| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 6/30/2008 2:53:57 PM | | Shift the guilt to the guy right? You wanted to get in his pants as well, you just don't want to admit it. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 6/30/2008 4:05:14 PM | So was the sex at least gratifying?
No use getting bent out of shape about it, doll, after all, we're nothing but mammals, right? | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 6/30/2008 4:09:47 PM | | Have you heard from him again? If not the answer was yes. If you did hear back from him the answer is still yes and he wants to again. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 6/30/2008 4:37:56 PM |
whats up guys, so i met a guy new years eve at a bar, took him back 2 a friends house where i was staying had a some drink bla bla ended up making out in the hall way... he says 2 me , i hope this isnt just a one night stand... was the ****er just tryin 2 get in my pants? orrrrrrrrrrr what? btw he did.. my mistake?
take it from a young guy to say "what mistake". LOL; unreal.
Oh no, he was so in love with you that you guys are going to live happily ever after. LOL; wow. he was so worried about not having a one night stand that he slept with you. Sounds magical.
Unless you learn to control your actions when you drink, get ready for a long bumpy ride. Good luck. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 6/30/2008 6:04:32 PM |
he says 2 me , i hope this isnt just a one night stand
I bet you also end up sleeping with men after they say "I love you."
lol We are trying to warn you ladies about getting played but some of you are easy marks. I don't mean to be rude but its true. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/1/2008 7:42:46 AM | | yep, a very old line, really surprised guys still use this...if a guy wants nothing but to get in your pants on the first meeting, you can beet you will be saying why the hell did i do that the next day.. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/1/2008 10:51:59 AM | it seems like a lot of people are telling her she made the decision too, so accept responsibility, and i agree with that BUT we all know in these situations that frequently the party who is least interested full well knows they're taking advantage of the other person's desire for a possible relationship. i just don't get how people can do that. i know i couldn't do it in all good conscience. that she knew what she was doing doesn't absolve him of his portion of the responsibility not to take advantage of the situation. they both made a mistake.
OP to answer your question, yes, it sounds like that's all he wanted. you'll know for sure if he's not interested in pursuing dating with you that he wanted only a piece of ***. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/1/2008 1:32:48 PM | Awwww, poor innocent woman/girl taken advantage of by an evil nasty man who had his dirty way with her..is that what I'm reading between the lines?
'we all know in these situations that frequently the party who is least interested full well knows they're taking advantage of the other person's desire for a possible relationship'.
So even in a drunken haze the guy is still at fault, he is supposed to knows all there is to know about her and all the unspoken words in her mind and heart regarding a relationship with him? Get real! She wanted to mess around as much as he did, everyone won!! Does every meeting of lips have to end in a marriage? | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/1/2008 1:37:17 PM | Guys are just like girls in some regards. We also want to know that you'll at least call us the next day so we don't feel cheap. And by letting you know that he wanted at least that much, he's also communicating his intentions to you.
Sounds like you did just fine. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/1/2008 1:45:02 PM | alcohol makes people say things that they don't mean,
such as; "i hope this isnt just a one night stand"
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/1/2008 2:56:01 PM | | first date, heavy drinking, just tske the question mark off of "my mistake " and add exclamation point, unless you had fun and don't regret it...after all, you invited him to your place at what? 3 or 4 in the morning? | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/1/2008 3:16:21 PM | | lol i'll wager you men would be whining up a storm if some girl took advantage of your wallet. i'll also wager you'd be blaming her and not taking responsibility for your own decision to give her that money. men tend to whine about gold diggers and women tend to whine about players. not much difference, really, is there? nah, it's always the responsibility of BOTH people involved. two wrongs don't make a right. just because one is irresponsible doesn't mean the other shouldn't be responsible. dang what's with you guys? lol | |
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Posted: 7/2/2008 7:20:56 PM | | ^You're right. It goes both ways, no guy should be gullible enough to let a woman usurp him for his money and think that he can win over in that manner and on that same note, a woman shouldn't get all pissed off and sad because she let some random dude have his way with her in a drunken stupor and then scratch your head wondering how come he doesn't want to call you the next day. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/3/2008 1:10:23 AM | | i'm trying to make this point: there are users in both genders. i hate users, in general (gender makes zippo difference). 2nd point: people need to stop rationalizing it's ok to use another human being just because the other person is stupid, desperate, or what have you, enough to let them. there's never an excuse for using other people. we all have to answer to our own conciences, our values, our integrity. it's really not that difficult. i'd like to have a little faith in my fellow humans........... i do believe that's possible :) | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 12:52:36 AM | The main thing is ladies:
Learn from these mistakes. Think back and look for the cues. Is everything you say totally 100% in line with what you say, after you start the topic. Little things like those will help you spot a player. The more you watch people not listen to what he says but actually watch how people do things the less you'll get played.
Learn tips from men and women on how to spot players.
We all have to be on the lookout for shallow users. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:11:09 AM | How to Spot a Player.
Lesson 1:
Have you known this person for longer than it takes to watch a baseball game? If not, have you already been together?
Odds are he's a player.
Lesson 2:
You've known this guy for less than it takes to watch a baseball game, and you're about to be together. Is he acting like he's going to pledge his love and loyalty to you, despite barely knowing you?
Odds are he's a player.
Lesson 3:
You've been together. He's been acting like he's going to pledge his love and loyalty to you. Did he get dressed and hail a cab home while you were reading this lesson?
Odds are he's a player. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 2:11:10 AM |
alcohol makes people say things that they don't mean,
such as; "i hope this isnt just a one night stand"
LOL; funny stuff yari; you just have to be smarter and more careful; some girls are easy marks when they are drunk. Be in control. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 10:04:30 AM | He was...it worked and only a mistake if you didn't enjoy it.
If you thought it was going some place beyond that night, THAT WAS your mistake...yes. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 10:19:48 AM | lol i'll wager you men would be whining up a storm if some girl took advantage of your wallet. i'll also wager you'd be blaming her and not taking responsibility for your own decision to give her that money. men tend to whine about gold diggers and women tend to whine about players. not much difference, really, is there? nah, it's always the responsibility of BOTH people involved. two wrongs don't make a right. just because one is irresponsible doesn't mean the other shouldn't be responsible. dang what's with you guys? lol
If the guy was willing to offer the money, because he WANTED to, then yes, he has no right to complain. However, if she goaded him into it, then he DOES have a right to complain, because he didn't WANT to give her the money, but he did it because he felt bad for her and wanted to help.
Since the girl WANTED to have sex, and enjoyed it, then the matter of how it happened is of no consequence. If she didn't really want to, but did it anyway because she felt bad for him, or felt trapped, then that would be a completely different story.
This is why your analogy fails.
Edit: Not to mention that most (emphasis on MOST) guys aren't stupid enough to believe that somebody asking for money a few hours after meeting them are actually trustworthy enough to loan money to. By the same logic, the OP should have been smart enough to realize that sex a few hours after meeting the guy probably doesn't make wonderful grounds for a relationship. | |
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| was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 4:18:52 PM | Since the girl WANTED to have sex, and enjoyed it, then the matter of how it happened is of no consequence. If she didn't really want to, but did it anyway because she felt bad for him, or felt trapped, then that would be a completely different story.
^^^^ah, but under what of the man's pretenses (assuming any) did she WANT to have sex? likewise, under what pretenses did the man gladly fork over the dough? let's face it, men don't put out money & women don't put out sex unless they're expecting more. we all know that, so let's be honest about it. (i will say, however, any man putting out the dough or any woman putting out the sex also bears responsibility for his/her own actions. that, however, does not make it right for the "put-ter out" to use the other "user." two wrongs never make a right!) | |
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