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tj7
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Msg: 52 | |
| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 5:53:04 PM |
Yup yup. The unfortunate truth.
The unfortunate truth???? Oh does that mean that we should leave it up to someone else to make that decision???..............Kinda like...........BIG BROTHER?????
Sorry, but I will be deciding what is or isn't morally right or wrong for myself. | |
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| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 5:58:27 PM | your right tj.........................................................
we can make our own decisions...............................................................
not all will agree on what morals are right or wrong...................................................
like me for who i am or don't! | |
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| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 5:59:37 PM | Its unfortunate that everyone has a different take on ethics and morales. Because it can and has ruined many good relationships. And some dont see, or cant see the other side and just sit and think. Think about where someone is coming from or why they feel that way.
Its unfortunate that what one believes is ok to do to someone, might not be ok for others. Its unfortunate that these things tend to hurt people. I dont like to hurt people, unless I absolutely have no other choice. | |
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tj7
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Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 55 | |
| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 6:03:38 PM | No, you know what..................it may not be right or wrong............but it is their CHOICE............whether someone likes it or not, no one should be afraid to voice their opinion or feelings or thoughts on what they feel is right or wrong.
Everyone does have different takes on ethics and morals - that is why there is freedom in this country.
Whether I like what someone is doing or not, who am I to tell them what they can and cannot do.
Are we adults or children? | |
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| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 6:08:33 PM |
Are we adults or children?
Very good question......
No, you know what..................it may not be right or wrong............but it is their CHOICE............whether someone likes it or not, no one should be afraid to voice their opinion or feelings or thoughts on what they feel is right or wrong.
Everyone does have different takes on ethics and morals - that is why there is freedom in this country.
Whether I like what someone is doing or not, who am I to tell them what they can and cannot do.
No one should be afraid to voice thier own opinion. Like my opinion is to do my best to use tact. To be suttle.
Unless someone truly needs to know. Then again, who am I, right? | |
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tj7
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Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 58 | |
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| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 8:55:14 PM | Indeed, adult or child.
You mean like attacking someone whos trying to defend you and your man. Someone whos complimented you for your bravery and your very big, wide open heart.
But, when I have an opinion, especially about your ex, boy, that strikes a nerve huh? You're so angry with him that you dont think her deserves any love. Well, I tried to be kind. You know, we all make mistakes, sometimes HUGE ones. But hey, you have your opinion about that, and I have mines.
My call to Chuck tonight was an honest atempt too correct things. Oh yes, I heard over the phone how he thinks Im not man enough to defend myself. Hehe, sorry, far from the truth. But, I wanted to be civil. I wanted the relationship between the 4 of us to be one that was peaceful.
I see now that will not happen.
So brave to bring things into the open. But not to Sherry and I. Sigh....
Reap what you sow. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2007 9:00:20 PM | This is Sherry
Hey, I tried to keep it all out of the threads......ask Chuck what went wrong there? He attacked Jon's posts, calling him a 'player' and someone who fakes emotion. I asked him, one-to-one, not to bring it to the public forums, that it would look bad for all of us, so how we lookin' now?????
Sherry | |
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tj7
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Msg: 62 | |
| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 9:04:25 PM | Jon....I have never said that my ex doesn't deserve love.......until he changes himself, he won't get the love that everyone deserves. I have no problem with you attacking me - I can handle it .... and you can attack my ex - go ahead, I'd like to see that match - LOL.
And yes..........reap what you sow..........remember that phrase  | |
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Posted: 1/14/2007 9:26:21 PM |
And yes..........reap what you sow..........remember that phrase
Indeed I will.
Jon....I have never said that my ex doesn't deserve love.......until he changes himself, he won't get the love that everyone deserves. I have no problem with you attacking me - I can handle it .... and you can attack my ex - go ahead, I'd like to see that match - LOL.
Pst....Im still waiting for a time.
Again, I agree about your ex. That doesnt mean its going to happen that way and ONLY that way. He very well might be looking for something different. Something he cant live without. I only can hope and pray that maybe, just maybe, he gets a taste of what he put you through, what ever that may be.
Im not at all sure why you and Chuck bypass my post about how I really do think you 2 are wonderful people. Instead, you 2 decided too pick on any other thing that you can.
Again, I really do think that both of you are wonderful people. Ive enjoyed the times we've talked and had a few laughs. And I do sincerely, from the bottom of my heart, wish you 2 the very best.
With that said, I'll take your last comment about remembering that phrase as a threat to Sherry, my children and I, and will take the appropriate measures.
Again, anytime, anyplace. Just let me know (since Ive asked a few times now and you guys dont seem to want to set this up) and I will be there, ready, willing and able to do what needs to be done. Just let me know.
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Posted: 1/14/2007 9:33:47 PM | Oh, real subtle, Chuck....always good with words, never back it up with actions....
You use your words to start a whole mess of crap right here in public, then, hey! make a joke, no one will realize that you were the one being an a$$hole all along.
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tj7
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Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 66 | |
| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 9:37:33 PM | A threat............give me a break......there was absolutely no threat there.....time to grow up..........this is rediculous and childish and stupid. A threat??? Now that makes me laugh - thank you.
If you think we are so wonderful, then this pi$$ing match should have never started. The forums are to be kept light and fun - with sometimes jabbing humor - but instead it has turned ugly. I'm sure that ALL are having a grand time reading these and waiting for the fists to fly.
I'll get my popcorn and beer and sit in the front row..............anyone want to join me???
All I was saying was that this should NEVER have been started on a public forum.....kept in private is the mature way to go, not on the forums. But hey, if you want all to know your business, then continue on.............
You just threatened me, by saying that I threatened you....but you know what, like I said earlier, this is stupid and rediculous and needs to stop......... | |
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tj7
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Joined: 11/7/2005
Msg: 68 | |
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kasie
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Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 69 | |
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| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/14/2007 10:02:28 PM | Guess we havent.
But you are right, Tracy.
Im done.
Id much rather concentrate on protecting my house, and all whos in it. Even if that means going to my safety deposit box and grabbing the tools required to protect this house.
Ahh, I am feeling better now! Thanks Tracy. Everything is unfolding as I predicted.
Anyways, I appologize to ya. I never meant to get into words with you. From this day foward, I will avoid it at all cost.
Im here for the friends Ive met. Those who wanted me back on the forums.
So I appologize to them as well. Its my nature to take this kind of flame too a private "room". But, I cant control what others do. Sherry has taught me that.
Again, I appologize to my friends. I know you guys expect more of me, and I will try to keep that trust from you intact.
Amy, I appologize to you as well. I wont go into detail, but I wanted that to be public. You deserve at least that.
Nite everyone! I have a family here that I want to watch sleeping. Children are so cute when they are asleep! | |
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| Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/15/2007 11:35:11 AM | I don't know if this would be called a fetish or what exactly...
But I have seen where people are excited and enamored with someone until they catch them... then once the person has their love and commitment the other person just isn't interested anymore. Life becomes boring and dull because they don't have to win something from the other person.
I have even heard of people creating issues/drama so that they push the person away just to win them back. To generate the excitement factor again.
To me this would be a type of fetish, to obtain this need to win them over and over again seeing how far they can push you away before you walk..... | |
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Posted: 1/15/2007 12:34:16 PM | It might not be a fetish it might be someone who has always, for some reason or another, felt unloveable and when they push that person away it is to "test" just how strong thier love is in how hard they fight to keep that person in thier lives. sometimes the fight just isnt worth it and the person being pushed aside finally decides to say the heck with it and walks away leaving that person to again go in search of someone to prove to them that they are loveable.
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Posted: 1/15/2007 1:02:14 PM | It is much easier to fall in love than it is to maintain it or to make it grow. Thats why people will be with someone for a short time- month or so- then break up.
Once again it comes back to the work wthic and the committment level. But all of this chatter is off thread. Back to thread, its just an accepted way to cheat to bring others in by "games" instead of just either making it all work or getting a divorce. | |
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