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 Silver Calla

Joined: 4/10/2008
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was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 5:03:05 PM
Why is it that people actually have to ask if someone was just looking for some ass?
 lucky425

Joined: 3/9/2008
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was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 8:00:41 PM
Can't believe i saying this but i've used that very same line in almost the very same situation and thats all i was wanting...New year's and alcohol...yea thats what he wanted
 Greyfeld

Joined: 1/11/2007
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Posted: 7/7/2008 8:56:43 PM

ah, but under what of the man's pretenses (assuming any) did she WANT to have sex? likewise, under what pretenses did the man gladly fork over the dough? let's face it, men don't put out money & women don't put out sex unless they're expecting more. we all know that, so let's be honest about it.


Maybe that's how YOU feel, but I promise you this statement does not hold true for everybody. If i give somebody money, the only thing I "expect" is that they actually use it for what I gave it for them for. If I want anything back for it, I'll say so up front, and will only make such deals with people I know and trust.

Some of us aren't stupid enough to give cash to people we just met 5 hours ago, then cry about it when we find out they lied to us about what it was for. Likewise, you don't screw somebody you met a few hours before, then try to make him look like a horrible person for only wanting the sex.

And as far as "what pretenses was the sex under" it doesn't matter. Knowing that there are people JUST looking for sex out there, if you get down and dirty before finding out what kind of person they are, it's just as much your fault as it is his.
 stacks42

Joined: 4/1/2008
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Posted: 7/7/2008 9:44:52 PM

whats up guys, so i met a guy new years eve at a bar


Stopped reading there. Yes he was.
 FireCaptain01

Joined: 12/14/2007
Msg: 55
was he just lookin for some ass?
Posted: 7/7/2008 10:09:15 PM
In a word: "uhhmm, uhuh!" A few clues: New Years Eve, in a bar, took him back to where you were staying, more alcohol, making out with him in the hallway. Of course his line is a doe-eyed line like that. Which you promptly fell for.

Again, in answer to your question if it was your mistake, refer to the first sentence...
 seaga

Joined: 1/4/2006
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Posted: 7/7/2008 11:08:55 PM

You call it a mistake. And you seem to be slandering this guy. You wanted it. You agreed. You know the risks. Doesn't sound like a mistake to me.[/quote}

LOL..I know right?..SMH..why do girls always say that sh*t?..It wasnt any mistake...obviously the OP wanted to f*ck teh guy and she did, and like you said she knew what she was getting into..I think people use the word "mistake" too loosely
 Zentimes

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 7/8/2008 8:12:15 PM
Ou la la .... It's NEW YEARS ~ You take him back to a "Friends Place" to get laid in the New-Year! ~ Yes bring it in with a bang ~ So Very Classy of you!

Are you really that brain dead as to be surprised by where you are at this moment?
You are and were an easy lay ~ honey... and nothing more!
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