be a man. Deal with it. | |
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 5:51:56 AM | oh s**t...........
omgggggggggg when i read the title of this thread i was wtf!
ok the things people do theses days never fail to shock me,but i am not going to lie
this did!
i think you know the answer to this,finish it and dont go there again..........
And No I don't want to be a father to her **stard kid and I won't pay her anything
but i have to say this comment you made is f***ed up,some growing up is in order on your part im thinking : /
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 7:03:04 AM | Oh my God - this is messed up -
Fist of all - your using her - she is turning on you
You use her again - you get what you deserve.
Can we justify her behavior - NOPE - She is a head case -
Can you justify your own? - If your gonna have these kinds of
relationships with women you need to establish some rules - or make
sure every women you have sex with cant get pregnant. LOL!!!
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 7:17:59 AM | Hon if you are looking for a booty call I would advise you to find yourself a woman that can't have anymore children or one that medically can't or never wants kids. Feel these things out before you play hon. You have to play it safe....in all directions. I love the fact that I can't have anymore...a lot less worry in my life but I made that decision years ago and medically am not able to have any. Mind you I have two beautiful girls and that is all I wanted.
Good luck with the legal end of that....I wish the best for you.....i really do | |
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 7:38:00 AM | Honestly OP.....I doubt given the time frame (a minute or two) that this woman would even do such a thing with you still hangin around. Usually you would expect a person to do this in private BEHIND LOCKED DOORS. I don't think this happened the way you say it did, it's too far fetched, and far too personal to undertake in a minute or two.
Even IF (and that's a big IF) it did happen, and you discover you are in fact going to be a daddy, then you'll need to grow up pretty fast. Like it or not, you WILL have responsibilities, and calling your unborn child a bast**d is NOT ON. It's YOUR sperm, you have to deal with it. | |
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Rhett1
| | Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 65 | |
| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 7:48:43 AM | I was on your side until the "**stard" comment...it's not the potential kid's fault that you were just wanting to get laid and your **** buddy is desperate.
I would HOPE you would have legal grounds here...but what can you do? What she did is ridiculous...hoping to trap you...gosh, that usually works, I'm sure. | |
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Femm14
| | Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 66 | |
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Synn
| | Joined: 8/18/2004
Msg: 67 | |
| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 8:10:23 AM | I agree Flush it ......Also Im pretty sure most condoms have a Spermicide in them ....in any case hope that may help
Plus you should be happy she did it that way she could have put your left over in a Turkey Bastor (wrong Spelling i think ) And put it up inside her to better the odds ....hehehehe maybe she was ovulating and keeping track......Tell your wife Your having a SON ....Kidding | |
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 9:08:24 AM | You did the right thing by leaving! NOW, don't go back! No matter how horney you get!
If she does get pregnant from doing that, which isn't too likely, you WILL be responsible.
No matter HOW it happened, the child will be half YOU, so you shouldn't be calling the child names or not wanting to help take care of the child.
Even when using condoms properly, they are not 100% effective and accidents can always happen. Any time you have sex, you are taking a chance, so be prepared to step up to the plate.
Ideally, it isn't a good idea to have sex with ANYONE that you can't potentially see parenting a child with, that is, if they are capable of reproduction.
And, it's not a good idea to keep on using somebody for a booty call when they have made it clear that they want more. | |
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 9:09:10 AM | hate to say it, but...if she's prego, you've got to pay. contrary to popular belief, it is NOT considered entrapment! when you sign on to sleep with a woman...casual, or not...you risk being financially responsible for a little tyke that may or may not 'happen'. even though you attempted to be "respnsible", clearly you don't know her well enough to know what desperate measures she's capable of...perhaps you should talk AND listen to your booty calls before screwing them (generally, there's some foreshadowing to this kind of creepy behavior).
from a female perspective, though...sticking a used condom up there is just GROSS, not to mention dangerous. did she lie on her back with her feet up in the air afterwards, hoping that they'd swim? the odds are in your favor that she isn't pregnant, but maybe you should screen your booty calls a bit better next time. | |
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| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 9:51:46 AM |
Next time you dispose of a used condom, put a little tobasco sauce in it. That will kill the little swimmers and no girl would want that in her! LOL
Just trying to remember the last time I was in bed with a woman and having a good time and suddenly remembering that I forgot to put the tobasco on the nightstand.Seems to slip my memory. | |
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RJB888
| | Joined: 11/23/2005
Msg: 73 | |
| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 10:29:32 AM | OP:
The chance of her getting pregnant are slim, but there is a chance.
I question why you would continue to have sex with someone who clearly wanted more than you did. That shows clearly your a user, and what she did shows she's crazy.
Advise...if she is pregnant wait for DNA to prove it's your child. If it is... your a DADDY. Then you need to take some classes in how to be a good daddy, to provid the child with the best of care, and to love. I know that you are not ready to be a father but if you are, the best thing you can ever do in your life is be a GREAT father. I'm sure you have some deceintcy (sp) in you, use that to give to your child and yourself. When you know for sure it is your child you'll never regret it once you look into the childs eyes and touch the tiny fingers and toes. Your life will change, you'll want the world to be a better place, and you'll without even thinking twice do everything you can to make that happen. You'll realize that pure love and innocence has been placed in your life. I'll say again....PURE LOVE AND INNOCENCE.
My first child, a son now 27 years old was an unplanned pregnancy, as alot of us have had. Yes I was married neither of us were ready, and we were scared that we wouldn't be good parents. Our son was born, amazing!! Just let me say... you think you can't love someone anymore than you do, spouse, family, friends, then BAM a child, the love than over comes you is unbelievable, the deepest love you've ever known. Your life changes, for the better, you feel and want to be a better person.
I'm a grandmother now, I have a grandson. My 27 year old is a father now. When my grandson was born, besides my daughter in law I was the first to hold him. OMG it was something I can't even describe, the love. I looked at my first born, looked at my first grandchild the tears poured. I seen the look on my sons face, he was scared. I asked him if he held his son, he said no he was scared because he was so small. I walked over to my son and said....this is the first time you will hold pure love and innocence, never touched by the evils of the world, your son needs you to hold him. I placed the baby in my sons arms. I watched my son look at him, my son sat down holding his child, started touching he's tiny hands, touching his soft hair, the soft skin of his face, touched his nose and mouth, then my son placed little kisses all over his child. I could see my son had fallen in love all over again. That child changed my son into an even more incredible man.
Good luck to you. | |
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argfin
| | Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 75 | |
| I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her
Posted: 1/12/2007 11:50:28 AM | Firstly she is totally out of order! That is just wrong.
However, you shouldn't be using her if she is vulnerable, which she clearly is. You know she wants a relationship and yet you still use her.
This must be crushing her esteem and confidence.
Sh1tty situation. But I can't help thinking you brought some of it on yourself by messing her about.
That's your 'b*stard' that is! What a lovely chap you seem to be. | |
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