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Posted: 1/8/2008 11:04:42 AM |  ~~~~~ I didnt know we had 2 brains ~~~~~~~ | |
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| what women want ?
Posted: 1/8/2008 12:32:06 PM | Men don't have 2 brains, they just get parts of the body mixed up and think they have 2 brains, however, they forget how to use the one real brain above the shoulders.  Sometimes I wonder if they even know how to use it. | |
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Posted: 1/10/2008 1:15:41 AM | A honest man, a good man, one who loves Jesus Christ and his family and friends. I want a man with the HIGH MORAL CHARACTER. One who has the old fashioned way of loving and caring for HIS woman I want a man who can accept me just like I am...Totally IMPERFECT...cause I wouldn't expect him to be PERFECTION at this age in any shape, fact or form...
I want a man that desires a woman, that knows the meaning of words such as love, honor and cherish..
Perhaps it is the real fact, that we (ESPECIALLY THE LADIES OVER 40)are seriously searching for a MAN of SUBSTANCE. One who doesn't mind if we are imperfect in looks, and size and have some mature marks of living a good and honorable life that are easily noted. He might be a great lover- but then a MAN of this Caliber doesn't have to get laid to know what he sees and is getting to know in all ways is WELL WORTH willing wait for the completion of a deeply satisfying sexual relationship. It is a complete package of good stuff, not a walking talking lying time bomb that you would never dream of introducing to your friends, much less your family... and if a MAN wants some thing special--then-he should have enough tack and social behaviors to show restraint!!!!
....If you want the WHOLE MAN or WOMAN- you have to be willing to invest in TIME, CONVERSATIONs, activities for mutual enjoyment and for sure -and not be ashamed that you have decided you can love someone who is a size 14......PERFECTION isn't neatly bundled into a package----and neither is a SATISFYING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS...SEX is good, but SEX without heart felt emotions is a temporary oasis in physical activity.....PERSONALLY it is not worth the trouble, the aggravation or the time to have it......I mean why waste time on something that is like reading last weeks newspaper----It is dead and gone and didn't mean a thing !
Sex with emotions can quit literally ROCK your WORLD....MAKE THE SUNSHINE AND THE HEART HUM---
I THINK I RATHER KNOW A MAN FIRST.....
Yeah--think I want a man of morals, character and the Integrity to be PROUD of WHO HE IS---and
knows how to keep his JIGGER in his JEANS...
Cause I am the type of woman--I want ONLY the BEST---and that doesn't include free lance sexual INTERCOURSE with a one night
stand who will GLADLY SHARE his PENIS with Anyone that will use it.......or let him use them!!!!!.....
AND if you men wonder what Integrity is : SEE, SAY and DO
And I might just be single all the rest of my days---Good Decent MEN are hard to find--especially in this area!
But LISA did say it all!!!
IT IS ALL ABOUT = lies and garbage ===and they will walk right away and visit the next woman in line!!!
AND then they want A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP, get serious fellows!
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Posted: 1/11/2008 3:42:05 AM | I agree with everything Lisa and Cee said   . I might be single the rest of my days, but it's better than having to deal with someone that likes to GLADLY share his penis  .  's you both. | |
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Posted: 1/22/2008 3:53:29 PM | Now, now ladies,
Just chatting with a woman, is long term for some guys. I mean GEE WHIZ, you have to try to have a conversation with one, while your eyes are roving all over her and the next few women in the surrounding area. We women just have a different version of 'long term'. lol | |
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Posted: 1/23/2008 2:47:38 PM | | You are so right an honest man is so hard to come by. Even if they were not of the highest moral character and were at least honest about it. That would be something. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2008 9:12:13 AM | ok...ive been on this site a long time and i read alot of these forums. maybe responded once or twice, but really want to chime in here.
first...my soon to be ex had an affair...just like the ones you see on the soap operas, full of lying, deceiving, manipulating, the whole nine yards. it was, and still is, very painful for me and the kids...the kids cause we are divorcing. was i the perfect man...of course not. i worked two jobs, was in graduate school, i never went out, i didnt snort all my money up my nose, i didnt have to have a bassboat or a big 4 wheel drive truck. i worked, i came home, i planned for our future, i took care of the kids (whick i might add, they have been with me fulltime for 16 months now..).
but honesty...is a two way street. i hear and read a buck of ladies profiles..saying they want this and they want that..no liars, no cheats, no drug addicts....but you know what? maybe if i changed who i am...maybe if i started telling ladies what they WANTED to hear, maybe if i made MYSELF out to be someone im not, maybe if i put MYSELF first...i wouldnt be sitting home alone on weekends (not that i am alone, got the kids), or i would at least have a lady to talk with at night after kids are settled (and house cleaned up).
this is just like high school all over again. the "bad-boy" types are the ones the ladies love. the guys that talk a big game but deliever nothing are the ones who arent lonely....just like high school.
and i liked krissy2887 statement "even if they were not of the highest moral character and were at least honest about it...that would be something"...but again that takes the man being honest about being dishonest.....isnt that like an oxymoron???
oh well....i have to wash my hair tonight so i wont be able to go out and party....wait...im bald....oh, then i must need to shampoo my carpet...wait...i did that already. oh well, at least there is clorox clean-up.....a boys best friend. | |
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Posted: 5/21/2008 4:17:36 PM | Now if we are true to one's self then you will see that a "want" is different then a "need". A want can be defined as: want (the state of needing something that is absent or unavailable)/(feel or have a desire for; want strongly) A need is define as:(A need is the psychological feature that arouses an organism to action toward a goal and the reason for the action, giving purpose and direction to behavior) Now both man and women would do better in my opinion if within the relationship arena we looked for someone that defines the "What I need" and not "What I want" If I or you can find someone that gives you purpose and direction then you will more then likely create an memorable relationship. However if you are looking for that person that will bring that spice of life that little bit of danger that is within reason, that someone who can make you smile with that little thought (naughty or nice) you need to find that person who fills the "want" portion in a relationship. It all boils down to this. Know what you are looking and be true to one's self and what you really want. A long-term relationship is not for everyone and for some it is the perfect solution. Once again just be upfront and honest to yourself and your potential mate.
Take Care
Funblklover
"Life's closet is full of stuff, it is our responsibility to keep the closet clean from time to time" | |
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Posted: 6/6/2008 12:36:13 PM | I hate these generalizations! Women as a whole want different things depending on who they are and what they expect...or rather what they have been shown they should expect through trial and error. People are different. Some women want a lasting relationship and others enjoy the pain of vicious cycles. There really is no black and white here. So many women choose a man based on experience...therefore with little experience comes lower expectations. If they have been brought up in a strong family environment, chances are they will look for that in a mate. That is not to say that all people with good upbringings choose wise partners. And some women with little experience luck out on their first try!
This question about women is an age old question that has never been answered because you cannot do so by taking a whole race, sex, agegroup, etc.... and forming an opinion about all of them. If you take everything as it comes and stay true to how you feel instead of worrying about what is going through every woman's mind, you will save yourself a lot of emotional energy for the person who is really worth renting space in your mind for. | |
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| what women want ?
Posted: 7/1/2008 3:02:38 PM | Every woman is different, of course, and our needs or wants vary as well. Here are some wants or needs that are common for us women:
AFFECTION/ATTENTION (Many women # 1 Need/Want) (and flowers sometimes)
CONVERSATION (To talk and listen to us)
HONESTY/OPENNESS ( tell the truth, if you want just sex... tell me, if you want to get
married... just let me know; if you are nervious, as I am... it is nice knowing that too)
PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS (Yes some of us place how a person looks high on our list of needs or wants. How well you take care of yourself physically. Can you keep up with me. Are you overweight.. pop-belly. When I see Extra Lbs, I next quickly. Some women feel physical attractiveness is not important. )
THOSE FOUR ONLY NAMES A FEW ... Like I didn't add Sexual Fulfillment, which is one of mine. I need sexual compatibility.
My first introduction to this dating site was the SUCCESS STORIES pages. Click on it and see how beauty and overall attraction is in the eyes of the beholder.
Then there is PERSONALITY. Some men personalities, interests and life styles turns me off (like a person who smokes, a heavy sports fan, have an interest in motorcycle riding or guns.) | |
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