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 tbnamyjones

Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 76
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 1/15/2007 6:42:53 PM
This thread reminds me of something a friend told me....


I am TRI Sexual ... I will try everything twice to make sure I don't like it...

 dumont_jeff36

Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 77
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 2/9/2007 1:30:28 PM
Sex fetishes are good for a relationship however group encounters is probably not too healthy for a relationship.
 Petey™

Joined: 1/22/2007
Msg: 78
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 2/9/2007 1:36:11 PM
Amyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy......................you stole my line

I'm tri-sexual......and yes I'll try anything once.... ok twice.......uhhhhhhh err....ok 3 times tops.


Just a reminder ladies it's only kinky the first time
 Chapma17

Joined: 11/5/2006
Msg: 79
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 2/9/2007 1:38:23 PM
And taht ladies and gentleman is exactly why petey is a proud member of the trisexuals!
 tbnamyjones

Joined: 10/1/2006
Msg: 80
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 2/9/2007 2:22:24 PM

Just a reminder ladies it's only kinky the first time


We are supposed to think it is kinky the first time? OM I didn't know this!

I guess I still have a lot to learn... now to find some teachers that can teach me right.
 FKA ~dsl4340~

Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 81
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 2/9/2007 2:43:47 PM
I think there are a few on here that can teach you the art of kinky so you can at least pretend its kinky the first time.............. course it depends on the other person, and what they call kinky, some have NO IDEA of what KINKY can be!
 DJ_Amish

Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 82
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 2/15/2007 11:53:38 AM
Im still a virgin.. anyway want to show me what kinky is?
 class_act27

Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 83
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 2/15/2007 12:05:40 PM
sex fetishes should TOTALLY be shared with your partner.,make sure they are comfortable, and go for it.,why not? It could make both of you really, really happy. :) and I think everyone should try everything once.,just to see because you never know!!
The whole 'group encounters' wouldn't be for those that are expecting more then just a short term relationship. You have to admit MOSt of the people who have 3somes and such, usually end up using that encounter against the partner at sometime down the road..,(now i didn't say 'all' some just are ok with it.,). And once you get at a certain age, well, your sex life doesnt' have to go down the tub, but involving others.,well theres the safety concern, and you just kinda outgrown it.
 tbnamyjones*

Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 84
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:17:43 AM
In light of the newest thread I thought I would bring this back too... It is definately something I hear more and more about anymore.

I do have friends that have an open relationship and they are very happy together.

I think it all boils down to the lines of communication.
 FKA ~dsl4340~

Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 85
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/13/2007 8:16:30 AM
Group encounters are not my thing.... Now there have been some guys that enjoy certain fetishes and well it can spice things up.... You have to be open and COMMUNICATE your wishes, fantasies, thoughts.....
 stacicats

Joined: 3/1/2007
Msg: 86
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/13/2007 8:33:49 AM
TO EACH HIS/HER OWN OPPINION ON THESE ISSUES... I WOULD NEVER TRY TO PUSH ANY OF MY BELIEFS ON ANYONE... BECAUSE THEY ARE MINE..
SO I GUESS I'M NOT REALLY ANSWERING THE ORRIGIONAL QUESTIOIN HERE AT HAND... BUT JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO THEIR OWN OPPINIONS, LIFESTYLES, RELIGIONS...ECT....ECT...
HAVE A GREAT DAY....
STACI
 Killerdad100

Joined: 10/13/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2007 4:05:33 AM
As normal i am in the tale end of these discussions. Though this is a topic I know a bit about.
In two separate relationships and as a single I have lived in a swinging lifestyle. (Open marriage), Which is all based on respect. If the limits of all concerned are met the lifestyle can be fullfilling and fun. If not Then things go wrong. The internet has made this lifestyle florish, Though I dought it to be a good thing.
Fetishes are another thing. They used to be a secret passion between lovers. With the internet they are everyday practices. Again I dought this to be emotionally healthy. In my opinion Love and commitment is the way to go in life. When the desiree to change that commitment has become too strong. Honesty is the way to go. If not its called cheating. know matter how you smell it.
 N*Love

Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 88
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/11/2008 11:22:36 PM
YES... Just make sure you find a perfect partner who's into it as much as you...

*** NOw that is hard***
 Gunner57

Joined: 4/17/2007
Msg: 89
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/12/2008 10:10:31 PM

I have encountered a few guys that have enjoyed this lifestyle and have found memories of this aspect of their marriage.


fond memories???



ahhhh yes reminiscing about sexual adventure of days gone bye...........
bringing couples together.
 climbsagain

Joined: 1/20/2008
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Posted: 3/13/2008 3:16:01 PM
Are couples that are into this lifestyle couples as defined by most people dating? How would you define a couple that enjoys this lifestyle? For that matter how would you say there is a rel;ationship between two people if they have sex with as many people as they can.
 tmvg76

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 91
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/14/2008 5:43:29 AM
Alright, just once I'd like to try a 3some....ME and 2 MEN....i can always seem to find one willing participant, it's that second man that I have the problem finding....HELL, I don't want them to be into each other,,,,I want them to be into ME....
 countrytat

Joined: 2/1/2006
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Posted: 3/14/2008 5:44:06 AM
OMFG ...i love the honesty!!!!
 ddee4u

Joined: 4/9/2007
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Posted: 3/14/2008 6:17:11 AM
You go TMVG!!!!!
lol
ok my answer is plain and simple I DON"T SHARE!!! Was never good at sharing, never will be.
open marriage forget it!
fetish those are secrets, that I only know (if there is any)!
 Wavfact

Joined: 4/6/2007
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Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/14/2008 11:13:11 AM
it's that second man that I have the problem finding


How can I resist not posting a comment about that quote!?!?

Ah, to hell with it.... you haven't asked me!

I'm weak and couldn't fight off the posting urge..
 Wavfact

Joined: 4/6/2007
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Posted: 3/14/2008 11:17:04 AM
Got one of those joke emails in today, doesn't really fit here, but sort of..

A man wakes up in the hospital, bandaged from head to foot. The doctor comes in and says, "Ah, I see you've regained consciousness. Now, you probably won't remember, but you were in a pile-up on the freeway. You're going to be okay, you'll walk again and everything, but.....

Something happened. I'm trying to break this gently, but the fact is, your willy was chopped off in the wreck, and we were unable to find it."

The man groans, but the doctor goes on, "You've got $9000 in insurance compensation coming to you, and we have the technology now to build you a new willy that will work as well as your old one did - better in fact! But the thing is, it doesn't come cheap. It's $1000 an inch."The man perks up at this.

"So," the doctor says, "it's for you to decide how many inches you want. But it's something you'd better discuss with your wife. I mean, if you had a five inch one before, and you decide to go for a nine incher, she might be a bit put out. But if you had a nine inch one before, and you
decide only to invest in a five incher this time, she might be disappointed. So it's important that she plays a role in helping you make the decision."

The man agrees to talk with his wife. The doctor comes back the next day.

"So," says the doctor, "have you spoken with your wife?"

"I have," says the man.

"And has she helped you in making the decision?"

"She has," says the man.

"And what is it?" asks the doctor.

"We're getting a new kitchen."
 anarius

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 3/14/2008 12:21:21 PM
Could be a little of both...It's enough pressure to satisfy one partner let alone service multiple partners in a tryst....definitely too much pressure.
 tmvg76

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 97
Sex fetishes and group encounters... Good or bad for a relationship?
Posted: 3/14/2008 1:06:49 PM
DENNIS...that was GREAT JOKE...lmao....thanks for the laugh....
So...are you offering up your services, then....lol
 John4EverYours

Joined: 8/1/2007
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Posted: 3/16/2008 7:27:04 PM
Tina ~ you are very bad.....
but ~ I need two also ~ but of the female side of course.....who knows maybe three ~
Dennis ~ you go man!!!
 DesertFox3

Joined: 8/6/2005
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Posted: 3/19/2008 3:22:53 PM

In today’s world is not uncommon for people to explore their creative side of their sexual desires.


Only DSL could come up with this one!... BTW, where is she?? off on a tyrst or has she finally found "the one"?
 tmvg76

Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 3/19/2008 3:31:05 PM
DSL...so very true....and FUN...
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